That they love Bawdy Talk! First, they were awesome enough to mention HotMoviesForHer in their vlog about sex positive pornography, but what they do in general is pretty awesome. These folks are from the Center For Sexual Pleasure and Health and commit their lives to providing sex education in fun and non-intimidating ways. We support what they do all the way!
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Oh nipples, how I love thee. You adorn chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. No matter who you belong to, I’m always attracted to you. My fingers, lips, tongue and teeth want to be near you always. While reducing one to the little pink, brown, beige, etc buttons isn’t kosher with some, I can’t help but hold a special place in my heart for you.
To love or not to love? Some people love having their nipples played with, some even to the point of orgasm. Others – not so much. They might even find irritating. So, first things first: find out if they enjoy having their nipples loved on or if there are simply some things that are out of the question. What fun would it be if it makes the other person cringe?
Start Slow: As with many things, it is best to start slow. Don’t jump in head first with your tongue flopping out of your mouth like a cartoon character. Take it easy, give a few kisses and gauge the reaction. You’ll be able to tell if it is a bit much or if they want more intense nip action.
Teeth? Well, you definitely don’t want to start with your fangs out. You can never go wrong with asking if teeth are acceptable. If you feel a bit more comfortable a gentle nibble should suffice. Nipples are incredibly sensitive to both pleasure and pain so you want to want err on the side of caution. Let them tell you to bite a little harder. Never assume!
Temperature: It isn’t such a bad idea to make sure your hands are warm before you get all gropey. Cold fingers can be an unpleasant surprise that might make things awkward. But even if it does, just warm up and get back on track. One the other hand, some folks prefer to involve their nips in temperature play. An ice cube, cooled sex toy or hot wax can drive them crazy. Per usual, just ask!
Toppings: This is the one area that I don’t shy away from recommending flavored lube! Sugar and other substances can irritate the nether regions, but tend to fare better when it comes to the upper regions. Nipple skin is sensitive so you might want to test out the waters before dousing them with chocolate cherry lube, but there’s a good chance you’ll be good to go with areola a la mode.
This year I’ll be hanging out all by myself on Valentine’s Day. My boo is out of town, but i’ll be damned if I’m going to sit at home and sulk. That really isn’t my style, anyway. Instead I’m going to go home, make myself a romantic dinner, put on some comfy pajamas and watch my favorite pornos. You probably think I’m just getting paid to say that. Well, I am, but I’m actually going to go home and watch porn. I might as well show my self a little love, right? If you’re alone, or with a friend, I suggest you do the same.
Here are my Valentine porno picks:
Bobbi’s World:This was the first of the Bobbi Starr Productions pornos that I had the pleasure of watching. It is depraved in all the right ways and I love knowing that there is a woman behind all of the madness. Bobbie Starr directs from outside and inside the action giving us a dose of her beautifully perverse mind with some of my favorite dirty birdies including Kim Kane and Danny Wylde. She made the best use curling irons and ball gags that I’ve ever seen.
No Fauxxx: Jizz Lee - There really isn’t ever a time that I don’t love Jiz Lee, but this 6 minute porno quickie hold a special place in my heart. I get to watch Jiz masturbate the fuck out of herself in the bathroom at a night club. She sits on the toilet and gets herself off. Fuck off! It is so hot.
Handyman 4 -This is a another solo masturbation flick, but this one involves boys, 2 of which happen to be Chris Strokes and Dane Cross. They know how to work the ladies (Chris also works the guys), but getting to watch them all alone is a treat for the eyes. Yay for boys with nice wangs!
Vampire Sisters - You may or may not have heard (read) me talk about how director Maria Beatty can do no wrong. This is one of many of her masterpieces. I love this one in particular because it is dark, dirty and satisfies my nerdy love for vampires. There is something about a touch of blood in my porno that puts a poof in my pants. It is beautifully shot and the music is ethereal and totally fitting. Love!
Asa Akire Is Insatiable 2 -I reviewed this movie not too long ago. It won a fuck ton of AVN awards and rightfully so. You never know if certain titles are worthy of such acclaim, but this one definitely does. There is no denying that Asa is a beautiful lady, but man does she like it rough! The opening scene with Nacho Vidal (swoon) is enough to turn you right onto a little puddle of yum. He dominates her, but knows just how to kiss it and make it all better. What I really love is that she discusses each scene and how she felt. I love knowing that performers are into what they’re doing and that they have a genuine love for sex be it sensual, rough or all of it mixed together!
If you’re hanging out solo tonight like me, I suggest getting your porno on. You might as well give yourself a little love!
Welcome to Monday, folks. I hope you all had a lovely weekend filled with rest, relaxation and lots of porno. I am hear to ease you into the work week with a little shared masturbation advice. #4 is simply just a good reason as to why you should share your masturbation time. Regardless, I hope you enjoy.
1. Watch and learn: Here is your chance to see your partner in action. Watch their every move and see what gets them going. You may discover a few things that will help you do an even better job of getting them off. Do they favor one side of their clit? Do they go for long slow thrusts or short quick g-spot stimulating movements when playing with a dildo?
2. Give a little demonstration: Verbal communication is awesome and definitely gets it done in the bedroom, but sometimes it’s easier done than said. If verbalizing your preferences doesn’t come naturally to you, this is a good chance for you to simply show your boo what you like.
3. Direction: If you happen to be the opposite and love to chat and communicate, go ahead a give a little direction. It is fun to take control and give explicit instructions on exactly what it is that you would like to see. Your partner could very well enjoy acting out your every wish.
4. Remix: Like many things in the world of sex advice, shared masturbation is simply a good chance to change things up. There is nothing wrong with prying yourselves from each others’ orifices and letting the voyeur or exhibitionist in you do it’s thing. Watching and being watched can make things super intense and damn is it hot.
Pinup girls are so very near and dear to my heart. I myself love getting dressed up in vintage attire and I get all fuzzy over all things old so I thought I would dedicate today’s Top Five Tuesday to all of the awesome pinup porn we have in our collection. We have tons more to choose from, but these are my personal favorites.
American Pinup – I love the mixture of tart and tasty pinup girls and Michael Ninn’s porno vision. His movies are beautifully shot and are treats for the eyes. This movie is all girl-girl and definitely brings any pinup lover’s fatasies to life.
Betty Page – The Naked Truth – I LOVE that we have this movie on HotMoviesForHer. This documentary chronicles the life of the mother of the pinup from how she got started in the industry through her burlesque and fetish modeling days. There is a lot more to Betty than cute bangs and garter belts. You should give it a watch!
Leg Sex Pinups – I’m not sure if it is due to the fact that I’m a lean mean 5 feet tall, but I love watching long legged ladies get there sexin’ on. You can imagine that Leg Sex Pinups gives me what I need along with lots of pinup foot play.
American Pinups Vol 11 – A little different from Leg Sex Pinups, this little porno features darling dames strutting their stuff and stripteasing and pleasing. A tiki babe, a cowgirl and a dressing and undressing brunette bombshell make me smile and feel kind of funny on the inside – no penetration needed.
Box Of Laughter: Dueling Pages – In addition to mile long legs, I also have a fascination with tickling fetish movies. It isn’t necessarily what gets me off, but I love watching it even though it makes me cringe. Tickling drives me nuts, but for some reason a get a kick out of watching it happen to other people. Anyhoo, I have yet to watch this Maria Beatty flick, but it will definitely be getting reviewed in very near future!
I don’t know about you, but it sure is cold here at the HotMovies4Her headquarters in Philadelphia. There is ice everywhere and I just can’t seem to warm up. No amount of hoodies, hats, scarves or gloves is ridding me of this chill that I feel all through me. This has inspired my top four sex tips for today: Sexy Ways Warm Things Up.
Warming Lube: While I don’t necessarily recommend using this stuff for penetration, I like using it on the nipples and perhaps on the exterior of the genitals, or anywhere else you desire. It creates a unique sensation and adds a surprising yet satisfying element of warmth (when you expect everything to be cold in the winter). Some lubes get warmer when blown on or when friction occurs. This creates a whole other set of fun activities! As with all lubes, try and look for paraben and glycerin free formulas to avoid possible irritation. Sliquid Sizzle is a good one!
Sex Toys You Can Heat Up: This is one that I myself need to explore more than I have. If you have any glass, ceramic, stainless steel or even silicone toys, just dip them in a bowl of warm water for a minute or two and pull out a nice cozy heated toy. These materials, except maybe silicone, are generally pretty cold on their own so warming them isn’t such a bad idea any time of the year.
Wax Play: There is no question that dripping hot wax on your body will damn sure warm you up a bit! If you’ve never ventured into such territory, there are few things you should know: when you are first starting out, only use candles made especially for wax play. This ensures it won’t be too hot. Never use beeswax. It will hurt! Hold the candle far above the above the person you’re dripping on, this way the wax will be a bit cooler. Avoid areas near the eyes and hair as wax tends to splash. Always test a small amount on the skin to make sure all is well. There is a lot more to this, but this is a good base layer of information to get you going!
Sex with Your Clothes On: This is my favorite tip. I think it is super hot to see what you can do while you’re completely clothed. While it may seem prudish to some, I find it to be totally erotic. Plus, it changes the game a bit. You have to think creatively instead of going for your same old moves… And you stay warm.
There would be some amount of ironic humor (or something) if the sex positive porn site ladies wrote their blog posts from this chair. Sure, we’d sit on it at the same time. Did you think we had separate desks and chairs? The fine piece of furniture was designed in 1969 by Allen Jones. Via The Frisky
I have to confess that J.D. is out of town and I’m just assuming she wants this chair.
Surprise! In honor of the upcoming 2012 AVN Awards, this week’s Top Five Tuesday is packed full of the noms that I love. Yes, there are more of you that I want to take home and keep for myself, but I am limited to 5 so work with me. I ‘m not going to yammer on here. Just check out my picks and feel free to let me know who you love!
Belladonna: Sexual Explorer – As soon as I layed my eyes on this title, it was my pick for Best All-Girl Group Scene. I reviewed it not too long ago and it quickly made it’s way to my must-watch-again (and again and again) list. There is definitely chemistry between these ladies and you can tell they are enjoying themselves and each other the way they would if the cameras weren’t rolling. Besides, it’s a Belladonna porno. You can’t go wrong.
Bobbi Starr – I am LOVING all of the movies coming from Bobbi Starr Productions. I have always admired this lady for her porno performing skills, but there is no doubt the she deserves to be in the running for Best Director – Non Feature. She is pervy and smart. It is a match made in my porno heaven. All of her work is stellar, but she happens to be nominated for Shut Up and Fuck. Watch it!
Andy San Dimas – Look, she’s just hot. Plus she is down for getting it on all the time. I never second guess whether or not she likes her job. She is a professional, but definitely puts her whole self into her pornos. I have mad respect for her and I totally have a crush on her. Andy is nominated for Best Actress.
Tristan Taormino’s Rough Sex 3: Adrianna’s Dangerous Mind – If there is one movie on the list that I not only love watching, but also hold near and dear to my heart, it would be this one. J.D. and I reviewed this porno scene by scene. I feel like I spent quality time with it, got to know it, had it over for coffee, etc. Rough Sex 3 is over the top fantastic. Watching rough sex scenes spun from the mind of the beautiful and talented Adrianna Nicole is empowering and a total turn on. Nominated for Best Group Scene, this is one movie that will always and forever remain on my “best of” list. P.S.Tristan Taorminois the bomb. Just sayin’.
Oral sex is one of the most intimate acts one can perform on another person. Taking them into your mouth puts you both in pretty vulnerable position, but it can be an amazing experience for you both. Plus, sucking cock is just plain fun. Here are some oral sex tips to help you give the best blow j ever! I am referring to penis blow jobs in this edition of HotMovies4Her Sex Tips,but I am all about strapped on cock sucking and you can totally apply most of these tips to that as well!
Get it wet: Saliva saves! Getting your mouth and his cock super wet makes everyone happier. You don’t have to have porn sized amounts of bodily fluid everywhere, although you certainly can, but enough to allow for a nice glide will totally do the trick. Remember, penises are sensitive. Smooth is good. Plus, a lot of slip will make it even easier to work them over!
Hands: Switch it up and get your hand(s) involved. The addition of a hand or two covers a little more cock surface area and feels fantastic. A little stroking action also helps at those times when your mouth could use a little rest, but you want to keep the party going!
Balls: Play with them. Some people rather enjoy licking and sucking on the two berries, but there are always other options. A soft caress or even just gently holding them in the palm of your hand while your mouth takes care of his member can really drive him crazy in the best possible way.
Rhythm: While you definitely want to change it up and try different techniques, stick with one particular rhythm for a bit, especially if you can tell he is super into it. Go ahead and experiment, but know a good thing when you sense it! Let him get into the groove with you. Let yourself really connect with what you’re doing and enjoy it.
This really just scratches the surface of how to give a great blow job. I didn’t include this in the 4 tips, but communication is always key! If you want to know what he wants/likes just ask! Body language and moans are great indicators of what is working and what isn’t. If there is something you need or want, don’t be afraid to let him know.
It’s that time of year when everyone makes promises to themselves in hopes of becoming a better them. You’ve probably seen plenty of New Year’s Resolution lists, but have you seen one with corresponding pornos to help you out along the way? Below are some common resolutions with their corresponding dirty movies to help get the ball rolling on making this year awesome. Or at least making an attempt at it!
Workout More: We all want to work out more, especially after enjoying all of the treats and adult beverages that the holidays lend themselves to. If you’re like me, you’re spent some quality time on the couch and it’s about time to get moving! Sure, sometimes it can be hard to get inspired to work out, but I’m thinking a Naked Workout just might be the push you need!
Quit Smoking: This was definitely one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done in my life, but I am so glad I did! I’m not saying that Julie Simone’s Smoking Interviews 3 will help you kick the habbit, but it sure is the next best thing to inhaling when you’re really jonesing for one!
Be Happier: There is something to be said for enjoying life a little more. Stop, smell the roses and watch some porn. Live the life you love, etc. The folks in This Ain’t Happy Days XXX seem to it down.
Travel: I can never really do enough of this. I would have loved to have followed Joanna Angel and James Deen on their European Vacation. They did have a few snafus along the way, but they damn sure had some amazing sex!
Get Organized: I know I could use a little organization in my life! I always say I’m messy because I’m creative, but I’m thinking it’s high time to get things in order. Or I could watch Organize For Action in all of it’s old school goodness. I know this is a different type of ”organize”, but I’m working with what I got here!
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