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13 XXX Movies With An All-Black Cast

This year I’m not going to talk about how black people are underappreciated in the adult entertainment biz, how actors and actresses are still fighting for more than the usual stereotypical roles, how payment is unequal for black performers, how dark-toned women are still promoted less than lighter-skinned black women, or that IR scenes only focus on the white perspective. Nope, you won’t catch me ranting this time people (nobody listens anyway), instead, I want to point out the directors, studios, and movies that did something rare: featured an all-black cast. Whether we want to admit it or not, everybody knows what’s wrong and unfair when it comes to all minorities in this business, so here are some examples of what’s right!

1. Pure Ebony

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Pure Ebony from Paul Woodcrest and New Sensations is a hit and already listed under the studio’s most popular section. Jax Slayher and Nia Nacci own the hot clip, but don’t sleep on Evi Rei and Jason Brown in the 2nd clip. The camera work is perfect and the pair look stunning against that all-white background!

2. True Black Romance

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MimeFreak and Archangel want us to know what True Black Romance looks like, and the result is fantastic. Aaliyah Hadid, Daya Knight, Demi Sutra, and newcomer Jordy Love star alongside OG Sean Michaels, [Rico Strong]](/porn-star/27250/Rico-Strong.html), John Long, and heartthrob Isiah Maxwell. You see where I’m going with this… with a cast like that, you know already know the sex is hot. There’s a little more kissing and rubbing for the romance effect, but the down-and-dirty mixes in well.

3. Bethany

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I can’t say enough about Bethany Benz. She has everything you look for in a porn star, from her gorgeous body, to her willingness to take on any role. She’s worked with major studios when they were in their prime like Freaky Empire and West Coast Productions, and even stepped in to mainstream showbiz with an appearance on VH1’s For The Love Of Ray J. Her business-savvy appears to be top-notch, and I was beyond hype to see her as a title star with her own feature! Bethany has been around since 2010 but this is the her first filmed blowbang and gangbang scenes, and the girl put in work! Most readers already know I’m not into blowjobs, but I do love a hard-working woman, and Bethany pulls off all the stops getting loads out of Donny Sins, Eddie Jaye, Jack Blaque, and Slim Poke.

4. Black Rain 2: Sistas Squirt

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I thought squirting was a medical disorder before I started working here. I remember laughing as friends talked about how some chick squirted all over their face the night before. Turns out that shit is a fucking talent! When I finally decided to check it out I became fascinated with the idea that I could finger a girl to squirt. I had power and I was determined to use it and I think that’s why Chanell Heart and Ricky Johnson have the “hot clip” in Black Rain 2: Sistas Squirt. Ricky fingers Chanell on the couch, making sure to hit all the right pressure points, licking her clit, making eye contact, and enjoying the entire thing, making this scene incredibly sexy and must-watch!

5. Sweet Sista

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Sweet Sista is a light and colorful flick from Eye Candy. Daizy Cooper and Ray Black in clip three was my favorite. Daizy is nasty as fuck, choking and gagging on his huge dick, and Ray fucks her like he’s been trying to get in those guts for years! One look at Daisy and it’s easy to see where all that passion came from. She’s fine as all outdoors and always looks like she’s having a good time.

6. Black Babysitters 4

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Diabolic really hit a sweet spot with Black Babysitters 4. Everybody wants to bang a babysitter at some point, and when I was growing up all mine were black, so this is literally as close to that dream come true as I’ve ever been. I feel like Mike Quasar directed this one especially for me and I encourage the world to share my joy! The women are beautiful, the guys are ready to fuck, the sets and camera-work are brilliant (Mike gets all up in the action), and the acting definitely propels the fantasy!

7. Dark Divas 2

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I absolutely love Dark Divas 2, and I’m stoked for Volume Three, which is rumored to be hitting the streets this year. Devil’s Film struck gold when they enlisted David Lord to cast and direct this one. I focused a lot on the lighting and makeup while watching this movie and I was happy with the way skintones showed up onscreen, as well as the camera angles used. Kinsley Karter‘s scene with Donny Sins stood out to me because she’s new to porn, and I was not disappointed! The scene opens with Kinsley modeling for the viewer and this girl’s body is bad! Nice tits, slim waist, and a phat ass are all checked off before you even hear her sweet young voice. Do yourself a favor and remember her name.

8. Black On Black

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BAEB is showing us what Black On Black illustrates and it doesn’t have anything to do with crime! Each scene has its own little plot buildup to get the fantasy going, and I suggest starting with Clip Three, featuring Anya Ivy and Jay Savage working out and getting all sweaty before fucking each other’s brains out. Anya is sexy as fuck with her clothes on stretching and jogging around town, but when they come off, watch out! Jay never stood a chance, and I think he’s okay with that.

9. Black Stepsisters

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Family taboo is not for me, but tell me I get to watch the incredibly stunning Ana Foxxx fuck the life out of Isiah Maxwell, and I’m there! Now, I know I’m biased because Ana is on my obsession list, but I feel backed by the fact that this is the hot clip of Black Stepsisters. The two meet up in their backyard by the pool and twist and turn in and out of every position imaginable, even standing up at one point, and it sets the tone for the rest of the movie. The entire flick is high energy and good chemistry with a great cast.

10. Black Booty Worship Vol. 4

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Booty is something we take very seriously in the black community and it is an extreme source of pride. Booty of all shapes and sizes has a place on the chart, but big, round, plump booty is queen of them all, and the Black Booty Worship series makes it a mission to display and explore as many big round asses as possible! It’s no small task. Great booties like Jenna Foxx‘s don’t walk into casting offices everyday, and they can’t be taken for granted. None of this is lost on L.T., as he fucks Jenna while gripping and smacking her ass before nutting all in her mouth.

11. Young Black Starlets

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Actor and director L.T. put together an amazing showcase of young up-and-coming black starlets under Elegant Angel in 2017 and the cast is brilliant to be so young and new! The entire movie is full of natural chemistry and high energy, things that can be hard to get out of new stars, but there’s no doubt the best was saved for last. My boo Honey Gold and Amethyst Banks team up to take L.T. down in a freaky hotel sex scene.

12. Black Lesbian Love Lessons

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Filly Films is a go-to lesbian studio because they usually get it right, which is definitely the case with Black Lesbian Love Lessons. Sexy, curvy, horny black women touching and licking all over each other is my type of get-together, and cover models Christie Sweet and Marie Leone are definitely worth the wait.

13. Black Girlz 4

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Last, but certainly not least, is DarkSide Entertainment‘s Black Girlz 4 featuring Cassidy Clay getting her pussy pounded by Julius Ceazher in the very first scene. I was stuck looking at Cassidy’s perfectly round oiled up ass the entire time and wasn’t surprised at all when Julius came inside her pussy while hitting it on the couch. There’s no way I would have been able to pull out either!

Check out these titles and more all-black casted movies here on HotMoviesForHer, and let us know what you think in the comments sections!

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9 European Male Porn Stars to Swoon Over

So often when we talk about the adult industry, we neglect to mention the wonderful companies, stars, and films that come from the other side of the Atlantic. Yes, folks – the U.S. is NOT the end-all-be-all of XXX. Not only does Europe produce some of the hottest adult content, but their male stars are of a caliber that the American porn market is sorely lacking. Don’t get me wrong, I love me some Chad White or Michael Vegas, but a lot of the sexy stars I associate with American porn weren’t even born here… looking at you, Manuel! When watching films from studios like Marc Dorcel or Private, it’s kind of hard for me not to notice how gorgeous a lot of their male stars (or should I say models?) are. So, as such, get to know a few of our favorite Euro-babes that the discerning porn fan cannot be caught sleeping on any longer!

1. Juan Lucho


Hailing from Catalonia, Spain, Juan Lucho began his career as a model and male stripper. Lucho’s impressive uncut member soon drew him into the world of adult film and fans of attractive men everywhere are thankful!

2. Luke Hotrod


Professional musician/tattooed porn stud Luke Hotrod came to the adult industry through his musician ties. When he isn’t filming, the dreamy Hotrod can be found strumming on his guitar, as well as everyone’s heartstrings!

3. Danny D.


Danny D. is tall, lean, and a certified fucking machine. With his 10.5″ cock, this Brit is pretty much a dreamboat for anyone who likes being dwarfed by their partner. Size queens and lovers of handsome men in general can find plenty to swoon over with this guy!

4. Mike Angelo


I have a thing for tattooed men, and Mike Angelo is one handsome inked dude. On top of just being plain sexy, Angelo is French, which means you know he has a killer accent. Total package!

5. Gabe Tonic


Spanish stud Gabe Tonic is a sight for sore eyes when it comes to porn actors. I’m much more fond of a contemplative bearded hottie than a ripped, muscular fuck machine. But maybe that’s just me.

6. Ryan Ryder


Ryan Ryder is a gentlemanly Scottish redhead with a fit body able to fuck his costars into a stupor. His acting skills have always been complimentary to his sex scenes, and it’s clear the Scot-hottie takes pride in every performance he brings to the screen.

7. Miguel Zayas


With his full, sexy beard, tattoo sleeves, and girthy uncut cock, it’s pretty safe to assume that Miguel Zayas is everyone’s type. The seriously handsome Spaniard should film more often for all of our sakes!

8. Alex Legend


Looking at his filmography, you wouldn’t know that Alex Legend is a French ex-pat. This tatted dreamboat often films with American studios and can be seen canoodling often with girlfriend Penny Pax on social media.

9. Dean Van Damme


Dean Van Damme? More like Dean Van DAMN. When he isn’t filming, Dean can be found power-lifting insane amounts of weights. Hard work pays off, because his body is out of this world.

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Judy Hologram’s Favorite Artsy Fartsy Anal Scenes

When I graduated from art school, no one had even looked at my butthole in years, nor did I ever think that I’d wind up watching porn for a living. Yet here I am now, talking butt stuff and gapes with the best of them. It’s well known that there’s tons of crappy, basic trash movies in the porn world, so it’s always a treat when a fuck flick tickles my right brain. This is especially true when anal is involved; anal tends to get a bad rap with civilians for being what only the grossest of bros could ever want to do. Some scenes prove that anal fucking can be pretty, valuable, erotic, and downright artistically presented. Here’s my favorite artsy fartsy anal scenes!

The Art of Anal Sex 2 – Zoey Monroe, Karla Kush, and Manuel Ferrara

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If you’ve got the word “art” in your title there’d better be some kinda woo woo going on in there. All-anal studio Tushy is known for their naturally lit butt fucking scenes, with hot dudes, gorgeous lingerie, and participants who get their fantasies fulfilled instead of crying out in pain. Here we have a kind of typical corny porno set-up; Karla and Zoey are bickering step-sisters, and Karla demands that Zoey doesn’t fuck in the house while their parents are away.

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But when Karla tries to blackmail Zoey with footage of her blowing Manuel, she finds out that she’s not such a prude after all. Manuel takes control and seduces Karla pretty quick, ending a mercifully short plot setup and delivering us straight into the anal fuckery. The dirty talk from Zoey and Manuel here is glorious as they turn Karla into a butt slut, and the whole thing is just beautifully filmed.

Art kid who will jerk it to this: has a tasty trust fund and a cushy internship at a Chelsea gallery.

Girl/Boy 2 – Dana Vespoli and Markus Dupree

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If you’ve ever read this blog in your life, you’ve probably caught onto the fact that we’re all obsessed with performer/director Dana Vespoli. This summer she brought us Girl/Boy 2, one of my favorite movies of the year, which opened with an analtastic tribute to the late, great David Bowie. Dana and Markus don Aladdin Sane/Ziggy Stardust inspired make-up and genderbending suits and dresses in a minimalist set, and then Markus fucks Dana’s ass.

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I think Andi’s review of the scene said it best: “At times Dana is submissive and pleads with Markus, and at other times she is definitely in charge. Just like the Starman, Dana and Markus create a scene in which they ask the audience what it means to be a boy or a girl. Is it how we like to have sex, or is it the clothes we wear?”

Art kid who will jerk it to this: studies the work of Carolee Schneemann and has a great vinyl collection.

Abella – Abella Danger and Manuel Ferrara

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Mason is arguably the greatest living gonzo director. Her intense interviews humanize her porn star subjects while also celebrating their enviable bodies and seemingly super-human sexual prowess. The second scene of this summer’s star showcase Abella opens with an interview with its wunderkind star Abella Danger as she candidly discusses how much she loves her job, but also how she’s had difficulty finding true romantic intimacy outside of work.

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Her scene with Manuel takes place in an old, empty warehouse loft lit by a single skylight, with ass slaps and moans and gasps echoing off the bare brick walls. Their chemistry is spectacular; they go at each other at a frenetic, hungry pace, Manuel murmuring commands while Abella begs for him to fuck her. They hold each other tight and hardly ever break eye contact. It’s incredibly intimate, especially for a super hardcore gonzo anal scene, and the way that they hold each other at the end is gorgeous and sweet.

Art kid who will jerk it to this: just wants a life partner to share their converted factory loft with.

The Submission of Emma Marx – Penny Pax and Richie Calhoun

The Submission Of Emma Marx - Penny Pax and Richie Calhoun

The sudden popularity of the problematic 50 Shades Of Grey series brought a sudden rush of people who were suddenly interested in BDSM relationships without any idea of how that should safely be implemented. There were many XXX movies that tried to capitalize on it, but none did it more successfully than The Submission Of Emma Marx from director Jacky St. James. The third scene is a montage of Emma’s training under Mr. Frederick, beginning with him presenting her with an anal training kit and assuring her that they will never do anything that she doesn’t consent to.

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It’s everything that 50 Shades should have been, and its depiction on screen is sublime. After training her ass to take a cock over a period of weeks, Emma begs for Mr. Frederick’s cock while he teases her in his office, warming her up until he very slowly enters her from behind. Penny, Richie, and Jacky all put in some of their best work here, resulting in one of the most romantic, erotic anal scenes in porno history.

Art kid who will jerk it to this: the thirty-something grad student who left a high paying office job to pursue graphic design.

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Judy Hologram is the art kid who jerks it to other art kids. You can follow her on Twitter @JudyHologram and the rest of us @HotMoviesForHer.

Don’t Yuck My Yum: Sloppy, Wet Blowjobs

Sloppy Head 7 Jonni DarkkoIf you’re like me, your taste in porn is probably pretty eclectic. I’d assume if you’re reading this you are familiar with HotMoviesForHer and have read about the vast access we have to not only “for women” movies, but also global producers, old loops, and new releases. In this series I will be talking about some of the porn that could easily come under the umbrella of male gaze content, and at worst be considered misogynistic. The reason for this examination is due to that conflict that many people have about their preferences for adult content and the stuff they don’t like. Porn is a hot topic, and how do you defend it when there is stuff out there you think is gross? This brings to mind a saying that has become popular in sexual discourse; “Don’t yuck my yum.” It’s a simple message that has been pretty helpful for me in conversations about stuff I like and stuff I don’t like to watch. Also, watching porn and enacting porn are two different things, so for the sake of this series, we’ll be focusing on watching porn.

Which, brings me to our first topic: sloppy, wet blowjobs and cum bubbles. Yeah, I’m going there first. At some point in the 1990s, blowjobs went from deep-throating to gagging, and then everyone had mascara running down their faces and they were eating cum out of dog bowls. OK, not everyone was eating cum out of dog bowls, but blowjob performances started to become a bit more vigorous, and there is a certain expectation for drama when we watch them now.

These examples are from two different studios that are known for different genres, but the point is that there is a huge difference in the way blowjobs were presented on screen in the 1990s, and how blowjobs are definitely more aggressive now.

The Wet Food series from Jonni Darkko  is an example of what was emerging in the blowjob genre in the early 2000s,  and it is definitely the kind of content that outsiders critique as far as the role of women in porn. This series started in 2007 and the first release starred some of the top performers of that time. In my opinion, Hilary Scott gives one of the best performances I’ve seen her in. This is a blowbang where she is commanding the men to call her names, tell her she is a good whore, and she is controlling the entire scene. She sets the pace for the men, and they take their cues from her.

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Hilary Scott is also in Sperm Diet 2. This movie pushes past the scenes in Wet Food, and is for the serious cum play fan.

I’m also intrigued by the Sloppy Head series, and I absolutely love Karmen Karma’s performance in Sloppy Head 7. This is another blowbang, and she is super passionate the entire time. The evolution from eating cum out of dog bowls to trails of backthroat gunk and spit is not for everyone, but these women are definitely invested in giving the best performance they can.

The gagging, choking instruction, “Be a good mouth whore,” are things that we are told are not good for women. Well, of course I don’t want someone to think it is OK to think about me as only a good mouth whore, but maybe in someone’s personal life they enjoy the separation from their real life role as mother, partner, or worker, and they get to live out a fantasy beyond their normative experiences.  I can’t say what is right for another woman to enjoy, but I can tell you that there is a distinct difference in watching a sloppy blowjob and giving one. In this instance, the viewer gets to explore the fantasy of eating four dude’s cum from the safety of their home, and they never have to act on this fantasy if they do not want to.

Other issues may arise when we compare ourselves to the performers. We critique our own bodies and our own performances, and then turn that critique against the female performers too. Maybe we wait until after we get off to do that, but we may start to wonder, “Who is that girl giving head to all these random men?” Most of the time there are no “random men” in the scene. These are male performers that have been tested, know the studio or director, and often the female performer knows at least half of the males she is performing fellatio on. As a viewer, we don’t want to think about that, we want the fantasy, but then our non-horny mind asks questions that conflict with our libidos. It’s good to question our sexual interests in a way that lets us explore ourselves as sexual people, but it’s not good to shame the people we get off to.

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If you’re looking for some blowjob POV in-between the romantic 90s and the Darkko stuff, check out Brandon Iron’s Load My Mouth series. I really like the Rachel Madori and Penny Pax scenes. Mr. Irons does a good job of showcasing the women in a way that lets you get to know the personality of the performer, and he isn’t degrading. His voice is a little weird at times, but whose wouldn’t be with Penny Pax blowing you?

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Some other series to check out would be Face Painters, facials without the degradation aspect,  and any of Naughty Alysha’s blowbangs. Naughty Alysha is the real deal. She and her husband Adam shoot all their own content and she really loves her life and sex, and she is super out and proud about making her films the best they can be.

While watching these movies, remember that if everyone liked the same things the world would not be as interesting or complicatedly beautiful as it is.

Stay tuned for my next segment of Yuck/Yum when I explore the anal gapers!

Stepdaddy Daydreams Review

From exciting new studio Taboo Dream comes Stepdaddy Daydreams, the go-to family fantasy father figure Tony D’s directorial debut alongside Steven Escolar. This ambitious project in an industry practically overwhelmed by taboo-themed films is a refreshing departure from the aforementioned releases for its unique art direction and subtle, dark undertones.

Life hasn’t been the same for Frank Walter (Tony D) after his wife left him. The only person left that seems to care whether or not he’s okay is his stepdaughter Lucy. Lucy is the only one providing Frank with any kind of comfort, giving him the strength to move on after his divorce. After experiencing lucid, sexual dreams about Lucy night after night, Frank looks into a new type of dream technology that allows him to control and direct his fantasies. Frank is done being the passive pushover; he wants to take care of Lucy while also disciplining her when she needs it.

Because this is a fantasy, the viewer follows Frank Walter’s stream of consciousness as he fantasizes about aspects of Lucy that he desires, depicted by varying types of young women. The part of Lucy is played by four relatively new adult performers. This is an interesting way to show how sexual fantasies develop over a period of time. By using four different performers, Frank Walter’s daydreams become progressively more precise, until he is no longer sure of the boundaries between fantasy and reality.

Scene One: Valerie White & Tony D

As the movie starts the viewer sees Valerie White, a young blonde in a bikini, dipping her painted toenails into a glistening pool. Frank sits on the other side, watching her and the viewer is unsure of their relationship. However, the viewer gets a peek into Frank’s state of mind when we see flashes of Valerie in different states of undress. As she poses for the camera, we begin to hear her talking to Frank. She tells him about a boyfriend she’s seeing and how he makes her feel insecure. We watch Frank move from one end of the pool to sit next to her, and he reassures her that he is a beautiful young woman. Valerie insists that there must be something wrong with her if this boy doesn’t like her. Frank tells her not to worry about young men. Most often, they don’t know what they’re talking about. This seems like a normal conversation between a caring stepdad and his vulnerable young stepdaughter, but as the dialogue continues, the viewer realizes that something is amiss.

The familial boundaries come crashing down within the exchange of two sentences: Valerie says that she knows that Frank’s been watching her, and Frank admits that his feelings for her may have changed since her mother left him. Both are embarrassed by these admissions, but their awkwardness endears them to one another. Soon, they begin to act upon those desires they’ve kept secret, and plunge into a deep and illicit entanglement.

“Lucy” and Frank have an erotic encounter, but the viewer becomes aware that this is not something that actually happened. In reality, Frank is laying on the couch watching TV and thinking about why his wife left him. As we come to find out, Frank’s wife left him because he is utterly and completely boring. He works from home doing some kind of unemployment insurance. His biggest venture out is to the post office and he doesn’t find it necessary to converse with friends and family. He realizes that his life is exactly what his wife said it was: boring.

Scene Two: Kharlie Stone & Tony D

Even though Frank’s life is boring, he does worry about his stepdaughter. Not only did he lose a wife, but she lost her mother. This turn of events could affect any young woman, but Lucy has been going out and not telling him where she’s been going. Her lack of communication sends his thoughts in a spiral and he worries that she might be doing something dangerous. As his thoughts turn towards Lucy’s safety, he begins to fantasize about her defiant nature.

In this scene, Lucy’s rebellious persona is played by brunette beauty Kharlie Stone. Frank asks Kharlie where she’s been all night. He tells her that he’s upset because she didn’t return any of his phone calls. Although he is not her father, he’s still very invested in her safety and her lack of communication is troubling. However, Kharlie is unimpressed by Frank’s devotion and finds his interrogative nature to be amusing. She antagonizes him by asking him if he really wants to know where she’s been. Frank’s head begins to hurt; he sees flashes of Kharlie before his eyes in different sexual positions, and then Kharlie tells him exactly where she’s been. “I’ve been fucking older men every night for weeks.” Frank can’t believe what he’s hearing, and he is unsure if this is actually what Kharlie said to him, but then Kharlie asks him in a naughty voice, “Are you gonna spank me, daddy?”

Scene Three: Holly Hendrix & Tony D

One thing that Frank had always known he lacked was discipline. While he had always seen himself as the provider, as the protector, he knew was not as aggressive and as confident as his wife wanted him to be. Thinking about his career and the attention he paid to getting ahead in his job made him realize that he put all of his aggressiveness into the wrong area of his life. If he could change one thing about his relationship with his wife, he would have been more dominant. He would have been more adamant about his sexual needs and would have expressed his sexual fantasies to her, instead of letting them fester deep down inside.

Lucy’s new incarnation takes the form of bodacious Holly Hendrix, who is a perfect match for the unexpressed aggressiveness of Frank’s latest fantasy. Holly taunts Frank by asking where her mother is, bringing out Frank’s desire to be dominated. While he has always wanted to be in control, this interaction with Lucy as Holly shows the viewer that it is always the submissive who is the dominant party. Holly begs Frank not to wake up from his daydream, but he can’t escape his sad reality.

Scene Four: Reagan Monroe & Tony D

Taking matters into his own hands, Frank decides to research a new dream technology he’s been hearing about lately. Frank speaks to a representative that explains that after implementing the lucid dream electronic, he will have full control of his subconscious fantasies and will be able to revisit them at any time he wishes. Finally, Frank can control Lucy the way he’s been dreaming about, and have her at his beck and call at any hour of the day. Once he gets his hands on the device, he is eager to try it. That night, he makes some time to use the device in the safest way possible. He lays down on the couch, puts the device over his ears, and begins to see bright white flashes that initially confuse him, until he sees a vision of Lucy. Suddenly, everything becomes crystal clear and he can hear Lucy reading to him out of her diary.

This is all too good to be true, as Lucy’s desires seem to mirror exactly what he’s always wanted her to say. Reagan Monroe is perfect as Lucy in this scene because she conveys the illicit desire that a young woman would have for an older, authoritative figure. As Lucy, Reagan is eager to please the man she admires most. As she begins to turn her need for affection from her stepdad into a fantastic validation of their affection for each other.

The lucid dreaming device seems like the answer to all of Frank’s problems. Finally, Frank is able to live his fantasies without endangering any of the people in his life. Unfortunately, Frank has become a danger to himself as he no longer understands the difference between reality and fantasy and his waking or subconscious mind. The viewer, too, has difficulty establishing whether or not the device has helped Frank learn to control his desires or if the device has endangered his health.

This is a HotMovies and HotMoviesforHer exclusive, make sure to watch the end. Tony D’s performance breaks the mold and leaves the viewer wanting to know more Frank and Lucy’s future. Watch Stepdaddy Daydreams now on HotMoviesforHer!


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ZOLA XXX – Lost In The Game

If you’ve been anywhere near the internet in the past 24 hours, you’ve surely heard the tale of how Zola and Jess’s blossoming friendship hit the skids. This absolutely insane story of hoeism, trapping, murder, love, and loss was told entirely on Twitter and spread around HotMovies HQ like wildfire. Zola captured our porno hearts with her gripping adventure saga, beautiful turns of phrase, and entrepreneurial spirit. We want the porno adaptation A$AP, so to make that happen I’m just going to cast it and give y’all an outline of the screenplay right here.

*Editor’s Note: We at HotMoviesforHer did not change nor censor Zola’s tweets although we she uses language that we do not use on our blog. We do not mean to offend, but rather to leave the tweets as they were originally written.


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Zola – Daisy Ducati

Madelyn Monroe








Jess – MadeLyn Monroe

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Jarrett – Deviant Kade

Shane Diesel








Z – Shane Diesel

Misty Stone








Z’s Fiance – Misty Stone

Nathan Threat







Dreads – Nathan Threat

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Zola’s Man – Wolf Hudson

Film Treatment

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Zola meets fellow ho Jess at a Hooters and they bond over their shared hoeism. We’re excising Jess’s sugar daddy because this is porn and we’re being as cheap as possible. Zola is invited on a hoe trip to Florida with Jess. Zola’s boyfriend/sugardaddy/??? is super butthurt and panicking that Zola is leaving him alone all weekend, so she refills his water bowl and fucks him calm, romantically, with a strap on.

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Scene 2

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Zola is picked up for the hoe trip by Jess, Jarrett, and Z. Things get awkward when Zola texts Jess, only to find that Z has the phone, and even more so when the ladies are brought a shitty hotel, but that’s ok, because only Jarrett’s lame ass is going to be staying there. The action moves to the strip club, where Zola has to wear pasties and boyshorts despite being a full nude kind of bitch. Zola and Jess aren’t making much money, so to get things moving, they get gay and have lesbian sex on stage through their bootyshorts because this club has all kinds of rules and shit. END SCENE.

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Z picks up the girls from the club and Jess spills the beans about not making any money, so Z decides that it’s time to trap. But when he turns out to be a terrible pimp, Zola takes the reigns. Fade to an artsy slow mo montage directed by Courtney Trouble of Jess banging like twenty different guys while Zola dances in a snow storm of $$$.

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Zola, Jess, and Z return to the motel to find Jarrett crying to Dreads. Now that the cat’s out of the bag, the squad moves to a nicer hotel and Z tells Zola to keep an eye on Jarrett and leaves. Jarrett acts like a total scrote about Jess trapping and starts punching himself. Zola and Jess tie him up, put a chastity cage on him, and tag team him with strap ons until he quits whining.

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This is where shit gets weird so maybe Dana Vespoli or B. Skow should direct this scene. Z and his fiancé enter just as Jarrett breaks loose and shares Jess’s trap ad on Facebook. OH SHIT. Instead of murdering Jarrett, Z is all benevolent and instead just cuckolds him. Jarrett and everyone else watch Jess suck Z’s dick and get banged from behind. Once that’s over, it’s time for everyone to get cleaned up and get to trapping. END SCENE.

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Z hands a gun and the trap phone off to Zola and tells her to use it if shit goes south. Zola, Jess, and a bewildered, sobbing Jarrett leave to go trap, and Z and his fiancé have a great fuck on the hotel bed on top of piles of money. END SCENE

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We rejoin Zola, Jess, and Jarrett in their car after a night of trapping all over town. One last call comes into the trap phone, and a familiar voice requests two girls for four guys in exchange for $5k. After some negotiation, it’s decided that Jess will join them solo for  $2k. They get to the place and OH SHIT IT’S THE GUY WITH THE DREADS AND HE JUST SNATCHED JESS!!!! While Zola and Jarrett and Z running around to trying to do a rescue mission or something, Jess and Dreads have 100% consensual sex because this is porn and this is how things work. Z comes back to save Jess and OH SHIT HE SHOT DREADS IN THE FACE. END FUCKING SCENE!!!

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The squad returns to Z’s condo where the fiancé is counting stacks. Jarrett cries and tries to jump out the window before Z gets Jarrett and Zola on a plane and they get pick up by Zola’s boo. Weeks later, Jess calls Zola from jail. There’s no more sex because we ran out of production money.


There you go, Porn World, I just did like half the pre-production for you. Axel Braun, please contact HotMovies for info on how to pay me, because like Zola, I’m in this for the $$$.

Judy Hologram would like to thank the Academy when she wins her Oscar for best casting. You can follow her on Twitter @JudyHologram and the rest of us @HotMoviesForHer.

What A MILF Wants: Top 5 Male Porn Stars

If you are anything like me, you know sometimes being a mom can be hectic, to say the very least. After a long day of cooking, cleaning, resolving spats between siblings, getting dinner on the table, and all the other daily tasks it takes to run a household – sometimes Mommy needs a little “me” time…and I’m not talking about a Calgon moment. Yes, a hot, long, luxurious bubble bath, complete with candles and a good glass of wine can be extremely relaxing, but who has time in their busy schedule to take that time out, right? There’s just way too much to do in a single day and wearing that “S” on your chest can get to be downright stressful! What’s a MILF to do when she has limited time to take a timeout for herself? When this mommy needs a little “me” time, I like to relax and relieve by watching a hot stud pound away at a hot chick, and wishing it was me. But I’m not talking about watching just any guy. I’ve got a “Fab Five” list of guys I would love to invite over for a special Mommy & Me play date.

First up is the fabulously freaky Derrick Pierce. I don’t usually go for domination and submission, but this man is so sexy and versatile with his kinkiness he could talk me into ANYTHING from nipple clamps and spankings and whatever he wanted to do! He has a way of making you feel like a sexy lair kitten without the experience being a degraded one. Watch him top Skin Diamond in Adam and Eve’s Legendary Sex Tips:

Next up is Bruce Venture. What MILF wouldn’t want to get down and dirty with the “hunk next door,” as Megan Rain does in Don’t Tell My Boyfriend I’m Cheating 2. If you want to have a clandestine affair…even in your fantasies…Bruce is your guy!

Ladies, if you love a guy who fits the tall, dark, and handsome category with a hint of rogue-ishness, then Tommy Gunn is the man for the job. He’s got the experience and stamina to scratch that itch and then some. He knows exactly what to do with Brooklyn Chase in Cute and Curvy 2 video:

Okay, I admit sometimes fast and hard doesn’t necessarily hit the spot, but when you’ve got Ramon Nomar‘s sexy accent talking dirty to you – lets be honest – what wouldn’t you do just to keep him talking?

Last, but definitely not least is, drum roll please…Xander Corvus. Xander is another one that just strikes me as so adorable it’s almost hard to believe that he’s just so damn nasty…I LOVE IT! And is it just me or when you hear that name you start envisioning your own parody of Evolution?

The Top 14 Hottest DILFs in Porn

With Father’s Day looming before us and plenty of sexy, older men on HotMoviesForHer worth watching, I decided to compile a list of the hottest over-35 male performers currently making porn, and making it well! Age is just a number, and you definitely don’t have to be a father to be a DILF in my book. Without further ado, here are my favorite DILFs in porn today:

2015-06-08_17-16-211. Manuel Ferrara

What can possibly be hotter than a super-hung scruffy guy with a French accent? That’s right-nothing. Manuel Ferrara is a long-standing porn crush of mine. Everything about him is delicious: his furry dad-bod, his commanding sexual performance, and the inaudible things he mutters in French when he’s about to cum. Some things really do get better with age, and Ferrara is one of them! Kayden Kross is one lucky lady.

2015-06-08_17-06-482. Ramon Nomar

This Venezuelan hottie brings his Latin flavor to every performance he’s in. Not typically one to turn up the volume during scenes, I always make it a point to listen to the phrases Ramon Nomar utters while fucking. When he’s not calling his costars “mama,” he likes to encourage the women he’s fucking by showering them in compliments and, of course, spanking their asses with fervor! Once he gets rid of that faux-hawk he’s been rocking lately, I’ll be his “mama” anytime.

2015-06-08_17-07-153. Mick Blue

I’ll admit it-I’ve got a thing for uncut guys. Mick Blue’s penis is not only an uncircumcised masterpiece, but attached to a gorgeous Austrian man with piercing blue eyes-hence the last name. While Blue may be married to Anikka Albrite, I can’t quite say I’m jealous; instead, I’ll just squeeze between the both of them for a chance at this super-DILF!


2015-06-08_17-07-514. Steven St. Croix

A venerable performer with over 15 years in the industry, Steven St. Croix is a DILF-y favorite among the women at HMFH. Croix plays the father figure in many of the plot-oriented films he’s cast in, and it’s easy to see why. Croix’s authoritative presence, mixed with his mature age and delectable, toned physique make a girl want to enjoy the loving care of a decidedly way more experienced man.

2015-06-08_17-08-365. Rocco Siffredi

The incomparable Rocco Siffredi is an Italian Stallion I’d love to ride someday. Siffredi’s lustful enthusiasm and masterful anal scenes make him a favorite performer of mine. Combine his classically handsome look with that huge dick and you have a Euro-DILF for the ages. Not to mention, Siffredi has the cutest dimples ever. Awwuh.

2015-06-08_17-08-596. Lexington Steele

Lexington Steele is not only one of the most well-endowed male performers in recent memory, but he’s got a goddamn gorgeous smile. Steele’s performances are frequently nominated for awards, and he’s got plenty of trophies besides the one in his pants. An educated guy with a dual-degree in history and African American studies; I wouldn’t mind if Steele schooled me sometime. *winky face*

2015-06-08_17-09-257. Derrick Pierce

Derrick Pierce is an avid Crossfit devotee which, if you’ve seen his physique, isn’t much of a surprise. Pierce’s body is a smooth, solid muscle-mass covered in tattoos and most likely capable of fucking you into a coma. I’m not usually into bald dudes, but his “piercing” eyes coupled with his sculpted body are undeniably sexy. Plus, his fetish scenes are really fucking hot. I like a dominant man, and Pierce’s spanking scenes are worth watching even if you aren’t a spanking fanatic.

2015-06-08_17-10-048. Nacho Vidal

It doesn’t get much more caliente than a Spanish man with an 11-inch dick. Nacho Vidal has been a staple in the adult industry for almost two decades, and he’s really aging to perfection. Vidal looks like that one friend’s dad all the girls wanted to fuck in high school. Or like, the sexy older neighbor who you secretly watched mow the lawn every Saturday, hoping he’d pop that shirt off. A man with tattoos is always going to be hot in my book, but he’s also got some pearly-whites that are damn-near perfect. *swoon*

2015-06-08_17-10-489. Kurt Lockwood

Not only does Kurt Lockwood have a toned, bangin’ bod and impressive dick; this DILF-y, tattooed dude can really act. I always find myself mesmerized by Lockwood’s performances in films like B. Skow’s Gardener and Control. Besides his male-model figure and acting chops, Lockwood’s got some street cred as a musician too, having played and toured with Dee Dee Ramone. Who doesn’t love a mature, multi-talented guy?

2015-06-08_17-11-1910. Alec Knight

Alec Knight is pretty adorable. If I hadn’t watched him fuck girls up the butt a lot, I’d probably assume he was a stay-at-home dad or a paperweight collector. But nope, Knight is a straight-up DTF DILF with over 500 movies under his belt and really great sense of humor that makes me want to hang out with him in a sexual way. He used to work on the show Family Guy, which is also very awesome. I love funny, cuddly guys that happen to have big dicks.

2015-06-08_17-12-1111. Toni Ribas

Everyone loves Asa Akira, but Toni Ribas is the only guy worthy enough to lock down the gorgeous starlet. It’s pretty easy to see why; the Spanish stud is a solemn sex-machine. Ribas has spent nearly half his life in the industry, both directing and performing in award-winning movies like the Ibiza Sex Party series. And, weirdly enough, he kind of looks like Sopranos character Christopher Moltisanti, who I always had a crush on.

2015-06-08_17-12-5112. Erik Everhard

Erik Everhard reminds me of those aging boy band members from the 90s who are still pretty cute but have a hard time giving up those frosted tips. I can look past Everhard’s goofy spiked hair when I watch him go down on a girl, because he clearly knows what he’s doing! Plus, he usually maintains some level of scruff on his face in his scenes-an added plus for any girl that loves facial hair (me!).

2015-06-08_17-14-2913. Ryan McLane

Ryan McLane’s body is heart-stopping. I mean, this guy is fit. Beyond his chiseled 6-pack and sexy-sharp hip-bones, he’s got a pretty nice pecker. It’s not overwhelmingly huge, but it’s a nice dick nonetheless. McLane is nice for those slow, erotic scenes that some women enjoy, but I prefer him in a more fast-paced fuck like his scene in the movie, Our Father.

2015-06-08_17-15-0114. Prince Yahshua

Speaking of fit bodies, Prince Yahshua has the musculature of a body builder. Unlike most body builders, however, Yahshua has an incredible 11-inch cock that needs no performance enhancers! But don’t let this hulking hottie’s look fool you; he’s really a gentle giant. After reading a few interviews Yahshua’s done, it’s clear that Yahshua loves pleasing his female costars, and I can certainly appreciate a man that loves giving women pleasure.

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HMFH Guide To Porn For Married Couples

With the recent release of Jacky St. James’ Spicing Up The Marriage, we figured we’d direct all you (heteronormative… I’m sorry queers!) married people to a few other titles that might give you some spicy new ideas to keep the sexy in your relationship! The rad thing about porn land is that it’s where all your wildest fantasies can come true; it’s up to you to decide whether to bring those fantasies off screen and into your bedroom, or store them away in the spank bank. So now, here it is, the best porn for married couples!

It’s The Little Things

Rekindling The FlameJacky St. James mastered romantic vignettes about married couples long before Spicing Up The Marriage. If her latest offering was a hit with you and your partner, definitely check out 2014’s Rekindling The Flame in which four couples surprise each other with erotic and romantic gestures. I especially loved scene one, in which angel faced Siri and Richie Calhoun pretend to be strangers in a bar. 2014 also saw the release of James’ Happy Anniversary, another series of four vignettes about married couples surprising each other. The highlight of this one is scene four, which daddy Steven St. Croix indulges bombshell, all-natural MILF India Summer in a massage.


Dress It Up

Kelly and Ryan Madison Dress UpKelly and Ryan Madison are a real life married couple, and their family business is porn. Whether they’re performing together, separately, or with a third, you always get the feeling that they’re having a blast and living their lives to the fullest. Their entire body of work is pretty excellent, but I found Dress Up, from their PornFidelity line to be particularly fun. I’m a huge fan of Halloween and costume parties, and bringing the playfulness of pretend, imagination, and roleplaying into the bedroom as a prelude to fucking is a great way to keep things exciting, especially for those of you who are in monogamous commitments.


Play With Your Toys

adam and eve sex toys for you and your loverIt’s not like there’s a dearth of pornos featuring sex toys, but they tend to be favored in solo and lesbian movies. If you’ve never incorporated sex toys into your partnered, hetero sex life now might be the time to try! Adam and Eve recently released the instructional Sex Toys For You and Your Lover, which features six scenes that cover toys for hetero couples, lesbians, masturbation for men and women, and even touches on anal play for men. Yes, it’s basically a long ass commercial for their toy line, but it does have a few neat ideas. You can also check out Nina Hartley’s Guide to Sex Toys and Nina Hartley’s Advanced Guide to Sex Toys. If you want to surprise your boo with a toy, look into my post on sex toys as gifts.


Fifty Shades of Beating a Dead Horse

A Beginner's Guide To BDSMIs there really anything else that can be said about the current cultural obsession with BDSM, and the subsequent flood of couples themed fetish pornos? Janie Mack already covered it, and since then we’ve also seen the release Jacky St. James’ lite as a feather Restraint.  If you and your spouse do decide that what your sex life needs is some BDSM, please make sure you know what the fuck you’re doing.


Open Up

The SwingerMy fellow devotees of Dan Savage know all about how humans are not necessarily monogamous animals (he prefers the term “monogam-ish”), and that it’s perfectly normal to want to fuck people who aren’t your spouse. If you and your partner are thinking about opening up your marriage, or if you simply enjoy the fantasy, there’s plenty of pornos about consensual non-monogamy. In porn, hotwifing is when the wife has sex with another man while the husband watches. New Sensations has been churning out vignette movies on hot wives for the past year, starting with I Love My Hotwife and following it up with My Hotwife’s Lover. Things get mildly kinkier with A Hot Wife Blindfolded, and then we see things from the husband’s POV in Watching My Hotwife. If full on swinging is your thing, director James Avalon has a whole series of standalone stories about swinging couples that he made for Sweet Sinner.


Make Your Own Porno Girls And Their Boys 13Feeling inspired? Maybe it’s time you guys pulled out the camera and made some movies of your own! Whether the final product it something to be deleted immediately, kept just between the two of you, or shared with the whole world, filming yourselves fucking each other can be an exhilarating addition to your sex life. If you want some inspiration, or if you simply like the gritty, real look of amateur porn, check out Homegrown Video; their massive collection of homemade smut has something to please anyone. If you prefer amateur porn with a more polished finish, you might like AbbyWinters.Com. The majority of their movies focus on lesbian sex and female masturbation, which is super hot, but in 2013 they started the series Girls And Their Boys, which stars real hetero couples on camera for the first time.

I may be a very, very single lady, but I do know my porn. Whether you and your spouse are in a rut, or if you’re just feeling particularly adventurous, smut can be a great way to jumpstart your fantasies and get you on the path to exploration. Now get out there and get weird with each other!

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Sex Toys for the Holidays

Now that we’re in the midst of the Holiday season of 2014, we’re all scrambling to find the perfect gift for our special someone, or even just a treat for ourselves! Kids aren’t the only people who look forward to finding toys under the tree, so I visited Philadelphia’s Kink Shoppe, a sex positive and gender neutral adult toy and fetish boutique and spoke to Caitlin, a sex educator and customer service representative. She gave me a ton of information about how to go about buying sex toys for your significant other, and had dozens of great gift ideas!

“When it comes to purchasing something for a partner, a lot of people either tend to think about what they want to see their partner using or what they think their partner would like, and if they haven’t had a lot of experience using toys with their partner, that can often backfire. So they might buy something and say, ‘You know, I bought this dildo because it looks like me.’ It can sometimes not be what they want. Usually I’ll tell people that if you don’t have a lot of experience using toys with your partner to think about what they like or ask them what they like and what they want. In terms of buying things for yourself, it’s the same thing. Think about sensations you like. It’s good to experiment with your body and feel around.”

Caitlin also recommends taking into consideration what materials are in your sex toys so as to avoid risk of injury or disease. “Toxins in sex toys are becoming less of a problem now. I know that a lot of toys now use less pthalates, which is a really toxic material that softens plastic and can cause irritation and can possibly lead to problems with your endocrine system. But there’s still toxic materials and porous materials in general; jelly, elastomer, TPR, things like that are still going to degrade over time and get certain bacteria trapped in them. They could potentially transmit an STI or a bacterial or vaginal yeast infection. So generally I tell people that it’s better to keep with non porous materials like silicon, glass, metal, stone, ABS Hard plastic, ceramics, and treated wood.”

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We-vibe touch

Keeping in mind the who, what, where, when, why, and how in mind, I asked Caitlin what sex toys would be good for anyone to gift to a female partner, especially someone who has never used sex toys before. She recommends, you guessed it, vibrators! “A lot of women can’t orgasm without clitoral stimulation, and vibrations are really good for that.” She showed me We Vibe’s Tango and Touch vibrators, two cute-as-a-button Bullet style vibes. The Tango is a hard-plastic bullet that can also fit into toys with bullet sleeves, including We Vibe’s own Pleasure Mates collection, making the versatile Tango perfect for whatever mood strikes you and your lady. The Touch is wider and covered in silicon, thereby giving We Vibe’s powerful motor a softer transmission of sensation.

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LELO Mona 2

If you’re looking for a vibrating toy that can be used either internally or externally, Caitlin points towards the strong and waterproof Lelo Mona 2, whose powerful vibrations will hit both the g-spot and clitoris.

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We-Vibe couples vibrator


What about toys that you and your lady can use together? “Any toy is a couple’s toy,” said Caitlin, “but a toy made specifically as a [straight] couple’s toy would be the We-Vibe, which is a c-shaped vibrator that can be worn during penetrative sex and vibrates against the clitoris and g-spot.” Not going to lie, the We-Vibe is my current dream toy. However, Caitlin does caution that the We-Vibe “doesn’t work for everyone. It might not sync up with everyone’s anatomy, and not everyone likes how it feels, but that’s any toy. There’s no guarantee that somebody’s going to like it.”

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Tantus C-Sling

We then talked about a couple’s toy that I have a little more experience with: cock rings! These guys can give those of you with penises a harder, more sustained erection and you can wear it while your partner present or while you’re having some alone time. In terms of non-vibrating rings, Caitlin recommends the Tantus Super Stretch C-Ring, a stretchy silicone ring that is super inexpensive at about $10. You can also try the Tantus C-Sling, made with a firmer silicon than the C-Ring. This guy has a teardrop shaped base that will stimulate your perineum (taint, grundle, gooch, fleshy fun bridge, etc.) for added orgasmic possibilities!

Jejoue Mio
Jejoue Mio

Vibrating cock rings have gotten me into trouble in the past; whenever I put them on my boo’s cock and turn it on, the ring’s goofy space-age look and the loud vibrations make me think that his dick is a rocket ship, sending me into a fit of giggles. I don’t think that I would have that problem with the elegantly designed and whisper quiet Jejoue Mio. According to Caitlin, “It’s silicon, waterproof, rechargeable, has a really stretchy ring, and it’s really strong. It’s top of the line because it’s more comfortable than other rechargeable cock rings that I’ve seen on the market.”

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Tenga Egg collection

If you’re looking for a stocking stuffer that takes its name seriously seriously, give your guy Tenga’s Egg or Cup! These Japanese masturbation sleeves with keep your penis-owning SO happy while you’re away. The Egg can be washed out and used a few times, while the pre-lubricated Cup is for a single use. These are especially great for a guy who isn’t ready to commit to a more serious sleeve. “The cups would be a good one to start out with because they’re similar to the bigger ones like the Tenga Flip Hole… which opens up so that you can clean it out.”

Tantus C-Sling
Tantus C-Sling

It’s your time to shine, lesbians! “Some lesbians like penetrative toys, others don’t. If you do, I would recommend a strap on harness of some sort.” Caitlin showed me the SpareParts Hardwear harness, which is super adjustable and machine washable, as well as a simple O’Ring Harness which allows you to change the size of the ring and work with whatever size cock you want. From there, you have lots of different options for what cock you like; there’s the super realistic VixSkin line from Vixen Creations, or you can get a totally bonkers fantasy cock from Bad Dragon. Personally, I’m head over heels in love with the beyond cute and friendly looking dildos from BS Atelier.

Vixen Creations VixSkin Line
Vixen Creations VixSkin Line
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If someone in your relationship is a transman looking for a really realistic toy, Caitlin again points toward the VixSkin line from Vixen Creations. “They’re super realistic in terms of texture and look, and they come in a few different skin tones. And not necessarily for sex, but New York Toy Collective makes really nice packers.” Caitlin also showed me New York Toy Collective’s Love Bump, which adds balls to your dildo and includes a bullet vibe. As for transwomen, “It really depends on the person. Any trans person is going to have very varying preferences, and some trans ladies might prefer not to be penetrated. It depends where they are in their transition.”

Tantus Beginner Ball Gag sex toys
Tantus Beginner Ball Gag

If you and your partner are interested in exploring kink and BDSM, Caitlin and I both suggest that you learn about safety first, be it through books, films, whatever. Check out Tristan Taormino’s Guide To Bondage For Couples, Midori’s Expert Guide To Sensual Bondage, and Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Kinky Sex for Couples. Once you know what you’re getting yourself into, try Tantus’ Beginner Ball Gag. “It’s silicon and it fills your mouth, but it has a small base so it doesn’t prop your jaw open too much, which can be uncomfortable.”

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nJoy Pure Plugs

If you want something to put in your butt, check out NJoy’s Pure Plugs and Pfun Plug for the male g-spot. They’re made of weighty surgical stainless steel, with a deliciously bulbous head and a tapered stem for easy retention. Not only that, they’re just gorgeous and super sexy looking.

All of these toys (and many more!) are available at Kink Shoppe in Philadelphia, or at your own locally owned adult store. All of us at HMFH wish you the merriest of sex lives as you head into the new year!

* is one of our favorite sex toy review sites, run by veteran sex toy reviewer Epiphora. We also encourage you to read her awesome holiday sex toy guide from 2013 here.