One of the things I love about my life is that all of the parts of it randomly intersect when I least expect it. I was out the other night and I met a friend of friends that was talking about how she just retired from the porn industry. We talked for a few minutes and she told me that she had shot a bunch for Kink.com, so of course I took to HM4Her to check out that awesomeness, and luckily, we happen to have one of her movies! Hello Mistress Soleli!
I’ll be the first person to say that I don’t review movies with trans women all that often, unless they are queer movies, made by queers for queers. Most of the movies we have featuring trans women are made for hetero dudes and I find them kind of fucked up and exploitative. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t enjoy them if you do – I’m just letting you know my own feelings on the matter. And while Kink.com doesn’t necessarily identify as a queer studio, a bunch of queer stars shoot for them, and I trust that they treat performers well. Hell, from what I can tell, the Armory that they run out in SF is pretty much heaven. Anyway, that’s my initial rant – now let’s get to the sexin!
Kink’s TS Seduction (or Transsexual Seduction) has a newcomer in its midst. Dietrich has not only never been on film before, he’s never had sex with a trans woman and never been penetrated by a cock (in his mouth or his butt). Boy, oh boy is he in for a good time! He calls Mistress Soleli to come over, and come over she does, wearing a tight mini-dress with heels – a combo that offers up her long legs for days. She starts out sweetly with Dietrich, kissing him, having him suck on her nipples, and giving him a blowjob. It seems that Dietrich doesn’t know that Mistress Soleli is trans, so is surprised when she takes her cock out. It only take a second for Dietrich to put her cock in his mouth and go right to town on it. As he sucks, Mistress Soleli gets a little rougher, slapping him in the face and pushing him head down on her cock. She just gets hotter and hotter the meaner she gets. Yum.
Dietrich continues to suck her cock for a long time, all the while stroking his own cock. She handcuffs him and beats him a little with a short flogger before gloving up and sticking her fingers up his ass to warm him up. It’s so much fun watching her pop is ass cherry. Whether or not he really is an anal virgin, it’s definitely believable that’s the case here. Before long her hard cock is thrusting into his tight asshole. I love the upward angle the camera person shoots from, allowing us to see Mistress Soleli’s perfectly painted French manicure cup her balls.
Dietrich can’t seem to get enough, whimpering and moaning the whole time his ass is filled. His dick is as stiff as his little mohawk. It’s sweet and a little innocent how he keeps saying ‘yes Mistress’ with his voice cracking a little. What can I say, I’m a sucker for when porno gets cute.
All-in-all, this is an awesome half-hour flick from Kink.com. And Mistress Soleli, even though you are retired from porno, I am so glad I got to take a look at how amazing you were on screen. Thank you!
Yes, it is possible that you’ve read this review before. J.D. wrote is back in September, but since this movie is nominated for Best Transsexual Release I wanted to repost it. Buck Angel is a good friend of ours and I wanted to show him some love. During my very first week here at HotMoviesForHer I was lucky enough to tag along for an interview. J.D. did the talking, I just held the camera and sat there being star struck. Still, it was a great experience – both educational and just effing awesome. The review is posted below, but you should also check out the interview that I’m talking about. Enjoy! Love, Ginger xoxoxo
When folks think of Buck Angel, I’m sure their first thoughts go to porn star – the man with a pussy. Me? My mind goes straight to educator and activist. Sure, I’ve seen Buck Angel in just about every sexy position I can imagine, but when I get to the crux of his latest work, it’s all about the education and activist. I’ll admit that this may be directly tied to originally watching the non-porno version of this video during Buck’s workshop of the same name, which I was lucky enough to attend when he made his way to Philly earlier this year, but still, Buck’s overwhelming care in bringing awareness to transgender male sexuality makes him so much more than just a porn star (and filmmaker) in my eyes.
Buck Angel’s Sexing The Transman XXX is a collection of interviews and masturbation scenes featuring four different transmen (as well as one last scene that stars Buck and Fallen fucking, sans interview). Each dude talks a little bit about how and who he likes to have sex with, and how his sexuality has changed since starting hormones (T, or Testosterone). During the interviews, Buck also touches on language – what these guys like their genitals called – and gets a little bit of history around their transition and identity, all before having them strip down and get to jerkin’!
I really enjoyed watching all the different ways that each performer got off, as well as the variety in their bits. I think it’s so exciting when folks can talk about all the ways they like to be stimulated, especially if they have already been pigeon-holed by society (such as people assuming that just because a transdude doesn’t identify as a woman the he doesn’t want to be penetrated “vaginally”). It’s also so important for other transguys to see people like them enjoying their sexuality. Never underestimate the empowerment of recognition and the indirect permission that comes along with it. Also, it’s fucking hot watching these four dudes get off. A boner both in my pants and in my brain – my favorite kind.
The one thing that made me a little sad about this documentary is that it only featured transmen that are taking hormones and have had chest surgery. There are so many varied transmasculine experiences that it seems a shame to focus only on guys that fit into this specific category. I assume that Buck Angel made that decision for a reason, so I’m not going to get all frustrated about it, but I definitely wanted to note that these are only the experiences that fit into those boxes.
If you are hot for transmen, curious about the intersections of testosterone and sexually, or both… or just really like watching hot people get off, this is a fabulous addition to the Buck Angel Entertainment library! Thanks Buck!
A while back, HM4Her delved into the fabulous world of adding gender expression items into our pool of general sex toy to review. Yes, we’ve been reviewing dildos and harnesses, which can also fall under the gender expression umbrella, for a long time, but in those instances, they’ve been used during actual sexual activity. The gender expression ‘toys’ that we are highlighting are something a little different. Before I get into the review, let me first explain a bit about gender expression – a refresher for the folks that read our other gender expression toy posts.
Recap: When it comes to breaking down sex, gender and orientation, I’ve always found this nerdy tech analogy to be helpful. Sex = Hardware; Gender = Software; Orientation = Networking. Basically, Sex is the biological body – the physical; Gender is how you feel internally and how you present yourself to the world; and Orientation is the ways you interact with others. In many instances Sex and Gender match up (known as being “cis-gendered”), and in other cases, they do not. When someone’s body/sex assigned at birth do not match up to their gender identity (how they feel inside), some folks decide to live as the gender they identify as, which is called transitioning, or transgendered. And when folks are transitioning, sometimes they use items that help them express the gender that they identify – hence the name gender expression. Now, there is definitely more to it that just that, but as far as the basics go, that should work.
Onward to the review! Up today is the Private Silicone Packer, a packer designed by the awesome folks at Good Vibrations. Ok, time for another quick recap: a packer is a soft dildo that some trans guys (or other gender variant folks) wear to further feel and outwardly express masculinity – and create a handsome bulge in the front of their pants. While packers are not hard penises or acceptable for sexual penetration, they are usually made of the same quality materials that traditional dildos are made from.
We had an amazing trans guy come in to help out on this one, generously trying this packer out and giving us all the info on the pros and cons of this particular bulge in his briefs. To start off, let’s take a gander at the stats, shall we? The Private Silicone Packer is a 5” x 1 3/8” ‘soft’ dildo sporting realistic (I wanted to type realisdick SO badly!) phallic features and a ball sack. I say soft in quotes, because there really isn’t anything too ‘soft’ about this guy – in fact, he’s pretty firm.
The rigid silicone means that there is no repositioning or dressing to one side (aka. the side of your pants your cock hangs down) – the Private Packer is smack dab in the middle of your pants, parallel to your zipper. And it’s not going anywhere. While our reviewer really enjoyed the way this looked while wearing pants, he wasn’t so keen on how the Private presented in just underwear. While some folks may love it, for him, the bulge was too big and sat unnaturally in his boxers.
A plus of this packer is the defined lip at the base. It keeps the Private held tightly in a packing jock or strap (or harness) and helps to keep it from wandering, as packers sometimes tend to do. Our tester said he felt very secure that the Private wasn’t going to shift or fall out while he was wearing it. The downside of the defined lip is that the whole back of the packer is just as rigid as the shaft, and our reviewer said that while he was wearing it, he could feel it the whole time, reminding him that he was packing. He said that some people may be totally turned on by feeling their packer at all times, but it just didn’t work for him.
When asked to sum it up, our friend shrugged and said that while it’s a decent packer, he is still on the prowl for something that feels more realistic and meets more of his own needs. Well, there you have it.
When folks think of Buck Angel, I’m sure their first thoughts go to porn star – the man with a pussy. Me? My mind goes straight to educator and activist. Sure, I’ve seen Buck Angel in just about every sexy position I can imagine, but when I get to the crux of his latest work, it’s all about the education and activist. I’ll admit that this may be directly tied to originally watching the non-porno version of this video during Buck’s workshop of the same name, which I was lucky enough to attend when he made his way to Philly earlier this year, but still, Buck’s overwhelming care in bringing awareness to transgender male sexuality makes him so much more than just a porn star (and filmmaker) in my eyes.
Buck Angel’s Sexing The Transman XXX is a collection of interviews and masturbation scenes featuring four different transmen (as well as one last scene that stars Buck and Fallen fucking, sans interview). Each dude talks a little bit about how and who he likes to have sex with, and how his sexuality has changed since starting hormones (T, or Testosterone). During the interviews, Buck also touches on language – what these guys like their genitals called – and gets a little bit of history around their transition and identity, all before having them strip down and get to jerkin’!
I really enjoyed watching all the different ways that each performer got off, as well as the variety in their bits. I think it’s so exciting when folks can talk about all the ways they like to be stimulated, especially if they have already been pigeon-holed by society (such as people assuming that just because a transdude doesn’t identify as a woman the he doesn’t want to be penetrated “vaginally”). It’s also so important for other transguys to see people like them enjoying their sexuality. Never underestimate the empowerment of recognition and the indirect permission that comes along with it. Also, it’s fucking hot watching these four dudes get off. A boner both in my pants and in my brain – my favorite kind.
The one thing that made me a little sad about this documentary is that it only featured transmen that are taking hormones and have had chest surgery. There are so many varied transmasculine experiences that it seems a shame to focus only on guys that fit into this specific category. I assume that Buck Angel made that decision for a reason, so I’m not going to get all frustrated about it, but I definitely wanted to note that these are only the experiences that fit into those boxes.
If you are hot for transmen, curious about the intersections of testosterone and sexually, or both… or just really like watching hot people get off, this is a fabulous addition to the Buck Angel Entertainment library! Thanks Buck!
A few weeks back, HM4Her delved into the wonderful world of adding gender expression items into our pool of general sex toy to review. While we’ve been reviewing dildos and harness, which can also fall under the gender expression umbrella, for a while, but in those instances, they’ve been used during actual sexual activity. The gender expression ‘toys’ that we are highlighting are something a little different. Before I get into the review, let me first explain a bit about gender expression – a refresher for the folks that read our compression shirt review.
Recap: When it comes to breaking down sex, gender and orientation, I’ve always found this nerdy tech analogy to be helpful. Sex = Hardware; Gender = Software; Orientation = Networking. Basically, Sex is the biological body – the physical; Gender is how you feel internally and how you present yourself to the world; and Orientation is the ways you interact with others. In many instances Sex and Gender match up (known as being “cis-gendered”), and in other cases, they do not. When someone’s body/sex assigned at birth do not match up to their gender identity (how they feel inside), some folks decide to live as the gender they identify as, which is called transitioning, or transgendered. And when folks are transitioning, sometimes they use items that help them express the gender that they identify – hence the name gender expression.
Today we are reviewing a special kind of dildo called a packer. A packer is a soft dildo that some trans guys (or other gender variant folks) wear to further feel and outwardly express masculinity – and create a handsome bulge in the front of their pants. While packers are not hard penises or acceptable for sexual penetration, they are usually made of the same quality materials that traditional dildos are made from. This time we are reviewing Vixen Creations’ Mr. Right packer, a 4 ¼ by 1 ¼ Vixskin silicone dick, complete with a flat back and a pair of testicles. Read the rest of this entry »
This week’s review delves into the wonderful world of gender expression! Sure, we’ve done plenty of reviews for dildos and harness, which can also fall under the gender expression umbrella, but in those instances, they’ve been used during actual sexual activity. Today’s review is something a little different. Before I get into the review, let me first explain a bit about gender expression.
When it comes to breaking down sex, gender and orientation, I’ve always found this nerdy tech analogy to be helpful. Sex = Hardware; Gender = Software; Orientation = Networking. Basically, Sex is the biological body – the physical; Gender is how you feel internally and how you present yourself to the world; and Orientation is the ways you interact with others. In many instances Sex and Gender match up (known as being “cis-gendered”), and in other cases, they do not. When someone’s body/sex assigned at birth do not match up to their gender identity (how they feel inside), some folks decide to live as the gender they identify as, which is called transitioning, or transgendered. And when folks are transitioning, sometimes they use items that help them express the gender that they identify – hence the name gender expression.
Today we are reviewing the Double Panel Compression Shirt from Babeland.com. This shirt is designed to flatten the chests of trans-men (men that were born female) and give them a more streamline, male look. We asked one of our favorite trans-men to take on the challenge and give this chest binder a go, and let us know what he thinks. Without further ado, here is the goods!
The Double Panel Compression Shirt is basically a super squeezey tight tank top with evenly dispersed compression across the chest and a mesh back. Specifically made for trans guys, this shirt really does have all of our needs in mind.
While all the other binding techniques that I’ve tried (double sports bra/ace bandage) have left me feeling not only unsatisfied with the result, but in pain from deep impressions on my body and long-term pressure, this shirt has quickly become a comfortable, effective staple in my daily wardrobe. And it has made a noticeable difference in my feelings about my body.
With wide shoulder straps and even compression distribution, this tight tank keeps me bound without cutting or pressing into my shoulders. I don’t feel like crying from relief and freedom after I take it off and as I said above, I am not left with deep impressions on my upper body that I have to rub and scratch at for an hour afterwards.
Along with that, the fabric (70% nylon, 30% Spandex) is breathable and comfortable. The double panels in front and mesh back were truly a brilliant move on the designer’s part. I could never achieve such a flat look in front without winding layers of stifling fabric all over my upper body or wearing multiple layers under my clothes. Especially during the summer, I would never be able to wear this item without overheating and roasting if it wasn’t so light and easy to wear.
Speaking of summer, with this shirt I am even comfortable going out in public with just a tank top over it – something I NEVER did with other binding techniques. I don’t obsess about my manboobs (just what I call them, which may not be the language other people use) and how noticeable they are and how I look like a girl to the whole world, even though I feel like a man on the inside. I also don’t feel like the area that is binding my manboobs (which are medium-sized, in case you wanted to think about your own chest in relation to the way the shirt works for me) is going to slip and produce an unsightly bulge at an inconvenient moment. It stays in place, which is huge. Sports bras ride up and push them out because they are too short and designed for women. And women are not worried about not looking like they have boobs. Unlike an ace bandage, there are no sticky metal things cutting up my sides and that annoying tendency to come undone at the wrong moment.
The Double Panel Compression Shirt takes a little getting used to for putting it on and taking it off, as it has to be stepped in and out of which is backwards from other bindings I’ve tried, but once I formed the habit, there is no problem.
Though this shirt is long enough to tuck into your pants, I personally prefer the shorter, ½ shirts (Tri-Top Chest Binder). As I am small framed, the long cut version of the binder tends to ride up and fold over on me, as well as digs a little bit into my hip bones. I’ve found that the ½ shirts work better for my build and the compression that they offer is more concentrated and effective for my body.
Pricing in around $40, this shirt is affordable, considering the benefits (especially since you may need to buy more than one if you wear them every day). I consider it an investment and feel very confident while wearing it. The Double Panel Compression Shirt (and the Tri-Top Chest Binder) really does take the torture out of binding and I highly recommend it for folks looking for a great way to bind.
Happy Humpday! Welcome back to the mid-week stretch! If I’m not mistaken, this is the last full week of work in 2010 (at least for us)! Can you seriously believe that this year is nearly finished? I know I can’t. That basically means that this week is going to be extra long and go extra so, so we need to really bring out the big guns in celebration! Consider them brought! Let’s get to it!
- My, my Santa, what a big package you’ve got for us this year! I’m guessing these Santa bears are not quite what Thomas Nast was thinking. Also, I just got way nerdy on you guys.
- Apparently we are doing a special early xxx-mas themed Link Love today, because here is a little more Christmas cheer in the form of hilariously cheesy x-mas pick up lines. That’s not a candy cane in my pocket. I’m just glad to see you…
- When transwoman Amber Yust went to the San Francisco DMV to get her gender officially changed from “male” to ‘female”, the employee that helped her felt like he needed to add his two cents and mailed a letter to her home calling her an “abomination.” So glad she is suing his judgemental ass and the DMV! (via The Frisky)
I think it’s really important we take time to recognize the contributions people are making in our community. I’m thrilled so many came out to vote and support me! Thanks to trailblazers like Buck Angel, space is being made for other trans men like Billy Castro and myself in the porn industry. Porn is changing and the queer revolution is happening. More positive, hot representations of transsexual men are being produced than ever before and I’m honored to be a part of it. Please check out and support the independent queer productions I work for so that more hot porn featuring trans men can continue being made and turning you on! xo James Darling
Well said, Darling! And check out our collection of flicks featuring this awesome star!
Other winners include:
Best Business – Original Plumbing
Musical Groups of the Year – The Cliks
and more!
- Speaking of slightly uncomfortable internet findings, I don’t know how I feel about this round up of dogs and dildos, but I totally think it’s worth a post. (Note: there is nothing bestial about this at all)
- Joanna Angel behaved badly at Audacia Ray’s Red Umbrella Diaries series last week… and someone got it on video! Ok, she doesn’t actually behave badly as much as just talk about bad behavior, which was the theme of the sex workers’ reading series that week, but didn’t that first sentence grab your attention just right?? Read the rest of this entry »
Tobi Hill-Meyer is a diamond in the rough. Self-identified as “just about your average multiracial, pansexual, transracially inseminated queerspawn, genderqueer, transdyke, colonized mestiza, pornographer, activist, writer,” Hill-Meyer is not your typical porn director/performer. And she doesn’t make typical porn! Seeing the lack of authentic trans-feminine desire and sexin’ in porn, Tobi grabbed her camera and created the awesomely hot Doing It Ourselves: The Trans Women Porn Project.
And with only one movie under her directing belt, Hill-Meyer has already taken home an award for her work – the Good Releasing Emerging Filmmaker Award at The Feminist Porn Awards! We can’t wait to see what comes next! But luckily we got to ask Tobi our 20 questions before she gets way too busy bringing us even more amazing porn!
1. How (and when) did you get started in the industry?
I was working a barely paying job as a tutor and being supported by my partner. It was spring of 2007, I needed extra money to get across the country for Camp Trans and a lover hooked me up with a “shemale” porn website. After two shoots, it was clear that it wasn’t a good match. When those shoots confirmed that I couldn’t ejaculate (I did tell them up front) they didn’t want me back, and I was never very stoked on the fact that they used the word “shemale” or having to play to a straight audience.
I had always had a strong appreciation for feminist/queer porn, and had made a few connections into that sub-industry, so I sought out advice and support and began working on my own film, picking up a few feminist/queer gigs along the way.
2. If you weren’t in the adult industry, what would you be doing?
My major talent and inspiration has always been in writing. I haven’t stopped, but working on a porn film and distribution has made it really hard to find time to write. I have a half finished erotic fiction zine series that I would definitely be trying to finish. And despite the time drain, I’ve still got into three anthologies last year: “Best Lesbian Erotica 2010,” “Who’s Your Daddy: And Other Writings on Queer Parenting,” and “And Baby Makes More: Queer Parents, Known Donors, and Our Unexpected Families.” Read the rest of this entry »
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