Sometimes you just need a little tickle in your sex life.  Something soft and sweet that just feels nice to rub all the body.  While advanced sex toy enthusiasts can definitely get down with this kind of action, feather ticklers are often ideal for couples just getting into the world of sex toy play.

First, a little about the Sportsheets Starburst Tickler:  The plastic handle is roughly 16 inches long and less than 1/2 inch around.  There is a thicker piece on the end that makes for easy gripping.  There is small, but adequate tuft of feathers on the other end.   All in all, the tickler is 20 inches in length.  it comes in a variety of colors.  I have the purple one which I rather enjoy.

This little teasing wand feels fantastic on the skin.  It is a total treat for the senses.  Anyone who like a nice soft back scratch would love this.  What do you do with it? Well, one can simply rub it all over their partner’s body.  It titillates like you wouldn’t believe!  Throw in a blind fold and you can keep them guessing as to where it is going next.  Like Babeland suggests, you can use it to spread lickable body dust all over (just keep the dust away from the vaginas).

If you’re into getting a bit kinkier, you can use it to soothe a whipped ass in between licks.  Tie them up and drive them nuts with tickles.  You’ll both love it!  Like with most sex toys, just use your imagination and do whatever suits you.  There are no rules.

I rather like my little Starburst Tickler.  It’s simple and super affordable.  It’s a great addition to any toy collection.  if you’re just getting started, you should definitely pick one up.  No, it isn’t for dusting.  Well, again, I’m not here to tell you what to do.

Head over to Babeland and grab your own Starburst Tickler!

You know, I have to say I wasn’t really super excited about this thing when I received it in the mail for review from Edenfantastys.com. I mean, my grandmother has one of these in her shower for “safety’s sake.” Now, I’m not sure what Grandma is up to because this thing is pretty sweet for wet and wild shower sex!

There’s not much to describe, it’s a plastic handle that has two levers that secure it in place. That’s basically it. It’s so simple that I wouldn’t be surprised to see an end cap full of these at the dollar store next to the Sham Wows. And you know, if I did, I would be done with my holiday shopping because it’s pretty great.

What makes this thing really stand out is how secure it is. We’ve used it a few times and it hasn’t moved once. I stuck it to the wall and pulled on it with all of my 135 pounds and it held firm for me. This translates to feeling safe in the shower, because no one wants to wipe out in the middle of the action!

While we’ve used it mostly as a strong place to hold onto, you can also put it down lower on the wall and use it as a foot rest for shaving or XXX fun. While I’ve used it mostly in the bathroom, it will stick to anything has a smooth surface, so it’s pretty versatile. I’ve even used it as a handle while I’m cleaning the shower – I know that’s lame, but it’s convenient and there’s nothing wrong with taking full advantage of any tool you have!

Overall, this has really let us let loose during any extra-curricular shower activities and it’s pretty handy to have around the house. I definitely recommend it to anyone who’s curious. Until it shows up at the dollar store, you can’t beat it for only $23.

You also may want to check out these Suction Handcuffs from the same line of toys. I know I’m adding them to my Christmas list!

Get wet and wild with Sportsheets’ Dual Locking Suction Handle.

Let me begin by saying that I love my new Sports Cuffs. If you’ve been eyeing them, you should just go ahead and buy a pair. They’re freaking awesome.

The first thing that set these apart for me is comfort. They’re made out of neoprene, which is really soft, incredibly durable and easy to clean because it has a closed cell structure that keeps out dirt and grime. The closure is made out of Velcro, so they’re adjustable and perfect for people with little tiny wrists like me. They fit snuggly on my ankles or wrists, without any pinching or chafing and I love it!

While comfort is important to me, it’s also crucial that there’s no escaping any cuffs we use. Once secured, there was no way I was going anywhere without a little help. Each cuff has a sturdy O ring, which made them the perfect accessory to my Under the Bed Restraints!

While I totally love these, there are a couple of things you should think about before purchasing. First up, these are not really sexy cuffs. This means nothing to me, but if you’re super into leather or looking to accessorize in the dungeon, you may not love these. They are definitely more function than form.

You should also think about the fact that they are really comfortable. I’m guessing some people love the bite of a leather cuff into the soft flesh of their wrist as they struggle in bondage. I’m not one of those people, but if you are you might not want to purchase these super comfy restraints.

Overall, I’m a huge fan of these cuffs and recommend them highly. They’re cheap, secure and built to last.

Now’s not the time for restraint, get your Sports Cuffs today!

While I enjoy sex toys with fancy lights and sounds and extra vibrating bits as much as the next person, when it comes to wanting to know that I’m going to get off, there are a few staples in the toy box that I always go to first. For me, one of those basics is a good, flared-based silicone dildo, like the Sedeux Flare.

Part of the foundation of a complete toy box, in my opinion, a simple dildo like the Sedeux Flare, that’s straightforward and to the point is the perfect toy for both partnered and solo sex. It can be slid into a harness and used to fuck like a champ, or directed by hand – either yours or another’s, and held firmly by its base. The Flare is great because it is made of beautiful red pearl 100% silicone, which can be both cleaned and sterilized easily (boil for 3 mins, or put in dishwasher – top rack, no soap). Because it’s silicone, the Flare is also phthalate free – a must have for anything that’s goin’ near my girly parts. Phthalates are plastic softeners that some companies use to make their toys more pliable and are generally not that great for your body, but 100% silicone is hypoallergenic, non-porous and totally phthalate free.

The Sudeux Flare is a little on the smaller side when it comes to size. At 5 inches insertable length, with 1 ¼ inch thickness, it’s not a mini cock, but it’s no massive wang either. While I tend to prefer my dicks a bit bigger, this one was totally great for deep thrusting and not needing to be completely worked up before using. The tip of the dildo has a distinct head that hit just right at first impact and its slight curve worked well once inside my vag.  I didn’t test it out anally, but it seems like it would be a good tool for butt play too.

To be perfectly honest, there isn’t much that sets this dick apart of all the others, except that it is so plain and simple, which is what makes it a toy I will return to over and over again. Bells and whistles are great, but when it comes down to the business of getting down, it’s the tried and tested, what-I-see-if-what-I-get toys that always make it out of the box.

Experience A Flare For Pleasure With The Sedeux Flare!

Last week I posted a review for the Sportsheets’ Leg Harness, the neoprene and velcro toy that wraps around your thigh for the ultimate leg humping experience.  In said review, I commented that:

Since playing, I’ve read in other reviews that the leg harness is great for sex laying side by side, especially for folks with mobility issues or disabilities. Though I haven’t tried it myself, this seems like it would be a very relaxing and sexy position. Looks like I just made plans for this evening!

I made good on my plans and wanted to be sure to let the world know that, holy crap using this harness side by side is aaaaahmazing! Not only did the position afford the perfect angle and ability to move around to experiment with different angles, because we were both lying on the bed it was totally comfortable to fuck for a long time without losing stamina or worrying about muscle cramps.

And since no one had to prop themselves up or keep their balance with their hands, we were able to wrap our arms around each other and use our hands for all sorts of other purposes. We also decided to try out a different, larger dildo and that made a (pardon the pun) huge difference.

I know in my first review that I said ”I doubt it will become a staple in my collection,” but I can admit when I am wrong, and here I definitely spoke too soon. Leg Harness, will you marry me?

And just for dramatic effect, here is a visual diagram of the position, complete with arrows explaining stuff.  Very high tech.

Because who doesn’t love a dinosaur?  Get your own Leg Harness here!

I’m really excited to tell you all about Sportsheets Under The Bed Restraint System. I’m not a hardcore fetish chick, but I do enjoy submitting to the will of another or being a little more dominant when the mood strikes me. This super easy to use bondage kit is perfect for those of you who are interested in testing the limits a little bit without building a dungeon in the basement!

The best thing about the Under The Bed Restraint system is how amazingly easy it is to set up. All you need to do is slide the restraint straps under your mattress, adjust them for length and you’re ready to get a little kinky. Plus, when you’re done playing, you can just tuck the ends under your mattress and no one will ever know what you’re up to!

Overall, I thought that everything was included was great, although I’m sure hardcore bondage gear is of a higher quality. The cuffs close with Velcro, so a monkey could figure those out, and they adjust to fit a pretty broad size range. I have small wrists and didn’t have any problems. Plus I wrapped one around my calf, in the interest of science, and pulled like hell just to make sure it would hold and it didn’t budge at all. They’re also soft enough that there wasn’t any chafing.

Another advantage to purchasing this set is that you could easily upgrade it if you desire. If you see the perfect pair of pink leopard print cuffs that you just can’t live without, they can be used just as easily as those included. I also read one review that suggested upgrading the rings. I don’t see any problem with the set myself, but it’s good to know that’s an option.

This set is really the easiest way you can tie someone up. I mean, there’s no knots or crazy hardware to worry about. You don’t need anything but a mattress – which makes this perfect for all of you who have graduated from your college twin to a mattress thrown on the floor in the corner. And don’t worry, I’m not judging. I’ve been there, friends!

Everyone who longs for a four-poster bed to tie there lover to will be thrilled about this easy and affordable option.

Give in and get your Under The Bed Restraint System

As a side note, included in the packaging was a card from the Free Speech Coalition that encourages the reader to get involved in protecting personal freedom! A lot of you may not realize that it is illegal in certain states to purchase sex toys and DVDs and I’m happy to see that Sportsheets is encouraging people to know and fight for their rights! USA!