1.  All anal rules apply!  Warm up is a must.  Start small, breathe, relax and lucky for you, your body acts as the flared base so nothing will get lost in your partner’s butt.  I’ve said 1,000 times and I’ll say it 1,000 more.  LUBE!  Use it.  Go with a water based formula so you know it will be compatible with your strapped on cock.

2. Find equipment that works for both of you.  First and foremost, he should be comfortable with the size of the dildo that you are using.  It is his butt, so he gets to call the shots on that one.  Your job is to find a harness that works for you.  You would be surprised at how much this really matters.  First take your budget into account, then find a style that is right for you.  Do some research!  Some harnesses are too loose and sagging occurs.  There are a few different styles – G-string, jock strap and boy shorts.  Of course, there are a few unique varieties, but these are the main ones.  Again, a longer post to come!

3. Move slow and don’t be afraid to try out a few different positions.  Preferably, go with something that allows the glutes to relax.  All bodies are different, but people tend to enjoy lying flat on their tummies or on the backs the first time around.  Experiment.  Slowly.

4. Communicate!  This is good advice for all things sex, but when it comes to the backdoor, it is extremely important to make sure everyone is having fun and no one is in pain.

Happy pegging!

Love,

Ginger

Last week I got an email asking me about female-on-male booty sexin’ – better know as pegging.  This reader was specifically looking for flicks that show more loving domination and less pain/humiliation.  Instead of just keeping this awesome info between the two of us, I figured I should  shout it from the rooftops and do a whole Top Five Tuesday dedicated to babe-on-boy butt love!

Fantasy Sex:Strap On Love 2: This awesomely cute tattooed guy mentioned that he’d like to be fucked up the butt.  His partner is nervous, but goes for it and realizes how much she loves it.  Sounds like a rom-com, but this is all porno, baby!  Sweet, tender and totally fucking hot!

Fuck You… Fuck Me: Two couples explore some of the many exciting things that you can do when you open your mind to super hot different kinds of sexing.

I Strap On My Man 11: Four different scenes of ladies bringing their men loads of butt joy, as well as plenty of BJs, pussy licking and straight up penis in vag lovin’.

Strap On Couple: Dirty, Wet and  Intimate Fun With  Zora and Zane: Real life couple Zora and Zane add a little spice to their sex life with lots of anal, toys, squirting and more!  Fun for all!

Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Anal Pleasure for Men: While yes this flick is mostly an educational guide, the suuuper hot demo scenes are so worth a watch for just getting into butt loving for men.  You can never go wrong when it comes to Tristan!

Bottom’s up! Enjoy!

xoxo
-JD

Today I want to talk about Pegged: The Best Of Strap Attack. I don’t watch a ton of F on M butt fucking, but figured I might as well watch the best. This is a two disc collection of the hottest scenes from Joey Silvera’s best selling FemDom series and a great place to start if you’re interested in the genre.

One thing I love about Silvera’s series is that he shoots really big stars. It seems like a lot of pegging films star ladies I’ve never heard of, but in this one you can watch Jada Fire, Tori Lane and Courtney Cummz strap on a cock and go to town on their men!

My favorite scene was the second, which is also one of the most extreme. Courtney Cummz totally makes Beau Meadows her bitch. Cummz looks really hot in a black and white leather corset. As soon as you see Meadows in a cage sucking her cock, there was no doubt who was in charge in the scene! Meadows takes cock like a champ and Cummz in a natural with a strap-on. I love how aggressive she is and there’s no doubt that both of them are having a lot of fun!

I also recommend the first scene where Lola takes on Christian XXX, who starts off with his hands bound. Lola sucks him off before he returns the favor and they end up in a sexy 69. After filling his hole for a while, she finally gives in and lets him bury his rock hard cock in her pussy. Both of them seem to love getting fucked, which makes for a very sexy scene.

After watching this, I need to send a shout out to Christian XXX. This guy has been around forever is kind of a queer porn pioneer. I mean, he’s probably not going to show up in the next Reel Queer movie and is a pretty mainstream dude, but he was taking cock on camera way before it was cool. I don’t know that much about him, but he’s the only mainstream guy I can think of who has been very open about pegging and working with transsexuals for as long as I’ve been working in adult.

After seeing the best of this series, I’ll definitely be keeping an eye out for future volumes!

- You know how important it is to make sure your house is in perfect order when you are trying to sell?  Yeah….

- Sources say that Lady Gaga requested that her first fragrance smell of blood and semen.  While I don’t know if I could get down with that scent on my neck, I definitely appreciate that it’s something totally different than what Mariah Carey and  Brit Spears are hawking.

- Not only did studio Girlfriends Films kick off the year by donating $15,000+ to various charities – they had GF stars and crew members choose the receiving organizations and donated in their names.  Seriously a class act!

- Yes, Charlie Sheen, I’m sure it was laughing too hard at porn that put you in the hospital with a hernia.  Why would anyone assume it was that briefcase full of cocaine??  Man, some people just jump to conclusions! Sidenote – Best. Excuse. Ever.  I plan to use it frequently. (via Jezebel)

- The Gap is selling “Pegged Boyfriend” Jeans.  How hilarious is that!?!  I LOVE it when people don’t do their research!  For those not in the know – pegged boyfriend.

- A map of the kinkiest states in America.  Results are both surprising and totally not surprising at the same time.  Go New Mexico, you pervy little minx!

- Em and Lo offer up the 15 Do’s and Don’t of Really Good Sex.  Common sense ideas that usually seem to get overlooked!

- Laptop Kama Sutra.  Me thinks we’ve gone a wee bit too far?  Though I do want to try a few of these positions… (via Jez)

- Find Dildo poster. I want!  That’s all I have to say.  (via Sextoys twitter)

- Stoya is super cute.  Here she is yelling with her Fleshlight pussy.  Not sure I care for the yelling, but she is way charming and silly here, which makes up for it.

- and lastly, this PETA Superbowl ad is amazing!  I really hope they show it!

Hope this gets you through til the weekend!

Happy Humpday!

xoxo
-J.D.

I take a deep breath and look at the scene before me. You are tied up on your hands and knees, a support underneath your hips, knees spread, face resting down on the sheets. Beside you was an unopened box. The atmosphere is tense, a mix of excitement, anticipation and dread. You have never felt so vulnerable, and I plan to make the most of it.

I climb on the bed and move towards your head and you push yourself up on your arms to see what I am doing. I wiggle down the bed until my cunt is beneath your head, and, licking my lips in anticipation, I firmly guide your head down. This was familiar territory, and you relax as your tongue seeks me out. I release my grip on your hair and use my arms to thrust up into your face, moving your tongue where I want it. Moving it from my moist hole, then deliciously up to my clit, licking, sucking, nibbling. I moan and grind my cunt up into your face, reveling in the delicious sensations you are provoking.

I can feel my orgasm building, and the desire to feel you inside me is almost too strong to resist. Reluctantly I pull away.  The roles are reversed today and I will have to wait. You almost whimper as I pull away, before I grab your hair again to kiss you roughly, your face covered in my juices. Tasting myself on you, entwining tongues, biting your lip to make you take a sharp intake of breath.

I grin and move further down the bed, enjoying your helplessness. Your back is so sensitive. I trail my hand down your spine, watching the goose bumps appear. I touch and caress your middle back, your lower back, with you squirming beneath my hands. Then I boldly take one finger and trail it down your spine to your tail bone. I repeat it again, this time finishing lower, as my finger trails down your arse, across your puckered hole, and you contract your buttocks in shock. I repeat again, this time caressing down your spine, past your arse and reach under you to feel your tight balls and twitching hard cock. You gasp.

I grasp your cock firmly and glide my hand softly up and down, can feel your pre-cum making my hand move smoothly, wetly up and down. Then I release, and start again. This time you are not so shocked when I trail my finger between your arse cheeks and I linger to circle round your puckered hole before continuing. This time, when I reach round to grasp your cock, I simultaneously bend down and lick your arse. You jolt and moan deep in your throat, causing my cunt to twinge in reply. As I smoothly slide my hand up and down your twitching cock, I explore your arse with my tongue, swirling and licking and enjoying the reactions I am provoking.

Sensing I need to stop soon before you come, I pull back and reach out for the box lying by your side. Your breathing in ragged, and I know you are so turned on that you will be receptive to this new experiment, even though you are not sure at all. I take the strap-on out of the box, and delight in moving to the head of the bed so you can watch me slip into the straps and adjust them to make the cock stand out proudly from my groin. I look down and fondle it, amazed by the sight of my new found addition, and making sure it is positioned for my pleasure too. You are both mesmerized and trembling, a mixture of fear and anticipation making the adrenaline course through your body.

You try and say something, a mixture of ‘be gentle’ and ‘I’m not sure,’ but I just smile and kiss you again, knowing how I can turn you on just by my tongue, my nibbling.

I move behind you, and return to trailing my hands across your back, then again work lower until again I am caressing your buttocks and straying to touch your puckered hole. I get the lube on my fingers and gently begin to focus my attentions on your arse. Without further warning I slip the end of my finger in your arse, and feel you tense. Keeping that hand still, I reach round and massage your glistening cock, until you start to move with my rhythm, moving back on my invading finger. I stare in fascination, and add another finger, hearing you wince, but then being overcome with desire from my insistent grip on your cock.

After a few minutes, I decide it’s now or never, I remove my fingers and make sure the strap-on is covered with lube before positioning at your puckered arse. Slowly, carefully I push it in until the head disappears. Your breathing changes, and you start to say ‘I don’t know if I can do this…’ Your voice trails off and I stay still, letting you get accustomed to the feel of the invasion.

As your breathing slows to normal, I start to move forward. The thrusting technique is foreign to me, and I feel clumsy at first. But then I feel the pressure of the strap-on against my clit and smile a secret smile. I try a slow, steady rhythm, enjoying the feeling of power, enjoying the pressure on my clit, enjoying you getting turned on beneath me. I get faster, deeper, and you start to move your arse out to meet me. As much as I am enjoying this I am not sure if the sensations alone are enough to make me come, but I can read your signs that you are getting close.

I let you set the pace, and continue until you start to moan and whimper and shout my name as you come on the sheets. I wait until you stop moving, then withdraw and quickly undo your ties so we can lay together, my strap-on still rudely pointing to the ceiling, you laying exhausted and dazed beside me, trying to make sense of what has just happened and how you feel about your first anal experience.

Your face break into a huge grin, and you roll over to hug me, to smother me “God, I love you….you’re next” you say…

This week’s Top Five Tuesday is all about asses  – well, men’s asses really, as we are featuring pegging aplenty and celebrating all the fabulous things a woman can do with her dude’s dirt star*!

Straight Guys For Gay Eyes & For Women Too! – Plug ‘N Play: This awesome studio offering straight porn made for gay men finally takes on guys getting it up the butt!  Whether it’s digits or dildos being used, each scene ends with everyone super satisfied.

Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Anal Pleasure For Men: No one makes an instructional porn quite like Tristan Taormino.  Her perfect mix of education and keeping everything hot hot hot takes on a life of it’s own in this flick, as Taormino teaches about anal – her signature style of sex.  This is a must see for anyone interested in adding a pegging play to their lives!

Jazzmon Private Collection #40 – Strap-On Smoking Amazon: I’m not gonna lie – Jazzmon kinda scares the crap out of me, but I kind of love her too.  This muscly mistress is a force to be reckoned with and any ass that gets a taste of her hardcore FemDom action better love it… or else.  Plus this is a REAL FemDom session to boot, so no porno posing or here. Only the real deal!

StrapOn Chicks: Bella’s Bitches: Aww, it’s Belladonna’s very first  female-on-male strap-on scene!  Known for her awesome anal antics now, this flick is a stroll down memory lane of the amazingness that is Belladonna bending over a boy butt.  Ah, memories.

Strapped On: A mix of both ladies getting pussy plowed and men getting bottom banged, this three hour fuck fest is a win for anyone that loves a good penetration party. And if you get a chance, check out the box cover closely to see some premium penis font action.  Is that Comic Sans?  Nope, it’s cocks.

Xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

* Best butt name ever!

ps. Dan Savage is also responsible for the awesomeness that is “Santorum.”

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Studio: Amateur Straight Guys Category: Hetero Couples

A la Jake Cruise, Watch Him Fuck Volume Four is a movie that pays more attention to the men in the scene than you typically see. I really liked the amateur feel to this one, although I’ve seen James Biehn from scene two in both gay and straight movies before. Besides the chesire cat tattoo on his pec, I don’t have much bad to say about Biehn – he’s absolutely adorable and has a pretty big dick for a skinny boy. I really loved this scene because Biehn gives it as good as he takes it. After plowing Summer from behind, she takes out her strap-on and he sits on her purple cock. While Summer isn’t the best with a strap-on, it’s not really about her. Since he knows what he’s doing it’s not really a big deal, as evidenced by his impressive money shot. While a lot of pornos seem to star a dick and a woman – this one focuses on five couples fucking instead of five women getting fucked. A really good hetero flick with a kinky twist!
-The Porn Librarian

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Studio: NiceBod.Net Video Category: Strap On – F on M

I’ve been curious about fucking a boy up the butt ever since the term “pegging” was coined in Dan Savage’s advice column a few years back. While I’ve never done it and most likely never will (never say never, I suppose), I get my female on male anal kicks via video. Apparently I am not the only one, since we have about a million to choose from. Out of that selection, I chose to go with an amateur delight – mostly because I enjoy watching real people with real bodies, but also because I wanted to bring this commonly done, but not commonly discussed practice to light in an accessible and exciting way.

Though strap on anal was touted as the focus of this video, it was really only one of many activities that made up this hour long roll in the hay. Along with the anal (including strap-on in ass, biological penis in ass and lots of licking), the twosome fucked vaginally in a barrage of positions, as well as enjoyed pussy licking, blow jobs and not one or two, but SEVEN different sex toys! That’s right, seven – everything from a mini vibe and a strap-on, to anal beads on a string and a massive double ended dildo. Watching them utilize their whole toy chest was fun, but I really could have done without the noise of the pleasure balls he puts in her pussy. All the clanking was a definite mood killer for me, but I think other people may feel just the opposite. What was decidedly not a boner killer was the strap on anal scenes. Sure, I think it’s always totally hot to watch a chick fucking anyone in the ass with a strap on dick, but this was extra exciting because you could tell our man John was begging to be filled up from behind. And there isn’t too much sexier than watching someone get exactly what they’ve been fantasizing about.

-J.D. Bauchery