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Darker Side Of Desire – Is Submission Anti-Feminist?

 is having the time of her life falling in love with . From the very first kiss she knew that something amazing was happening between them. The sex is passionate. Their connection is strong. Cassidy has never fell this hard and fast for someone, but uncertainty is creeping around the edges of her thoughts. Many people may have insecurities pop up when getting to know a new partner, but Cassidy wonders if Mickey will ever fully accept her if he knows who she “really” is.

 

 

Cassidy is the thoughtful, sincere, and trust-worthy woman that she presents to the world, but in her mind she is living another type of sexual reality. She dreams of being tied up and spanked. Maybe she would be pushed to do things just outside of her frame of knowledge sexually. When Cassidy has fantasies about this kind of role playing, the set is always in a dungeon-type place, with chains and bondage equipment. She often thinks of a recurring couple having sex in this way. The woman is a tall blonde () and the man is dark and mysterious (), egging his partner to submit to his every whim.  Cassidy is afraid she’ll never be able to tell Mickey that she would like to explore this part of herself with him. She thinks he would completely remove her from his life for fear that she was a deviant.

 

 

To be fair, Cassidy is not unreasonable in her fear of being completely honest with Mickey. One night while Mickey was over at her house hanging out with her and her roommates, Mickey affirmed Cassidy’s suspicion that he wouldn’t be open to trying anything too kinky. The four of them were playing a drinking game involving sexual experience questions.  The questions became more personal and outrageous, and  asked the group if anyone had ever been tied up and spanked. According to the rules of the game, if you had done the activity in question you had to do a shot. Only  answered yes to Riley’s question. To everyone’s surprise, Riley flipped out on Gia for answering truthfully. Riley chidded Gia for being “un-feminist” for letting a man tie her up and do those things to her. Even though Gia tried to answer that she had actually felt liberated in her ability to freely give her power over to her partner (even though only momentarily), Riley refused to listen to Gia’s story and became angry that Gia would let a man treat her like that. Gia became visibly upset and left the party. Mickey seemed to agree with what Riley was saying, and from that point on, Cassidy knew that she couldn’t be truthful with Mickey about her secret BDSM desires.

 

   

 

The following day, Cassidy decided to ask Gia about her experience with BDSM. Gia was hesitant to talk about it because she felt very judged from last night’s discussion, but she told Cassidy about her relationship with an older Dom (who showed her the ropes of kink-play. Gia said it was a beautiful relationship and that she had never connected with someone like that before, especially in a sexual manner. Unfortunately, Gia judged herself harsher than others probably judged her. She thought she was weird fr liking it, and she ended the relationship. She had regretted it ever since. After listening to Gia’s story, Cassidy realised that she needed to be honest with Mickey about her desire to try new things in bed, and she got the address to where Gia’s old boyfriend used to take her when they hooked up. The space was a dungeon that was available for rentals. Cassidy asked Mickey to meet her there so she could tell him about Gia’s experience and how she wanted to try this area of kink. When Mickey arrived he was taken back by the dungeon atmosphere and equipment. While Mickey doesn’t say no to the idea of exploring BDSM, and he also admits he didn’t necessarily agree with Riley’s outburst the other night, Mickey’s hesitance is obvious, and Cassidy doesn’t hear from him for another week.

 

Meanwhile, Riley and her boyfriend,  are discussing a paper that Riley just received an A grade on. Riley argued for the empowerment of women by allowing themselves the freedom to pursue submission with a partner. Although, Riley says she doesn’t believe a word of her own paper. She was hoping to get insight to Gia’s experience, so she crafted a counter-argument to her own in order to better understand Gia’s point of view. Michael is impressed with Riley’s intellectual capability to frame her own counter-argument, and get a good grade on it, but he thinks she may not fully understand how power exchange works in relationships. In order to better understand this, Michael suggests that she tie him up and dominate him. If domination happens naturally in the patriarchal society, maybe their roleplaying will be rewarding and cathartic for both of them. To both of their delights, Michael and Riley learn a lot about themselves through dominance and submission play, so much so that Riley even submits to Michael. He even promises her that this type of game is just for them and their little secret.

 

 

Cassidy finally hears back from Mickey a week after she invites him to the dungeon. He leaves her a few notes along the path to the main dungeon room, which instruct her to change into lingerie and put on a blindfold. Though Mickey was confused about his own feelings at first regarding impact play, D/s, and other types of kink-play, he says he needed some time to work out what role this kind of sexual fantasy would have in his own sexual philosophy and feminist ideology. He came to the conclusion that if both he and Cassidy were willing and communicative partners there would be no way that things could get into a dark place. If both of them wanted to experiment with bondage and discipline, then both of them were able to handle this kind of kink with love and openness, and have fun learning about it together as a team.

 

 

Kink School: Tips From a Dominatrix

Kink School: Tips From a Dominatrix box coverKink School: Tips From A Dominatrix is the latest fetish instructional video from Severe Sex. It’s probably pretty obvious from our many posts about their films that we love the Severe Sex studio. Not only are Dee Severe and Jimmy Broadway a good model for a marriage and working partnership, they make educational movies that are exciting. There is genuine enthusiasm in their scenes, and the group of professionals they work with are the best in their fields. You can be sure that when you watch a Severe Sex film you are seeing a carefully selected group of performers in thoughtfully scripted scenes, and everything they are doing on camera is done in a safe and consensual way. This kind of transparency is particularly important when depicting BDSM and sexual SM practices. Sometimes a viewer’s first exposure to BDSM is through video, so displaying the correct way to do something is important in case they decide they want to try this in their own sex life. For the beginner, knowing how NOT to do something is just as important as knowing how to do that thing. Safety is always a concern, but that doesn’t mean something done safely isn’t sexy. Severe Sex’s  instructional videos have always combined information and best practices with hot performers who love what they do.

Tips From a Dominatrix is a two disc set. Disc one has four hot scenes with professional dominatrices who show varying styles of D/s play, while disc 2 has almost two hours of some real talk from six of the hottest professional Dommes working right now.

Session One: Mona Wales & Marcelo

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Marcelo is a newcomer in Mona’s dungeon, and he is excited about the opportunity to serve a new Mistress. Dressed in form-fitting latex, Mona sidles up next to Marcelo as he is strapped into a St. Andrew’s cross and promises that she is about to do some terrible things to him. After “tenderizing” his chest, stomach, legs, and cock with a flogger, Mona moves on to whipping him lightly across the chest and stomach. I’ve hardly seen Marcelo flinch when getting dominated, but the whip seems to almost do him in here. Continuing to impress, Marcelo tests his limits with CBT in the form of magnets and weights while Mona switches him across the stomach and praises him for being an “overachiever.”

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Session Two: Mona Wales & Marcelo

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Mona must’ve taken to Marcelo’s obedient nature, because she’s locked him in a cage to serve her once again. Once Marcelo has begged like the puppy Mona wants him to become, she lets him out of the cage and their scene begins with her walking him around on a leash like a dog. Marcelo licks and worships her feet and plunges his nose into Mona’s ass like a curious pup looking to make a new friend. While this play seems humiliating or degrading, it is this power dynamic that Marcelo craves and Mona clearly feeds off of. They have excellent chemistry together, and these first two scenes are a great example of a dungeon session gone right!

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Lifestyle Play: Lyra Louvel & Michael Vegas

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One of the questions most kinksters face is how they incorporate their preferred style of play into a relationship dynamic. Real-life lovers Lyra Louvel and Michael Vegas provide an intimate look into how they enjoy sensual domination together. The scene begins with Michael blindfolded and waiting expectantly for his Mistress as she saunters into the room in her thigh-high boots. She is pleased to see Michael doing exactly what she asked of him, and rewards him with a few playful whacks of her leather flogger. Lyra instructs Michael to smell her pussy, and he begins worshiping her like a good little slave. After Lyra’s been properly pleasured, she allows Michael to fuck her and he cums on those sexy boots.

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Heavy Session: Cybill Troy, Jimmy Broadway & Marcelo

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This scene begins with a “do not try this at home” warning, so you know it’s going to be good. Cybill Troy has Marcelo strapped to a St. Andrew’s cross in her dungeon, and she warms him up by tying his balls tight with a rope while ashing her cigarette on them. If you’re thinking that this looks intense, you’d be correct. Cybill Troy is a professional, and she knows how to safely play with Marcelo and respect his boundaries. Continuing to watch this scene, however, you’ll quickly learn that Marcelo has an incredibly high pain threshold and that his boundaries are not that of the average person. Cybill brings out Jimmy Broadway to crawl along the floor as she ties his and Marcelo’s ballsacks together with a long rope. As Jimmy attempts to crawl away, both men howl as their balls are stretched. Cybill continues the merciless CBT with a crop, a whip, and some clothespins.

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Disc 2

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Disc two includes in-depth interviews on an assortment of issues regarding professional dungeon experiences, BDSM in a relationship, manners with your Domme, and a lot of personal insight from the women who have been doing this for a long time off camera as well as on set. Aiden Starr, Justine Cross, Elena Deluca, Mona Wales, Lyra Louvel, Cybil Troy, Alexandra Snow, and Dee Severe break down a ton of subjects concerning kinky play. Here are just a few of the many details they discuss:

Elena Deluca Justine CrossDo your research before picking a Domme, and make sure you have similar interests. The more specialized your interests the more important this is. For example, if you’re into some type of role play and you are super specific about the scenario, email your Domme and ask if she provides this type of scenario, if she enjoys it, and what her favorite part about this is. You don’t need to write novels to each other. In fact, be as succinct and clear as possible, but ask the deep questions before you show up so that you know what you are getting into.

Cybil Troy Aiden StarrDirectories and numerous websites will prove helpful. Google is your friend. There are plenty of resources out there to help in your research for the perfect match for your particular interests.

Beginners might feel more comfortable going to a big dungeon where there is support staff and security. If you’ve never been to see a professional Domme and you’re worried about going to a stranger’s house to get tied up (or whatever you are interested in trying) then a larger dungeon may be a good place for you to start. There are a variety of different providers working there, and often the manager or receptionist can help you find your best fit. With a larger dungeon you have the option to try other Dommes if the initial fit doesn’t click with you.

Alexandra Snow Lyra Louvel Mona WalesSometimes fantasies should stay fantasies. Make sure you’re ready to take the next step with a particular fantasy. This is fairly self-explanatory, but do the work and figure out if this is something you actually want to bring into your life, or if this is just something you want to keep as a happy, little secret.

Watch out for red flags, like not obeying hard limits…Don’t take chances and put yourself in a dangerous situation. With research of professionals of any kind comes a thoughtful exploration of your own needs, and safety should be your top priority whether you see a Domme or meet a stranger for a date. Make sure your Domme (and anyone you play with) is safe, sane, and consensual.

Some of my favorite tips are: Don’t be smelly. Don’t try to cram all of your fantasies into a half hour visit. Don’t try to date your pro-Domme. 

Think of disc two of Tips From a Dominatrix as a talk with your professionally kinky friends who want you to be safe while you have a good time finding your perfect Domme.

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Dear Abby

I don’t know if it’s been obvious to any of our readers, but in the last few weeks I have been pretty obsessed with movies from .  While I’m not usually one to get into a super plotty porn, I can’t get enough of these romantic flicks (I like to call them Hallmark movies with sex).  Seriously people, it’s like Lifetime decided to get into the adult industry and this is the outcome.  Yes, this means sappy plots and cliché passion, but still, they suck me in so hard.

This time around we’ve got Jack (Giovanni Francisco) who is a relationship columnist that’s great at giving advice to other people about their love issues, but is unable to help himself in his situation.  You see, he still shares a house he bought with his ex fiancé – Abby (Natasha Nice), and they still both live there.  Of course they fight all the time and he cock blocks every date she has. I mean clearly they are still in love with each other, which of course we find out in the end.  Oh those unpredictable, crazy kids.  Still, it’s pretty cute… like a Meg Ryan/Tom Hanks movie with lots of hardcore humping. 

Each of the sex scenes are super hot and hardcore, while being tender and romantic as well.  And everything is delightfully topped off by fantastic production quality, believable sets and attractive performers.  We get lots of kissing and caressing before the penetration, but nothing feels too overtly lovey dovey or uncomfortable.  What really makes the difference is that you can feel the chemistry between the performers, which always leads to extra hot action.

Apart from the sexy scenes, I really enjoy the dorky humor and all.  And the stuff that pulls on the heart strings.  Seriously, it’s so cheesy that I am actually touched.  Oh yeah, I’m a total sucker for New Sensations Romance.

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A Little Part Of Me

With all the cold weather outside, it’s no wonder that these days I’ve got cuddling under the blankets on my mind.  And of course all that snuggling leads me to thinking about love, which in turn has me craving plot-driven, romantic pornos.  That’s right, folks, we are in that mode – and here to help with our desire is , a new sensual  branch off of New Sensations, full of story-based smut with a heart.  I am so ready!

Before we start the review, just a quick warning of sorts.  I’ll be the first to admit that New Sensations Romance movies are a little… depressing.  All their stories revolve around bad things happening, like death and comas, and how people bounce back and love again.  I guess they are a little like Lifetime movies, but with hardcore sex.  They do become uplifting after a while, but it’s always a bit gloomy in the beginning, which is not something you expect from your porno.

Today we are watching , featuring the amazing  as a widow that is still intensely grieving a year after her husband’s untimely death.  In a bid to help pull Bobbi back into the world of the living, her three coworkers ( and ) decide that one way she can get closure is to meet all of the people that received her husband’s donated organs.  While getting those names is usually highly restricted, one of Bobbi’s friends finds a way around the system and the journey begins.

What I expected from this movie is that Bobbi would go around meeting these people and fuck them one by one.  That may be what would happen in any other porn, but New Sensations Romance movies are a little classier than that.  As Bobbi meets each of the people, she slowly starts to get some much needed closure and at the same time hooks each of the insanely handsome organ recipients ( and  – yum) with her coworkers.  Finally at the end we see Bobbi get her action, with , her husband’s best friend.  Yep, full circle.

Seriously, Danny Mountain, Michael Vegas and Rocco Reed are some of the hottest men in the industry.  They may not have the most acting skills, but once the pants come off… that’s when we get all the good stuff.  And, of course, I can’t say enough good things about Bobbi Starr, Kimberly Kane, Zoe Voss and Allie Haze.  They are all so amazingly sexy and do a pretty nice job with the acting as well.  I mean, no one is winning an Oscar here, but an AVN, sure.

All in all, this is a great movie with a touching story that isn’t too cheesy and an awesome cast.  Two thumbs up.

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Some Of The Hottest Guys In the Biz!

If I never hear the phrase “there are no good looking guys in porn” again, it will be too soon.  Seriously, every once in a while someone says that to me and it takes all the self control I have not to bitch slap some knowledge into their heads.  But rather than resorting to that, I decided that I should make a gallery of super hot porno dudes that I can shove into their faces instead.  Of course I couldn’t fit every single sexy man in the industry, so here is an abbreviated list of smutty studs that Ginger and I agree are extra hot, in no particular order.


No need to thank us, but you are welcome.

xoxo
JD and Ginger

Girlfriends Get Even

It may be cliché, but the age-old saying is true – revenge is sweet… especially when it’s in the form of a mind-blowing orgasm!  And this Reality Junkies flick is all about revenge, with five scenes featuring scorned women getting even with their slimy, cheating boyfriends.  While we don’t condone cheating or revenge in real life, when it comes to porno, nearly anything (legal) is free game.

First up is Adrianna Leigh, who caught her man face first in her best friend’s pussy!  So what does she do to get back at him?  Brings his buddy over to the house while he is out, calls him to both confront him and made him listen to the hot sex that she has with his friend,  Michael Vegas.  While Vegas is a little thrown off at first, he soon chooses sex over friendship and bangs the shit out of Leigh’s pussy.  I actually really like that whole calling him thing – I think it’s pretty hilarious and ingenious! Go Adrianna Leigh!

Scene two starts with Anikka Albrite video chatting on the computer with her man, telling him that she needs to study and berating him for cheating on her.  The boyfriend demands to know if that geek from her class is there, helping her study, and then makes sure to let her know that just because he cheated doesn’t mean she should.  Seriously dude?  It’s true that two wrongs don’t make a right, but fuck you buddy.  Of course, the whole time this is going on, that geek, Richie, is under the desk, giving Anikka head before getting up and fucking her brains out on the computer desk.  Just to point out, I love that there is an Apple product placement, even though I’m sure it would have Steve Jobs rolling over in his grave.

I’m not going to comment on scene three, because it’s about how upset  Cassandra Nix is when she finds her boyfriend watching porn.  There is nothing wrong with watching porn and it doesn’t reflect how he feels about their relationship and having sex with her.  But she still gets revenge by taping herself fucking someone else and replacing his porno with the tape.  I don’t love that they can’t just communicate about porn, but I do think it’s a pretty awesome idea…

Next up is Hayden Bell, who has a boyfriend that not only puts his job before her, but uses her as a pretty plaything to flirt with his boss and keep him happy.  So what does Hayden do?  Makes her man’s life easier and pulls the boss into the bedroom for a revenge fuck.  Good thing that the boss man turns out to be none other than Mark Wood, who is one of my favorite porn guys.  The pair wastes no time getting out of their clothes and into the action, which offers up lots of blowing, sucking and fucking.

And lastly we have Trinity St. Clair, who, while searching for something else, finds a sex tape that her man made of them.  It turns out that not only did he film them, but he showed it to all of his friends!  What a slime ball!  She gets her revenge by making sure that the next time he shows his friends a tape, it won’t be him getting it on with Trinity!  First she jerks herself off for the camera, giving her boyfriend’s friends a delicious show of her in a red bra and panties.  Pretty soon Dane Cross enters the picture, ready to get his fuck on and they go at it, making sure to get it all on film for both her man and his friends to see.  Oh sweet revenge.

All-in-all, a fun premise for lots of hot sex!

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