Welcome to Monday, folks.  I hope you all had a lovely weekend filled with rest, relaxation and lots of porno.  I am hear to ease you into the work week with a little shared masturbation advice.  #4 is simply just a good reason as to why you should share your masturbation time.  Regardless, I hope you enjoy. 

1. Watch and learn: Here is your chance to see your partner in action.  Watch their every move and see what gets them going.  You may discover a few things that will help you do an even better job of getting them off.  Do they favor one side of their clit?  Do they go for long slow thrusts or short quick g-spot stimulating movements when playing with a dildo?

2. Give a little demonstration: Verbal communication is awesome and definitely gets it done in the bedroom, but sometimes it’s easier done than said.  If verbalizing your preferences doesn’t come naturally to you, this is a good chance for you to simply show your boo what you like.

3. Direction: If you happen to be the opposite and love to chat and communicate, go ahead a give a little direction.  It is fun to take control and give explicit instructions on exactly what it is that you would like to see.  Your partner could very well enjoy acting out your every wish.

4. Remix: Like many things in the world of sex advice, shared masturbation is simply a good chance to change things up.  There is nothing wrong with prying yourselves from each others’ orifices and letting the voyeur or exhibitionist in you do it’s thing.  Watching and being watched can make things super intense and damn is it hot.

Love,

Ginger

I wouldn’t say that I have a particular fetish for glasses, but when it comes to these JoyOfSpex movies, I can’t seem to get enough.  Whether the ladies are going solo, or with a friend, I am totally transfixed by the screen, unable to look away for the entirety.  Good thing these movies are quickies, usually ranging around 20 or so minutes, or I’d never get any other work done!

Ava, the shy redhead in today’s masturbation movie, is super cute, starting her scene off with a little conversation about the first time she started wearing glasses, which was while she was in boot camp for the Air Force. Who doesn’t love a girl in uniform? Yum.

She also goes on about her sexual history and tells us how she first got started having sex.  I love that says she didn’t think of herself as a slut – more of an opportunist.  Then she starts talking about masturbation and shows us her “little friend” – a giant blue vibrator with a red tip.  Yeah, Ava, there is nothing little about that thing.  Anyway, on to the jerking off.

Ava tries out some caramel lube this time around, giving it a quick taste before rubbing it all over her nipples and licking it off.  Though her shirt comes off pretty early, I like that she takes her sweet time with her bottoms, moving them over to the side instead of straight up pulling them off.  There is just something extra dirty about pulling your panties over, if you ask me.

I also love that Ava spends a while rubbing her giant vibrator all over the outside of her pussy, over her panties.  Sure ,we get a ton of time with the vibe directly on her clit and inside her pussy, but I really enjoy the added anticipation that comes before the panties come off.  But once they do, Ava pours on the caramel lube and  give us a hand show, which includes rubbing her butthole a little bit too.  Everything is better when you bring a little butthole into the mix!

Once big blue enter the scene, Ava breaks into fits of moans.  The subtle flush on her cheeks highlights just how hot she is getting and lets us know that, yes, those moans are 100% real.  And all that writhing around the bed?  Yeah, girl cannot help herself.  There are no explosive orgasms, but Ava definitely gets herself off in her own fashion.  Eh, I’d rather have a real, quiet orgasm than a screaming climax that is a total faker.

Watch “JoyOfSpex: Ava” now!

I can’t believe we are at the final Top Five Tuesday of 2011!  Didn’t this year fly by?!?  Anyway, one of the things we like to do here at HM4Her is give the ladies what they want.  After a careful analysis of our analytics (which sounds so much dirtier than it is), we found that more than anything, you folks are checking out our female masturbation movies.  So, what better way to send off the year than solo lady lovin’ – 2011 style!  Here are our Top Five Female Masturbation movies made in 2011.  Enjoy them… we know you will!

Alone & Loveable – The ladies over at Abbywinters.com must have some serious carpal tunnel issues with the amount of masturbation porn they brought us this year.  This awesome video alone has ten stellar solo sexin’ scenes!  All natural women, all really getting off – could we wask for anything more?

Bobbi Star’s One – Oh man, Bobbi Starr and her friends are such super dirty birdies!  Not only are they offering up more than THREE HOURS of deliciously pervy self lovin’ – some of it includes vegetables and massive toys.  I will say that I did actually yell at the screen during scene 8 (if it goes in your ass, it needs to have a flared base!), but all in all, this jerk off fuck fest is some quality hotness.

Veronica Knocks: When it comes to real female orgasms, I know that Femorg will not disappoint.  I mean really, the truth is in the name!  This particular Femorg flick stuck with me because Veronica is so damn cute – and this is her first dirty movie, which makes it all the more exciting to me.  She plays with a different toy in each scene, making it fun to watch a whole movie of her getting off.  Thanks Femorg!

Stalker – Chock full of “hidden camera” scenes, this voyeur-themed solo sex video is awesomely hot and packed with ladies rubbing one out… particularly in showers.  They even include a pole dancing scene, which makes me so excited because pole dancing is wicked sexy and takes such ridiculous muscles.  Yum.

Watch Me Play – Abigail Pictures takes the last spot on our 2011 lady spankin’ it list with something a little more artsy and non-traditional, which I totally appreciate.  Maybe it’s just the lighting or the camera work, but these scenes bring something different to the table and make me a totally happy camper.

I can’t wait to see what 2012 has to offer in the masturbation porno department!

Happy New Year!

xoxo
JD

Hello and welcome to the first edition of HotMovies4Her Tips!  This is where we give you 4 quick bits of advice on a given subject related to sex in some way, shape or form.  Aren’t we clever?  We are pretty excited to inject some fun yet educational info into our weekly routine and we hope you are too.  Feel free to leave a comment and let us know if there are any particular subjects that you could use a little insight on.

Today, I am giving you 4 Reasons To Masturbate!

1) Relieves Stress: Masturbating is a good opportunity to get in on some you time.  You get to focus on your needs alone, which is something most of us don’t do enough of.  Also, all sorts of things starts to fire off when playing with your bits – dopamine gets released for that sense of pleasure and the endorphins give you that feeling that everything is right in the world. Orgasms are not required, but they do release Oxytocin which gives you that warm fuzzy feeling.

2) Sleep Aid: Masturbating is a great way to stop tossing and turning at night.  Releasing all of those endorphins during the act takes a lot of energy and afterwards you peacefully drift off to dream land.

3) Improves your partnered sex life: What better way to learn about your likes and dislikes than experimenting on your own?  Spending some time with yourself will help you better communicate to your partner the things that you want in the bedroom.  You might even discover a thing or 2 that you’d like to perform on them.

4) It’s fun: Masturbating doesn’t have to be all about the business at hand.  Playing with yourself just feels good and there is nothing wrong with just getting off for the hell of it.

We hope you enjoyed our first ever official HotMovies4Her Tips post.  Check back next Monday to see what sex info we’ll have waiting for you.

Love,
Ginger

It’s Top Five Tuesday Time and today we’re celebrating solo male masturbation! Why? Because it’s fun to watch. Also, I like it and it’s my turn to pick today’s top pornos. Read it and like it!

Meat Market – Playgirl DVD tends to bring the softer side of porn to the screen.  While this isn’t my usual smut style, I like to throw it in the mix every once in a while.  To know hardcore, you must know softcore, right?  Gentle or not, these hunks still know how to take care of business.

Handyman Volume 4 – This is one of those pornos that gets me all excited in that star struck kind of way.  I get to watch Dane Cross and Chris Strokes as they talk dirty to the camera and jerk off to my heart’s content.  I dig their work and it was a total treat to watch them all by their lonesomes in this flick.

Adam Frost – Fleshlight Fun – Being the sex toy junkie that I am, I love it when people incorporate them into their on-camera solo sessions.  I love watching women use dildos and vibes, but getting to watch a dude play with a masturbator in a porno is both rare and awesome.  I’m especially excited that the wonderment that is the Fleshlight gets used here!

Minute Man Solo 33 – Heads Up! – I can always count on Colt to give me a gaggle of hot beefy guys with chiseled rock hard bodies.  There is nothing wrong with admiring a man with muscles.  A lot of hard work goes into such body, I might as well enjoy them!

Horns & Halos – I did indeed recently review this movie, but it made a lasting impression on me.  The fresh young studs that Cockyboys features are fun to watch jerk off.  They’re cute, cut and dirty.

Happy masturbating!

Love,
Ginger

Happy Humpday!  Welcome back to the psuedo-midweek stretch.  It’s been a short week that’s moving by super quickly, so let’s get to celebrating Humpday stat, before we blink and it’s Friday afternoon.  Also, can we just marvel at the fact that it’s JUNE!?!  When did that happen, right?  I suppose time flies when you are busy watching the porno!  Alright, let’s get to it!

- Awesome weather equals more and more boats coming off of the dock.  I’m so glad some of them have such hilarious names.  I’m also so glad that I have the sense of humor of a teenage boy and dick jokes crack me up.

-  Speaking of things that made me laugh today, this Sensitive Nips video seriously had me from the first second.  I couldn’t tell you why, other than the fact that this dude uses the word ‘nips’ over and over.  Obviously I’m all for pleasure education (duh, look who you are talking to), but I lost it for this one.

- Now for a little more serious, check out this awesome article that will hopefully re-kickstart the search for a cure for AIDS. (via Tiny Nibbles)

- Related to STIs, Cal/OSHA may be moving closer to mandatory condom use in the porn industry.  I’m a little confused… I thought this was already dropped?

- Sadly Masturbation Month has come to a close.  Check out Buzzfeed’s list of top J/O songs!  Goodbye May, I’ll keep the vibrator warm while you loop back around next year!

- Something you don’t hear every day – swooning over male bodies in porn.  I love it!

- And lastly, someone made a porno parody of Star Trek… with action figures.  I have no words. (via WSN)

Hope this gets you through til the weekend!

xoxo
-JD

Happy Masturbation Month to all! About sixteen or so years ago, the fine folks over at sex toy shop Good Vibrations declared May to be the month that we truly celebrate all things self love. I don’t know about you, but we here at HM4Her couldn’t be more excited to bring a little extra attention to solo sexin’. To help promote the awesomeness of jerkin’ off, we thought we’d tell you about some of our favorite ‘masturbatory aids’ (don’t you just love that phrase?)!

The Pure Wand

Holy crap is this thing amazing.  Three years after reviewing it, this 1.5lb. hunk o’ stainless steel is still at the top of my toybox. Originally designed to hit the prostate (or P-Spot), it was quickly discovered that this delicious wand has the exact curvature to hit the G-Spot dead on and produce a whole lot of seriously hot female ejaculation.  I’m not sure what deal njoy Toys made with the Devil to make such an awesome toy, but I am so very thankful they did.

Hitachi Magic Wand

Speaking of wands, it’s pretty much criminal to leave out the plugged-in horsepower of the Hitachi Magic Wand.  Getting folks off for years and years, the Hitachi is a power-packed speed machine that brings one of the most intense sex toy buzzes out there.  It may be packaged and sold as a ‘massager,’ but your bits will thank you for years to come.

MIA

Discreet, powerful and UBS-charged, the MIA is a mini vibe that’s perfect for getting off when you’re on the go.  Lelo broke the mold when they came up with this awesome little body-safe toy.  Only downside – someone might mistake it for a lipstick in your purse and accidentally stumble upon your tasty little secret.

Ophoria Rapture #5

Sometimes when it comes to getting yourself off, it’s all about sticking a toy up your butt!  And nothing feels quite like the thick, graduated bulbs of the Ophoria Rapture #5.  With a nice hefty weight, a sturdy design and length/girth for days, #5 may not be right for a first timer (though it very well may be!), but folks that have been around the booty block a few times will be grateful for all it has to offer.  Plus all Ophoria toys are made from quality materials (yay silicone!), which means this anal adventurer is totally body-safe, easy to clean and will last for a long, long time.

Topsy Turvy

Masturbation and penetration rhyme, so clearly they go together like peanut butter and jelly, and when it comes to penetration, glass is a fantastic medium.  Hard, smooth and heavy, glass is filling, slippery (only needs a drop of lube) and is a pretty as it is sexy.  The toy that tops our glass list is the Topsy Turvy.  The curve of this particular Doc Johnson dil is fantastic and the nicely flared base and bulb at the bottom are the perfect handles, even the most slick of lubed up fingers.  And don’t worry about the fragility of glass, this type of glass is shatterproof and definitely won’t break in your bits.

For more seriously awesome toys, check out our Toy Review Section!

And don’t forget to get your celebration on while Masturbation Month is still in effect!

xoxo
-JD

Happy Humpday!  Welcome to the midweek stretch.  Time for a little Link Lovin’ to celebrate the awesomeness that is Wednesday.  Look, Thursday is just around the corner!

- Well, cult film director John Waters sums it up in a nutshell.  I guess my sex education work is done here.  Also, that is fucking hot!

- Bay Area photographer Shilo McCabe who takes pictures of local sex positive folks is doing a special Masturbation Month “I Masturbate…” set.  Holy hotness and validation rolled into one site of delicious jerk off fodder.  Yum.

- Lady Gaga wore penis shoes on American Idol?  Maybe it’s time to start watching that show…

- Three cheers for Brazil for ruling that accountant Anna Catarian Bezerra has the right to masturbate at work.  Apparently the 36-year-old woman deals with a chemical imbalance that triggers anxiety and hypersexuality that can be relieved by masturbating.  She had to take her company to court last year to win the right to take care of herself, which is the real thing to remember, all you pervs that are wishing you could wank at work. ; ) (via Buzzfeed)

- Super smart and engaging blog post about the porn found in Bin Laden’s compound.  I’d expect nothing less of sexuality activist/writer Susie Bright!

- Speaking of writers, porn star Ashley Blue (aka. Oriana Small) is releasing her memoir, Girlvert.  It’s $200 and there are only 50 being sold.  Why is that?  Because each book has Blue’s pubic hairs embedded in the dust jacket.  Pretty ingenious if you ask me! (via Buzzfeed)

- More books!  Jiz Lee gives an awesome review of Show Off Book’s “I’ll Show You Mine,” a picture book exploring the diversity of vulvas.  Plus we get a special treat in this post.  <3 Jiz!

- And lastly, Nat Geo spends a little time talking about roving gangs of lesbian hyenas that have giant clits they fuck each other with – what’s not to like!?

Hope this gets you through til the weekend!

xoxo
-JD

Happy Masturbation Month! May has us solo sexin’ crazy and I’ve been spending a little extra time perusing our masturbation movies.  And let me tell you, there are some SUPER hot flicks to help fuel your own celebrations. Here are my Top Five selections when it comes to hanging out with Rosie Palm and her five friends.

Orgasm! The Faces of Ecstasy: As much as I love me some genital shots and close-ups of hands rubbing bits, there is something seriously sexy about only getting an above-the-shoulders view of folks experiencing the sweet flush and overwhelm of hitting that delicious orgasm.  Libido Films does me so right with this amazing document of 22 people showing us their beautiful “o” faces.

Barcelona Sex Project: I’m not sure what I think is hotter in this documentary style masturbation masterpiece – actually watching the people getting off, or learning about their lives. As a pervy voyeur of sorts, both parts get me going and keep me totally engaged in knowing – and seeing – more about each person. Everything Erika Lust touches turns to pure porno gold!

Crash Pad Series – Episode 10: Vai’s Solo: Vai heads to the Crash Pad to study, but lucky for us she gets distracted with dirty thoughts and spends her alone time fucking herself and cumming all over that well worn couch.  This girl is seriously a fountain of pleasure and it is wicked hot to watch her get herself off over and over again.

JoyOfSpex: Madison Masturbation: I’ve always been a fan of four eyed folks, so I was really excited to find JoyOfSpex, a studio dedicated to being hot for glasses.  And I was super duper excited when I found this video of a young, freckled and bespectacled Madison Young getting her solo sexin’ on for us.

Solo April Flores: Four scenes with Zaftig porno queen April Flores getting herself off with a selection of toys – where do I sign up?!?  A list of my favorite jerk off flicks would never have been complete without this masturbation must-have on it!

Enjoy your celebration!

xoxo
-JD

Happy post-humpday!  Welcome back to the nearly end of the week stretch!  It’s been a busy one here at HM4Her, getting back in the swing of things after all the running around to California and Toronto, so this week’s Link Love got pushed back to today, which I think is even more exciting, because it means we are even closer to the weekend!  So, let’s get to it!

- Clearly I am perpetually stuck with a pre-teen sense of humor, because I think this is hilarious.

- I love infographics, especially when they are about masturbation!  Did you know that female porcupines have been known to use wooden sticks as dildos?!?  Me either!

- Porn star Stoya rants about her pubic hair – and all the info people have wrong about it.

- I seriously cannot BELIEVE that sodomy is still illegal in some places.  It makes my brain overload to even thing that’s possible.  And even more so, sodomy is illegal is some states – ONLY IF YOU ARE GAY!  Like in Texas (shocker).  Mother Jones has a map of the most updated data.

- A San Francisco man catches fire inside a private video booth in a sex shop.  Apparently it is unclear what happened to ignite him.  Was it playing with fire, spontaneous combustion, or smiting by a higher power?  You be the judge.

- Really fucking awesome Trans 101 from Tranarchism.    Definitely give a read!

- Time to bring Belladonna out of retirement!  She tweeted that if we can all work together and make #Belladonna  a trending topic on twitter, she will do another scene.  Come on, folks!  Let’s get to stepping!  (via Fleshbot)

- And lastly, it looks like vibrators are making their way into the news… from being sold in the drugstore.  Oh 2011…