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Fat people have sex.  I know, I know, our whole lives we’ve been told that to be pretty (and sexy) we have to be skinny.  And if we aren’t skinny, we should not only not have sex, we should feel bad about our bodies and not want to share them with other people.  Well, I don’t know about you, but I offer up a big FUCK YOU to that mentality.  And apparently I’m not alone.

Researchers recently studied a 2002 national survey and found that overweight women have more heterosexual sex than women of “normal” weight (which, I suppose means their BMI falls within a specific number range).  According to the study published in Obstetrics & Gynecology, 92 percent of overweight women reported having a history of sexual intercourse with a man, as opposed to 87 percent of women with a normal body mass index.  This, or course, blew the researchers minds.  (via Jezebel)

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My partner’s penis is smaller than I’d like, what are the best positions to maximize his goods?
-Desperately Seeking Size
Miami, FL

Not all penises were created equal. Some are bigger, some smaller and, unfortunately, some fall into the “what am I supposed to do with that?!?” category (which includes both the very small and very big). While some people love the smaller stallions, others need a little more horsepower. One of the downsides to having sex using a biological cock (other than the whole baby-making aspect) is that unlike using a harness and dildo, you’re man’s meat is stationary. You can’t just swap out an undesirable size for one that works better with your shape and size preference. But not to fear, there are easy workarounds to get past the problem of the pequeño penis.

Fortunately for us, the body is a bendy and exciting tool in the arsenal of tricks you can use to enhance your sex life. The positions that best suit a smaller suitor are ones that compact the vagina to make it as short as possible. Shorter vagina means that you get deeper penetration and feel more of your vagina being stimulated by his penis.
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I am the perfect candidate to use this starter kit, as it’s truly my first strap-on. I was a bit baffled when I first opened it due to straps flopping out at me everywhere. I got over it quick though. It is easy to step into and adjust for a perfect fit. It cups nicely around my ass cheeks and sits perfectly in front of my clit.

This is extra exciting because the kit comes with a mini bullet-vibe that fits into a little pouch on the harness. The deep purple of the harness proves to be totally sexy, while the lighter purple 100% Silicone dildo complements it perfectly. It looks very impressive on. The contrast of black straps against my pale skin was quite erotic.

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There isn’t much sexy about a dildo protruding out of someone’s thigh. It’s just true. That’s the funny thing about sex toys. Sometimes they aren’t all that sexy until they are engaged in a sexy act. And there isn’t much sexier to me than being on top of my girlfriend, grinding into any part of her. So while the leg harness is a little odd to look at at first, you get over it when you get into it.

The harness basically works like a knee brace (totally hot comparison, I know), wrapping around the thigh and fastening with Velcro. A sewn-in O-ring holds the dildo base tight against your thigh, leaving the business end of the dildo available for doing business. The Velcro holds the harness in place really well and keeps the dildo from moving around. No matter what position we tested, the harness stayed put. We didn’t even need to adjust it or re-Velcro as we moved around.
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