Sometimes She Lets Me: Butch/Femme Erotica

Butch/Femme dynamics have always held a special place in my heart.  Alright, in my heart and in my pants.  Yep, I think butch/femme dynamics are super duper hot.  There is something about the delicious performances of masculinity and femininity that fit within that queer framework that give my bottom that special tingle.  Maybe it’s because I identify as a femme and I’ve always had my eye on masculine-identified queers, be they butch women or transgender men.  Or maybe it’s just this amazing subset of society that has a rich history that I find alluring.… More

Fierce, Fat and Ready to F*ck!

Hello. My name is J.D. Bauchery, and I am a queer fat femme. I don’t write about my own sexual exploits on the site too much, but today I thought I’d disclose a little bit and let you into my interworkings.

Last week I had the pleasure of taking in The Femme Show, a lovely spoken word/performance troupe that focuses on all facets of femme queer identity and everything gender-ific in general.… More

Fucking Femme-tastic!

I ran into this amazing spoken word piece by author/storyteller Ivan Coyote and just had to share it…

As a self identified femme, this piece makes me swoon hardcore.

And if you’re feeling a little tingle in your bottom after watching this brilliant video, check out Madison Young’s fabulous Femmetastic! and all of our other feirce femme flicks!… More

Femmetastic!

I love me some butch chicks – there is no denying that. Fucking with gender is not only awesome because it breaks preconceived ideas of gender roles into little bits, it’s really freaking hot as well. A gal in a tie and strap-on harness makes me weak at the knees.… More