Carol Queen

When it comes to reviewing a movie I really love, sometimes it is hard to do anything but point and grin. That is about how I am feeling right now, as I try to put pen to paper (finger to keyboard?) and express just what I feel about this fabulous Dr. Carol Queen/Robert Morgan instructional butt romp.

As a sex educator myself, I spend a great deal of time figuring out exactly what information is important to fit into a limited time frame, and the best way to keep things fun, frisky and engaging. That said, I really can’t give higher praise to Bend Over Boyfriend for creating a truly sensual and educationally explorative experience for the viewers. Queen and Morgan (directed by the amazing Shar Rednour) bring a warm, informed presence to build an atmosphere of sex-positivity, as well as keep it hot enough to send sparks flying.

Bend Over Boyfriend, which I consider the seminal video of its subject (this is before Tristan Taormino brought her anal lovin’ to the educational screen), eases us viewers into the wonderful world of anal play and pleasure for men – focusing on men with female partners. Touching on all the important info, like lube, communication, toys and pace for the first half of this hour long movie, the flick naturally transitions into sexy activities and demonstration by the middle mark. Like I said, it’s difficult to find a good balance between educating and arousing, but these folks were right on the money.

One of my favorite aspects of this movie is that the educators and demonstrations are quick to show that there are many kinds of ways that pairs can have sex and communicate – from talking about various positions, to explaining more abstract things, like a woman with a strapped-on dildo feeling just as feminine as ever. The attention to detail and normalization of a fairly taboo act went a long way without ever seeming super process-y or preachy. That, to me, is the sign of a awesome educator.

All-in-all, this has been a movie I have loved for a long time and am ecstatically thrilled that we now get to share it with our viewers. So, whether you have an interest in boys, butts or even just bettering your knowledge base, definitely check this movie out!

Watch “Bend Over Boyfriend” Now!

Comments Off

Here on HotMovieForHer.com, we update our movie collection faster than you can shake a dildo at.  While adding more movies is awesome, it sometimes means that we don’t always get to watch all the amazing flicks that fly by before something else shiny and sexy grabs our attention.  We each keep running lists of must see movies and try to review them as much as possible, but some of those top picks fall through the cracks.  Today, for Top Five Tuesday, I am holding myself accountable and letting you in on my most recent list to force myself to find time for these gems!

Erocktavision 9 – Pink Tacos & Beer: We’ve recently added a bunch of awesome movies to our Erocktavision catalog, all of which I am stoked to see, but I am especially excited to watch a lesbo flick with a name like “Pink Tacos and Beer.”  I mean really – how can the phrase “pink taco” not catch your eye?

,

The Sex Files: A Dark XXX Parody (Disc 1): SO excited to see this X-Files parody!  While I am not an avid X-Files fan, I was totally sold on this the moment I saw the trailer!  All the adventure of a sci-fi action movie and all the action of a porno – what a marriage of awesomeness.  Plus we get Kimberly Kane as the super sexy redhead Dana Scully. Swoon.

Seven Minutes In Heaven 3 – Fuck Yeah!: I can’t believe I haven’t watched this – the third installment of director Courtney Trouble’s Seven Minutes In Heaven series!  Another group of insanely hot queers gather together for a super sexy slumber party with lots of kissin’, sexin’ and fun, but no script.  This is reality porn at its finest.

Bend Over Boyfriend: We literally just got this movie in the last few days and I am already frantic that I haven’t watched it yet!  Back in the mid 1990s, sex educators Carol Queen and  Robert Morgan created this awesome guide to anal pleasure for men, and now, close to 15 years later, all the information is still dead on and the movie is just as hot as ever.  Definitely give this a look – I know I will!

Turbo Rock: Rock groupies never looked so hot!  Zaftig queen April Flores and Ashley Blue star in this kink-tastic rock ‘n’ roll fetish spoof.  It sounds like a whole bunch of movies rolled into one and I can’t wait to get my eyeballs all over it!

So there is my list, and I’m checking it twice!  Now all I have to do is add an extra two hours on the day to watch all the porn I want to see… Adding that to the list now.

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery

2 Comments »

Studio: Pleasure Ed Series Category: Instructional

Well, she has done it again. Along with being a world renowned sex educator, writer, activist, co-founder of The Center for Sex and Culture, and Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist, Dr. Carol Queen can now add awesome instructional porn filmmaker to her accomplished resume (while we do have her in one other movie, this is the first she is heading). The first of many Pleasure Ed Series videos, this how-to for licking pussy makes the taboo subject sexy and totally gives you all you’ll need to know next time you find yourself going south on your lady friend.

I’ve reviewed my fair share of instructional porn in my time as a professional perv and I can honestly say that this flick is one of the best how-to pornos I’ve ever seen! This movie is seriously up there with my other instructional favorites – including Nina Hartley and Tristan Taormino, which is no small feat, at least in my opinion. Queen does a wonderful job of teaching the viewer all this information, yet keeping it totally sexy and interesting. One great example of that is her use of a vulva puppet to explain anatomy instead of a chart. While the chart may be easier for some folks to learn from, I thought it was very welcoming and way less clinical to teach with a stuffed pussy!

Another major difference in this movie was that it included queer folks! That’s right – gal on gal cunnilingus was on display as well! It really made me feel as though the information was being directed at me, and not just me listening in on info for men. The movie also featured women and men of different ages and with varying bodies. And though I’ve seen people of all ages in porn and with every body type imaginable, it still makes me so happy when I find yet another sex-positive movie that exemplifies real bodies and real folks fucking.

And we can’t forget about the very visible safe sex demonstrations – with saran wrap, dental dam demos and black latex gloves – oh my! It was super sexy to see people demonstrating how to correctly use each barrier. I hope we see it more! What can I say, I may be a perv, but I’m a sex educator through and through.

Not only did this instructional movie blow my expectations out of the water, it got me extra excited to see what this new studio comes out with next! And I didn’t even START to talk about Madison Young’s scenes. One word: woah.

-J.D. Bauchery

Watch “Going Down – The Official Guide To Cunnilingus” Now!

2 Comments »