I have such a lady boner for Diana Cage. Yes, she is a super duper hot femme, with a wit and attitude to match, but that’s not all I am sweatin’. This sexpot can write! Hot Damn! That brain of hers is smokin’!! The one time editor of lesbian porno mag On Our Backs, and author of Girl Meets Girl: A Dating Survival Guide, is back with a new how-to masterpiece, Mind-Blowing Sex: A Woman’s Guide.
While they playing field is slowly inching towards leveling out, it’s just a fact that women’s sexuality is still a pretty taboo topic. But though it’s still hush hush in many ways, women are craving conversation about sex. I mean, really, just think about how crazy the country is going for “50 Shades of Grey” – it’s becoming a phenomenon. My mom has even jumped on the bandwagon. Thankfully in a culture where female sexuality is still kept somewhat on the down low, there are people fighting the good fight to get sexy info into the hot little hands of the masses. That’s where Diana Cage comes in.
Part how-to guide, part in-depth look at the culture surrounding women and sexuality, Mind-Blowing Sex offers specific positions and tongue movement suggestions, as well as tips on how to reframe your thinking about sex as a whole, picking out toys and generally having the best sex you can be having. That may sound like an ambitious amount of ground to cover in 260 pages, but Cage does it with style and grace, bringing her unique voice to every page. Consider this book to be a little info about a lot of things – a way to get your feet wet with some of these sexy ideas and a jumping off point for figuring out what you want to find out more about.
One major thing I really love about this book is that unique voice I just mentioned. Diana Cage doesn’t pull any punches or feed us any bullshit. She tells it like it is, in a non-judgmental, normalizing way that treats sex like the holiday it is (opposed to treating it like a funeral, or some other negative and to-be avoided activity). Cage talks to us like she’s the friend we go to happy hour with to have these conversations. Basically, she gets the info across in a really accessible way that I think many people can related to.
This book is fantastic for a bevy of reasons… one of which is the fact that HotmoviesForHer is in it! That’s right, JD and the site are featured on page 73 in a section on choosing porn. Very exciting. And while we are so thrilled to be included in this book, we are definitely not being biased with our review. The truth of the matter is that is important to us to be part of projects that we think are awesome and totally support, so of course our review is gonna reflect that, right?
You get our full recommendation on this one. Plus, it’s a good one to give to folks who are just beginning to explore or delve deeper into the world of sexuality, as there are no graphic or raunchy images to contend with. Write yourself a note now to remind you to look it over as a Christmas gift for mom.
Have some Mind-Blowing Sex of your own!
