“How do you give a good blowjob?”
-Jennifer, New York
The best part of giving a good blowjob is knowing how much pleasure you are giving to your man. For many men, their penis is a big part of their ego, so showing how much you love it is the definitely the first step! If you’re just down their chugging and sucking away praying that they’ll cum soon, they’ll know it and won’t enjoy it as much knowing that you aren’t either. You know that you want them to enjoy going down on you, so savoring the time with your man’s cock in your mouth is always worth it. If you love your guy, or if you just want to be that unforgettable vixen in the night, mastering and relishing this art can be just as pleasurable for you too.
Don’t just show your desire to please him, feel it inside you. Consume his body like you want to, a good blowjob isn’t just sucking a dick! Use your mouth, tongue and hands… explore around his balls, lightly down his inner thighs, slowly up his stomach towards his navel, varying speed and intensity. He’ll love the extra attention and will only work him up more. (Don’t tease him too long though, the penis is still the main game!) While you are sucking him, you can create many different sensations by doing different little things. Flicking your tongue on the oh-so-sensitive underside of the head of the penis can drive a guy crazy, as well as creating a swirling motion as you go up and down the shaft can also be quite nice. Releasing a moan or nice “mmmmm” can bump things up a notch with some extra vibrations. Sucking on mints or ice or drinking something hot can also add some extra tingles (don’t forget to ask first, it may be too much for some!) Even though men all share the same equipment, each man is created differently. They come in different sizes, shapes, colors, and preferences. So what some guys may love, others may scream in horror at the mere thought (yes, I’m referring to the anus!). Communication is key in helping give the greatest pleasure you can… and it doesn’t have to be awkward. You can gauge how well you’re doing by his reactions (is he moaning with pleasure or is he commenting on the weather?). Don’t be afraid to ask either – hearing your breathy voice while you’re licking and sucking on his member saying “Tell me how you like it” or asking “Would you like me to….” can be a big turn-on by itself.
Being the BJ queen that you are, the end reward is usually his climax (of course, there are those times when you get too hot yourself and have to stop and beg him to just “Fuck me now!”). Most porn movies show the man finishing himself off at the end and ejaculating on the woman’s face or chest – the proverbial money shot, the ultimate proof of his manhood – however in real life, many men also like it when women swallow their cum. This choice is up to you, as you should never do anything you don’t feel comfortable with, but learning not to be disgusted by it may prove to have appreciative results (just think of how deep he gets in your juices when it’s your turn)! Taste varies from man to man, and can depend on how frequently he ejaculates and his diet. Typically, a diet heavy in meat, caffeine, alcohol, garlic, and onions can create a stronger taste. Some common tips on sweetening semen are just as easy as eating lots fruit or drinking juice (a popular recommendation is pineapple!).
Most of all, have fun! Experiment, relax, and have some good times. But don’t take it from me, learn from the experts!
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