I want to have a threesome. Should it be two guys and a gal, or two gals and a guy, or 3 of a kind? How will we know who does what? Can I get some help here?
-Multiple partnered in Minneapolis
Hi there. Sometimes I like to mix it up in the bedroom, and I would like to know how to try out some “kinkier” things. I’m not into fetish stuff, really, and I don’t see myself as into BDSM, I just want some info on getting tied up and stuff.
-Experimenting in Eugene
We have really good sex. Well, at least I think so. How do I know if he’s enjoying himself? And what he likes more, and what he doesn’t? And when we’re already having good sex, how can I tell him that there are new things I want to try? I don’t want him to think I’m not happy!… More
My husband and I like to try to mix it up in the bedroom, and we have tried costumes, role playing, watching porn, etc. However, something we haven’t tried yet is adding food – do you have any suggestions as to how to dive in?
-Hungry in Hungary
My partner really wants me to use a strap on, but I’m not sure how I feel about it, and even if I decided to do it, I have no idea how to go about it. What advice can you give me?
-Apprehensive in the Appalachians
I thought I’d change it up a little, and write a bit on something that people don’t really seem to talk about – “dirty talk.”
I wrote a while back on all the different and exciting kinds of masturbation for women, and have been so excited to read online about how many women are re-claiming, and acknowledging masturbation, and how many more have just begun to discover it, and themselves, in the process.
Hey Essin’ Em! My partner and I are turned on by the idea of having sex in public, but aren’t sure how to enjoy ourselves without being arrested! Any ideas?
-Exposed in Exton
This week’s column is on something very near and dear to my heart, but that I don’t think gets enough lip service in today’s culture; Kissing.
I’m dating a new guy, and we’re getting to the point where I’m ready to go down on him…I just don’t know whether I should “spit or swallow”. Can you give me some advice?
– Questioning in Quebec