HotMovies4Her Tips – Picking Out A Perfect Dildo!

For folks that don’t spend their days surrounded by sex toys, going into an adult toy shop can be an intimidating and overwhelming experience.  Even if you have few hang-ups about sex and feel totally confident and un-phased to hit the sexy shop, the huge variety of the products available could make anyone’s head spin.… More

HotMovies4Her Tips

I’m not going to get all “try these 4 foods that will drive your partner wild” or “exercises that will make you last forever” on you.  I just want to talk a little about healthy things you can do for yourself that also happen to improve your sex life.

1. Exercise – Increase blood flow, stamina and agility.  If you’re feeling sluggish and a little like you could take or leave sex, perhaps you should try adding a little movement into your daily routine.  Exercise can make you feel like being more active overall and it will give you what you need to make sweet sweet love (or dirty dirty fuck) all night long.  Throw in some Kegel exercises while you’re at it.… More

HotMovies4Her Tips – Four Thoughts On Summer Sex

Before I head into my list of tips, I’s like to say two things.  First, I love summer.  Warm weather is one of my favorite things and as much as I love air conditioned spaces, I actually really enjoy being outside.  Second, this is going to be a list of warnings.  I totally put “thoughts” in the title to make it sound less of a downer, but in reality, this is going to be a list of what to be careful about while getting busy in the great outdoors.  Alright, now that I’ve made it clear that I am not knocking summer or nature, and yo have been warned about my warnings, let’s get to the action.… More

HotMovies4Her Tips – Defining 4 Relationship Models

The other morning I received a great question in my mailbox and thought it would be a good one to share with you guys.

“I have looked these multiple terms, but there is no better way than to get a clear definition and/or insight than from a professional.  What is the difference between Bisexual, Pansexual, Polysexual, and Queer.… More

HotMovies4Her Sex Tips – Choosing The Right Condom

Recently, two of my friends asked me about choosing condoms.  One of which had a bad experience.  It always bums me out when the women (or anyone) I love have a less-than-satisfactory experience.  I was happy to advise and I thought it might be a good time to share a little information with you guys.  Keep in mind that this isn’t a “how-to,” but instead more of a “help with choosing.”  The right condom is obviously important to men, but women are just as affected by the type of protection used.  Yes, female condoms exist, but this post is focused on the penis covering kind.… More

HotMovies4Her Tips – How To Be An Empowered Submissive

In BDSM (which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism), a Dominance and Submission (D/s) relationship (I’m using the word relationship because all interactions are relationships in some way – I don’t necessarily mean an actual partnered relationship) is a consensual power exchange that includes one (or more) people to take on a dominating role and one (or more) people to take on a submitting role.… More

HotMovies4Her Tips – Eco-Friendly Earth Day Tips

While we may have missed Earth Day (as the 22nd ended up on a Sunday this year), we know that folks are showing more and more interest in keeping their lives green year-round. To celebrate both a belated Earth Day, as well as that dedication, we thought we’d offer up our HotMovies4Her tips, tools and tricks for eco-friendly action and the greenest orgasms around.… More

HotMovies4her Tips – Pegging

Today’s sex tips are focused on one of my favorite acts in the entire world – pegging!  It is fun for me and my man, plus being the one to penetrate for a change is pretty amazing.  I could really go in depth with this one, which I will at some point, but for today you’re getting the quick and dirty info on pegging.… More

HotMovies4Her Tips – Keeping Summer Sex Cool

The weather is beginning to change here in Philadelphia, where we are located.  Today the temperature is in the 60’s, but tomorrow it could very well be 85 degrees!  That said, we know how the heat can really hinder getting hot and heavy with your honey (try saying that three times fast!).  We love temperature play as much as the next person, but non-consensual sweaty times is NOT ok with us – and even though the air conditioner helps, it can still be hard to muster the passion when all you want to do is lie flat and not move too much.  Here are 4 helpful tips for beating the summer heat and bringing your love life back to a roaring boil.… More

HotMovies4Her Tips – Traveling With Sex Toys

The HotMoviesForHer team is picking up this week and depositing ourselves in sunny Palm Springs for one of the largest lesbian extravaganzas in the nation – The Dinah.  Along with warm weather clothing and more free porno cards than you can shake a dildo at, we plan to pack a few “specialty items.”  That, coupled with the fact that it will soon be summer vacation season, we figured that now would be as good a time as any to spend a little time talking about traveling with sex toys.  Here are 4 helpful hints for packing for playtime.… More