I’m a woman who has always thought of myself as straight. However, I made a new friend that I think I like in a more friendly way. I want to pursue it more, and I think I’m sexually attracted to her. Does this mean I’m a lesbian, or am I bisexual?… More
I thought I’d change it up a little, and write a bit on something that people don’t really seem to talk about – “dirty talk.”
Hey Essin’ Em! All these magazines try to sell themselves with “sizzling” sex tips, but they all seem to be the same, and many of them I do anyways in my sex life already. How do I know which ones are any good, and which are just from some bored writer looking to make an even 100?… More
Hey Em! I’ve heard a lot about these “kegel” exercises, and I was wondering what all the hype was about. You can’t really exercise your vagina, can you?
-Pondering in the Poconos
I wrote a while back on all the different and exciting kinds of masturbation for women, and have been so excited to read online about how many women are re-claiming, and acknowledging masturbation, and how many more have just begun to discover it, and themselves, in the process.
My partner thinks it’s really important for me to orgasm when we’re together, but sometimes I just like playing around, and don’t really feel like coming. It doesn’t mean I’m not attracted to or in love with them, and I’m still aroused and having fun, I just don’t want to come.… More
Hey Essin’ Em! My partner and I are turned on by the idea of having sex in public, but aren’t sure how to enjoy ourselves without being arrested! Any ideas?
-Exposed in Exton
This week’s column is on something very near and dear to my heart, but that I don’t think gets enough lip service in today’s culture; Kissing.
I’m dating a new guy, and we’re getting to the point where I’m ready to go down on him…I just don’t know whether I should “spit or swallow”. Can you give me some advice?
– Questioning in Quebec
I’ve started seeing a guy who is a paraplegic. I really like him, but I also want to be sexually active…what do I do?
-Concerned and Confused in Columbus