Do you know anything about HPV transmission? Somebody that I’m fooling around with has HPV with no visible indicators. None of the websites I’ve looked at mention anything about how it’s contracted. It would really be good to know what fluids might carry the virus, and whether non-genital body parts are susceptible to contracting HPV too.… More
My boyfriend and I are interested in having sex during my period. Is this safe? I’m also nervous about getting blood all over the place. What can we do to make it less messy?
-A Bleeding Heart
Philadelphia, Pa
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I am a lesbian – I’m not in a relationship now, but I’ve been dating women for about 7 or 8 years – but recently I find myself thinking more and more about men and I am even having fantasies about them. Does this mean I’m straight? or bi? Does this mean I want to have sex with men?… More
I don’t know about you, but when it comes to this time of year, only two things come to my mind – turkey and pie. Thanksgiving has become such a grocery store holiday that I’ve completely overlooked the true meaning. This year I’m changing my ways, doing it up and giving thanks, sex tips style.… More
Not all vibrators are created equally. Some buzz loudly, some are whisper quiet, some are curved, big, small, disguised, and waterproof… but all (aside from the “body massagers”) are designed with one thing in mind – to get you off. Whether it needs to be plugged into the wall socket or it can be brought along in your purse disguised as a tube of lipstick, your vibrator can be a source of totally hot and completely racy enjoyment – both alone and with others.… More
I went into a body piercing shop the other day and was totally amazed by the vagina piercings! There seemed to be a lot of different ones. Which ones are the best for sex?-Might Get Metal
Baltimore, M.D.
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Here we are, back at that time of the year where everyone gets decked out in costume. While Essin’ Em, our gone-but-not-forgotten sexpert (no, she’s not dead, she’s right here here), covered role playing and costumes a little while back, this being the end of October, I felt an obligation to revisit dressing up and getting down.… More
I live abroad and met someone that I want to have sex with, but I’m nervous because have no idea how to get passed the language barrier, as I don’t speak her language (I speak English and she speaks French). How do I make this work and what is a safe way to ensure no boundaries are crossed when you are having sex with someone who does not speak the same language as you?… More
Sex toys are universal. Whether you are female, male, both, none, genderfuck, trans, straight, gay, bi-sexual, tri-sexual or even J.D.-sexual (someone that only has sex with chicks named J.D., of course) – alone, partnered or with a room full of naked folks – sex toys can be great for enhancing your sexual experience and perfect for getting it on in a bunch of different ways.… More
The other day I actually overheard someone ask, “well, how do lesbians have sex??” No, seriously. While I stood there, mouth gapping at the shock that someone might not know, I thought about it for a second. I have absolutely no idea how dolphins have sex. Yeah, I know that’s a stretch, but in reality, for some people, it’s pretty much the same.… More
