I know gay men enjoy a lot of anal action, but do straight guys too? -Karen, FL
So what’s up with his butt, you ask? Men have their only little pleasure center, their own special g-spot – their prostate gland. What makes it a little more of a mystery to some is that located right up in there… you get there through the anus. Some guys don’t want anyone go near there, and I know some of you girls may not want to go anywhere near there either! But if you’re both willing, you could give him an awesome orgasm.
This little magic button is located in the male pelvis, is about the size of a walnut with a firm consistency and measures 3-5 centimeters long by 3-5 centimeters in width. It’s centered right behind the pubic bone, in front of the rectum and below the bladder, about 3 inches inside the anus. (Here’s a pic for those of you that are as lost I was when I first read that).
There are 2 ways to stimulate this sex spot: internal and external. I’ll start with the external, which is done by applying pressure to his perineum. You may know this in common terms as the taint (“‘t ain’t your balls but ‘t ain’t your asshole”) – either way that’s exactly where it’s located. Try applying light pressure and gently massaging this area during intercourse or oral sex. Even though you’re not in there touching it directly, you are still stimulating the prostate. (Don’t forget to pay attention to his reactions either… they may tell you to move on to the next step!)
Obviously, internal stimulation requires insertion into the anus. Make sure you’ve got some lube handy (you should always have some for any kind of butt play!). Juice up your finger nice and good and slowly and carefully insert it into his rectum. (Now, while spontaneity in sex is usually awesome, this is not necessarily the right way to surprise him.) Be gentle and steady, and slowly start moving your finger in and out – this helps relax his muscles. Again, pay attention to his reactions – make sure he is still relaxed and comfortable with this. When your finger is fully inside and you’re both ready, slowly curl your finger back and forth (make sure that you also clip your fingernails prior to playing… you don’t want to scratch and slice up this sensitive spot!). When you curl your finger, you’re directly massaging the prostate and the almighty g-spot. Watch his reactions, you’ll know when you’re doing it right!
Some men can climax from this stimulation alone, some men may need more stimulation like oral pleasure. Experiment and see what works… this is always part of the fun!
An important thing to note, some men (and yes, some women) may feel shame, fear or embarrassment with anal stimulation because they’re afraid it may mean that they are gay or have homosexual tendencies. Get those thoughts out of your head, it’s not true!! Erogenous zones aren’t just for people with certain preferences, they’re for everyone to enjoy, so take advantage! This is just one more way to increase your sexual satisfaction… and experience a super great orgasm!
Ok, girls… I know this might not sound appealing to all of you, but I know a lot of you have had your own butt on the line so to speak and have been nervous about that. So before I went into the pleasures of anal sex, I figured I’d let you know the good old butt hole goes both ways! 
This is not to be used as revenge or blackmail, just a great way to share some great sex. So, if you’re both willing and ready… then let his ass be your oyster and show him some love.
-Venus
Don’t believe me? Watch and learn from a bona fide prostate-owner:
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