Ah, the booty, a magical, taboo place of wonder. The anus has an amazing amount of delicious nerve endings that are just waiting to be stimulated. Unfortunately the stigma and mystery around it causes so many folks to forgo the fantastic action they could be enjoying. Along with being a great place to play, the bum has a few rules you need to abide by when flipping over. Today’s HotMovies4Her Tips focuses on the 4 Cardinal Rules of Anal Action.
Lube, Lube, Lube. When you think you’ve lubed enough, lube some more. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not a self lubricating orifice and you need to add lube to the mix to cut down on the friction. Why would you want to soften the friction, you ask? Because the anal canal is made up of delicate tissue that can easily tear if you thrust around without proper lubrication. I heard a great analogy the other day that I just need to pass along. Trying to have anal sex without lube is like trying to go down a waterslide without any water in it (yes in your bathing suit, where all your skin is rubbing against the slide – ouch!). Lube it up.
Slow down! Nothing about anal sex is a race, so if you are looking to get in, get off and go about your day – find something else to do. The opening to the ass is guarded by two muscle rings – the inner and outer sphincters. Though they are right next to each other, they function very differently. The outer sphincter is controlled by you; when you flex your butt and clench it, that’s the muscle you are working. It’s also the outer sphincter you are opening when you take deep breaths and try to relax to have anal sex. The inner sphincter is controlled by the autonomic nervous system – the same system that tells your heart to pump and your lungs to breathe. You have no control over it, though with time and patience, you can train it to relax and open up. If you are rushing and plowing into as ass without time for it to relax and open its muscles, you are going to create a painful and unpleasant experience for the person attached to the butt.
You have certain flair! Well, it’s really flare I mean actually… flare as in flared base, which anything you put up a butt should have. A flared base just means that the base of the toy should be larger than the shaft; it acts as an anchor so that what you are playing with will not get lost in your anus. You do not want a toy (or anything) to get lost in your butt, which it easily can when lubed up fingers are holding on and powerful orgasm contractions are involved. A toy lost in your bum is a trip to the emergency room – and a vibrating toy is a go-to-the-ER-right-now situation. Save yourself the pain and embarrassment, and just make sure you have a toy with a flared base.
Going from mouth to booty is great and going from vag to butt is fine, but going from ass to anywhere else is a no go. You don’t want bacteria from your bottom getting into your vagina or your mouth because it can cause serious infections, so when you want to play in the ass then move to somewhere else, just be sure to wash your toys, fingers, penis, whatever before sticking them anywhere else. Or even easier, just use a condom and take it off and change it when you want to move around!
Keep your anal action safe and sexy! Enjoy!
xoxo
-JD
