The weather is beginning to change here in Philadelphia, where we are located. Today the temperature is in the 60’s, but tomorrow it could very well be 85 degrees! That said, we know how the heat can really hinder getting hot and heavy with your honey (try saying that three times fast!). We love temperature play as much as the next person, but non-consensual sweaty times is NOT ok with us – and even though the air conditioner helps, it can still be hard to muster the passion when all you want to do is lie flat and not move too much. Here are 4 helpful tips for beating the summer heat and bringing your love life back to a roaring boil.
1) Shower sex! While winter shower sex doesn’t work for us (my partner and I have two different ideas of hot water), summer shower sex is awesome because the water falls between luke warm and freezing. Instead of trying to wrestle for the prime air conditioned location, get naked and do it upright in the shower. Or, if that doesn’t appeal so much to you, hop in the freezing water, then dry off and jump into bed. At least then your bodies will feel chilled by the ac and hotter to each other.
2) Cool it down with a little ice. Bringing ice into the bedroom is a perfect way to play with temperature. I say ice instead of the commonly thought of ice cream because no one wants to deal with a disgusting sticky bed after the sex. Trust us. Plus, sugar and vaginas do not play well together, and the mix could lead to unpleasant infections. Tracing an ice cube over your partner’s hot body will definitely add a thrilling chill to the action. Or you can even just suck on the ice and then lick their sensitive bits. Yum!
3) Temperature friendly toys. When it comes to cooling a toy down fast and easy, the best results come from toys made of glass and 100% stainless steel. And I’m not talking about just randomly grabbing a piece of glass in your house or anything – I mean actual sex toys made of shatterproof glass and 100% stainless steel. Both materials cool off quickly in a bath of ice water and stay nice and cold until your body heats them up. Plus, you only need a drop or two of lube to keep them nice and slick.
4) Embrace the sweat! It can definitely be difficult when you are hot and sticky before you even get started, but try to think of sweat as the perfect full body lube that keeps you frictionless against each other. Heck, maybe even take advantage of how slippery you are a have a little slick wrestling match to get yourselves in the mood. Soon you will forget all about feeling hot and gross!
Who’s ready for some lemonade and a hand job?
xoxo
-JD
