In today’s edition of my online dating adventures I’m looking at sex. Well I’m always looking at sex, I work for a simply huge porn purveyor (and damn proud of it) but I’m looking at sex, in relation to the online dating process.

You see, it comes up a lot when you’re dating or looking to date or haven’t had sex in a while however long that while might be – when does one start having sex with someone new? To be really honest, whenever you want (after STD checks on both parties’ part would be great but we all know sometimes the mood swings contrary to common sense) whether that happens to be the first date or the fiftieth is up to you and your partner.

Some ladies worry that if they hop right into bed on the first face to face that they’ll never see their humping buddy again. Sad to say that can happen but if it’s the first date do you really know them well enough to be emotionally invested if they don’t come back for seconds? Sure the chemistry was obviously great but something more was apparently missing and I personally don’t suggest getting all worked up over that.

Relax, remember to bring your own forms of birth control and if the moment appears enjoy yourself as safely as possible. Of course this could just be me having finally watched ‘Sex and the City: The Movie” and admitting for the hundredth time that I’m soo Samantha with a cross of Miranda (practical with a preference to being footloose and fancy free and hard as hell to catch and hang onto; and yes I know I’m late on the pink girly bandwagon, tell anyone I was here at all and I’ll…). If you’re not comfortable and eager – don’t do it! Simple, right? And who knows, you might be all set to jump his bones when he says “no.”

Truth be told, I could write half a dozen posts on sex alone and I might just later. Basics before Beethoven!

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