If you haven’t heard of Violet Starr by now, you’re out of the loop. This up-and-coming Latina showstopper has been shooting nonstop for the better part of 2016 and 2017, and we can’t get enough of her natural curves and sultry performances. HotMoviesForHer got the opportunity to speak with Starr about her experiences joining the industry, her kinks, and her steamy scene alongside Logan Pierce in the highly anticipated fourth installment of Teens Like It Rough 4.
HM: You were in theater in high school, right?
What do you think your favorite performance was?
My favorite performance was probably The Three Penny Opera.
So you sing as well?
I’m okay, but for that particular play it was like a play with music. So it wasn’t necessarily about singing, it was more like talking-singing. So as long as you could talk-sing you could do it. But it was a lot of fun, a lot of character building. It was a really interesting show.
It’s super hard! Gosh, there’s so many. You know what I really would love, and it’s not necessarily a play or a musical, it’s called The Starfish Circus. I believe that it was on Broadway, but it’s a circus performance show that they did. It’s super cool and I’ve always wanted to be a part of it.
Is it kind of like Cirque du Soliel?
Yeah, it’s a performance art so it’s taking place in an in actual theater.
Do you do any aerial trapeze or anything like that?
Yeah, I just started doing aerial silks. I think it’s so beautiful and I’ve just gotten into it, and I’m doing it every other day as much as I can. I would love to learn trapeze, but I have to be careful with hardbars because they give you a lot of bruises and they don’t like that in the industry. So right now I’m sticking to the silks because they’re a little more forgiving.
Do you like to do acting roles in porn? Are you drawn to roles like that?
Yeah, I mean growing up I always did acting and I always loved that. It opened me up and kind of brought me out of my shell. I’m a pretty shy person, but I was much more introverted before I got into acting. So when I get to play a different character it’s more intriguing for me. When I have sex it’s good, it’s rewarding, it’s fun, but when you get to play into a character it’s more like you’re playing a different role. You get to play a different fantasy that usually you wouldn’t have the opportunity to do if you weren’t even in porn because people are too embarrassed to do it.
Are you into roleplay?
Oh absolutely! But the problem is I can’t find anybody who would also be into that without laughing or not taking it seriously. Most people would be like, “You want me to crawl around on the floor and do what?” But I’m totally into that! So it works out for me.
You said you were shy before you started acting, has being in porn drawn you out of your shell as well?
For sure! Actually, in different ways. I’m exposed to a lot of people so I have to talk to a lot of people every day, and that side of it brings me out of my shell. Obviously people in porn act differently than normal civilians would, not in a bad way, but they’re open about their sexuality, which is great. It wasn’t something I was used to and I didn’t know how to react to that. I feel that I lost some confidence in that aspect, but that’s okay because it makes me a stronger person. And every day that I’m put in a vulnerable situation it makes me stronger. It makes me grow. That’s what I try to focus on every time I’m challenged, and I think that’s a beautiful thing.
Right on! You birthday is December 23, did your birthday ever get overlooked because it’s so close to the holidays?
No, I get that a lot, but I actually love that my birthday is so close to the holidays, because you get the lights, you get the campfires, and the food, and the family, and it’s another reason to party. I can make my party or celebration Christmas-related. There’s so much to do and there’s so much to look at. It’s actually my favorite holiday, so the fact that my birthday is so close to it is super awesome to me. But I never really had that issue.
We definitely had a lot of chemistry. He’s just a great performer. He’s super professional and he wasn’t creepy at all. He was so concerned and tried to make me feel as comfortable as possible. It was just me and him, and there was no crew and only one camera. I just remember walking out and getting into my car and thinking, “Wow, I didn’t know that was possible!” I’d seen it, but I didn’t know I could feel like that. It was astounding to me, because some people will never experience that. And I think they should! There should be a way to change that. Some people will say, “Oh, porn sex isn’t real sex,” but damn! Sex like that, I think it should be! I was looking up at the ceiling like, what is going on? It was awesome!
That’s great! Was Mason the director for that?
No, it was a voyeur style, my first boy-girl. So he just set the camera down and picked it up.
Do you see a difference between European performers and American performers?
I haven’t really focused on that much, except for one experience that I can speak for because I worked with her, which Valentina Nappi. Very nice, beautiful, sweet girl. She is very sexual, very into it, and I don’t know if that’s because she’s European, but I get the sense that Europeans are a lot dirtier. Not in a bad way, but more open. In the other countries they do triple anal, it’s more about the butt, crazier stuff. Back in the day, anal was a big deal, and now it’s not, but in Europe it’s nothing. Completely nothing! That’s from what I’ve heard. My experience has been pretty similar to that, so I can see the truth in it.
For the good first date, absolutely! It was with a guy at AVN. I went on a date with him, and I’m very… I wouldn’t say spiritual, but I’d say conscious. I don’t meet a lot people who are like that, so I basically met the male version of myself, which never happens, and we went on a date! He just didn’t care what people thought, he was fun, he could be so open! He was just an open book, he wasn’t hiding anything, he could just be himself, and I felt like I could be myself. It was just amazing. We clicked so well. The chemistry was so great. We had sex, and I don’t ever meet civilians like that, so this was a very rare thing, but it was the best sex I’ve ever had. And then for the bad date, this guy talked about himself in the third person.
Yeah! He would refer to himself all the time, a lot of ego, he dominated the whole conversation. He loved power. I was pretty fed up with it. It was the total opposite of the first guy, which makes me totally miss him! Like, why can’t you clone yourself? Natural selection, come on guys!
Yeah that last one sounds pretty bad…
But at least I won’t forget his name!
You’ve said that you were in a BDSM relationship for a short while. Was that just a one time thing, or is it a lifestyle that you plan on pursing?
I did it and it was the best relationship I’ve ever had. There were some problems of course, just like in any other relationship, but it was the most intimate. It actually made me realize that I still like BDSM, but I don’t think of myself as a submissive anymore. I do like that aspect of it, and I’m still a natural submissive, but I do like DD/lg, which is Daddy Dom/little girl. It’s basically about the guy being the caregiver, and the girl being little. In life you have all of these responsibilities, and it feels good to let go. Especially if the person is very wise, intelligent, caring, and kind, and that’s basically the only kind of guy who can do that job. So that’s a very rare thing to find, let alone sharing a kink with someone. That’s hard, if they’re not interested in that. Even if you don’t necessarily have a daddy, you can still be a little and you can still have your little space. You’re still adulting all the time, but you can let go and have that child-like energy to you. I think it’s a really cool thing. It’s like an escape.
I feel like that’s the kink of the hour, you know? Everybody’s calling everybody “daddy” now and it’s pretty cool that it’s becoming more, I don’t want to say mainstream, but people are more aware of it.
Yeah, I just wish that people would know that when they say “daddy,” a lot of people either think of [family fantasy] or they think “boss man.” Like “ooh, daddy, ooh six-figures, daddy.” Or sugar daddy! But they don’t think of “daddy, take care of your little girl.” Make sure I’m doing the right thing, and make sure I’m getting enough sleep. It’s nice to have someone want to do those things for you. It’s really caring, and I’m not used to that. I wanted that because my BDSM relationship wasn’t caring enough; it was too strict, and I needed something a little bit more gentle. Hopefully since it is becoming more mainstream, people will see the different aspects of it.
I chose it in less than an hour. I went online and looked at random porn names and added them together until I found one that I liked. I had a list. I chose it because it sounded super bubbly and fun and not really that realistic. I liked it! And when I got into the industry I didn’t really like it because it was “Star” and I thought it sounded too porny. But then I went to AVN and a guy said, “Oh, your name is Violet Starr! Stars are measured in color and violet is really hot. So you’re like a burning star!” I thought, “Okay, it means something, I like it again!”
He is really romantic and good at paying attention to detail. That’s the main thing that I like about him. He can be really rough, but he respects your boundaries. I’ve had people be rough and they’re too rough, or they’re rough but they’re not rough enough. He’s perfect. He pays attention to your reaction and what you say and what you want. He listens to your limits. He’s also a fun person to be around. He can play into a conversation very well, and I like that. It makes the day on set really fun, rather than a guy just treating me like a piece of meat. You know? My pussy’s not gonna get wet! [laughing] I need a little bit more than that!
Yeah, he’s super cute.
Oh yeah, he’s very extremely attractive!
What can you tell us about your upcoming performance in the Teens Like It Rough series?
It was amazing and really cool to act like the innocent girl who has always had vanilla sex and then turned into something completely different, because that actually happened. To reminisce and relive that was really awesome.
So you drew on your life experiences?
Exactly! I love when I can bring it into real life because it helps with the sex a lot. It feels real. I really, really enjoyed that scene.
Yeah! I’m going to be doing interracial on June 1st. I don’t know if I’m allowed to say the company name, but it’s coming out soon. Also, I’m starting my own website with the network CrushGirls, so we’re working on a bunch of content. It’s exciting; I have a bunch of side hustles going on. It keeps me busy. And when I’m not working, I’m always working on that. The busier I am, the happier I am.
Can I ask who you’re doing interracial with?
I actually don’t know yet! I’m so excited to find out though!
Who would be your dream first interracial partner?
Anything you want to say to your fans or any last words?
All I have to say is ‘Thank you,’ because if they didn’t watch me then I wouldn’t be here. I just appreciate all the support I can get, and I love what they love me for.
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