I know it’s been a while since I’ve done a column; life has been coming at me fast and furious lately, and it’s been all I can do to just catch my breath and keep moving. It’s not always a pretty sight, but at the same time I’ve really never been happier.… More
Anything can be done well or poorly, and porn is no exception. Just as it takes time and practice to become a good lover in real life, the same is true for performing well in adult films. And, again as in real life, what turns on one person can be anathema to another.… More
Not that long ago, when a female adult industry performer reached the big 4-0, it was pretty much a given that it was time to move on to that “new career” as a psychologist, real estate agent, or soccer mom. After all, porn was a young woman’s game. Like fashion modeling or ballet, it was simply the way of the industry, and it was nothing personal.… More
My introduction to porn began many years ago. Long before I started working for Girlfriends Films.
I starred in a B/G (boy/girl) video when I was in my early 20s. My costar was my live-in boyfriend, who had a large penis but had never before performed in an adult film and, prior to meeting me, had never considered doing so.… More
Lately people have been writing to me to tell me how excited they are to see a woman creating erotic films they can feel good about watching. I can’t tell you how much that means to me. In fact, if I couldn’t do something positive in porn, I wouldn’t be here at all.… More
When I tell people I’m an adult actress, I can pretty much predict what their questions will be: What’s it like to have sex with people you don’t know? Is it weird? Does it ruin sex for you – do you just get sick of it?
They’re good questions, and I don’t blame people for being curious about how it works – or should I say, IF it works.… More
Back in the 70s when the adult feature film Deep Throat first came out, it seemed porn was poised to be the new art form — or at least to revolutionize cinema as we knew it. We felt very cosmopolitan and European as we sat with our partners in darkened theaters as six foot tall images of human genitalia filled the screen.… More
Recently I attended a party at an Altadena art gallery. A good friend of mine was bartending the event, and when I arrived he introduced me to his sister, Laura. Laura’s dress and hair was new-age bohemian chic, and she immediately struck me as smart, cool and quirky. I liked her instantly, but her reaction to me was a bit hard to read.… More