To be honest when I first started working here, my first thought was always “I’m going to learn so much stuff!” Cause I’m a glutton for knowledge. Really, I don’t care if it’s seemingly random knowledge about a particular leach with a single jaw and a full row of humanlike teeth that loves to crawl up your nose and suck on your mucus – or 365 new sex positions, if it’s information I didn’t have before I want it! So when I came across “Talk To Me Baby: A Lover’s Guide To Dirty Talk & Role Play” I couldn’t help but jump at the opportunity to expand my rudimentary knowledge of the dirty talk. It was just a nerdy little bonus that this film is also brought to use from the Jackie Strano of S.I.R. Productions, which is a new addition to Hotmoviesforher’s growing clutch of awesome films and filmmakers.
I totally loved the idea of a list of your five senses. Favorite colors, smells, textures etc can all be used later, in role play, dirty talk and as Jackie mentions even for holidays and presents. At first, I do not understand the anecdotal scenes in between each of Jackie’s instructions, the first seems like it’s headed for a big argument but somehow resolves into a new and hot fantasy session for both of them. It’s a little – ok a lot – clichéd but it’s also obvious that both of them are getting more and more turned on as they progress through the fantasy.
By the time Jackie is mentioning her third list suggestion though, I’m kind of losing interest in the idea of lists as erotic fun times tool. I become more and more aware of how little lists has to do with the usual spontaneity I hold most dear in the bedroom (seriously I can’t even schedule sex every day at 7pm because then I lose my ‘appetite’ right at 7) and how difficult and perhaps stifling it would be in real time to remind myself not to say breasts but “tits or titties” if I’m not comfortable with that kind of language.
There were moments that I felt more like Jackie was talking dirty to me instead of giving me the kind of confidence and tips that someone shy to dirty talk but looking to explore, might actually be able to use in their own bedroom play. Telling you to spread your lips and demand that your partner tell you just how much they love your pussy – definitely out of many people’s comfort zones. Luckily Jackie does address the fact that sometimes forcing yourself to say those dirty, dirty, words can be as much if not more of a turn on then the words themselves as you surprise yourself and your partner and push beyond your boundaries.
Unfortunately I think there’s a lot of gut wrenching moments that might completely turn off some people sprinkled liberally throughout “Talk To Me Baby: A Lover’s Guide To Dirty Talk & Role Play;” some of which have very little to do with teaching you the art of dirty talk (an example would be the first couple as the woman explains how she’d like to be taken against her will and with no regard for her personal pleasure or regard). Others deal with talking dirty itself, as confidence building so one is comfortable saying what one wants and needs isn’t really discussed, rather the viewer is encouraged to just spit it out. Anyone who has ever been with someone who suddenly starts spewing obscenities while mid coitus as if they’d suddenly been stricken with Tourette syndrome, knows that can be the absolute opposite of sexy.
So I say watch it for the sex itself, some of the scenes are plenty hot. I liked the pony boy in particular but the lesbian mail carrier might be more to your speed!
-FrzKey
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