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Sex Tips - Sex Toys
Resident sexpert J.D. Bauchery does not take her position lightly. Or any position for that matter... Studying sexuality for the last eight years, J.D. is not only working towards a Masters degree in Human Sexuality Education from Widener University (graduating in Spring '08!), she is also trained sex educator with San Francisco Sex Information as well as a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). Dedicated to bringing accurate, non-judgmental sex info to the masses, J.D.'s favorite dirty topics to dish on are sex toys, gender fluidity, queer sex and masturbation.
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New Q & A posted weekly! Have a question? Email her at jd@hotmoviesforher.com
My partner’s penis is smaller than I’d like, what are the best positions to maximize his goods?
-Desperately Seeking Size
Miami, FL
Not all penises were created equal. Some are bigger, some smaller and, unfortunately, some fall into the “what am I supposed to do with that?!?” category (which includes both the very small and very big). While some people love the smaller stallions, others need a little more horsepower. One of the downsides to having sex using a biological cock (other than the whole baby-making aspect) is that unlike using a harness and dildo, you’re man’s meat is stationary. You can’t just swap out an undesirable size for one that works better with your shape and size preference. But not to fear, there are easy workarounds to get past the problem of the pequeño penis.
Fortunately for us, the body is a bendy and exciting tool in the arsenal of tricks you can use to enhance your sex life. The positions that best suit a smaller suitor are ones that compact the vagina to make it as short as possible. Shorter vagina means that you get deeper penetration and feel more of your vagina being stimulated by his penis.
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Oh, G-Spot. To some you are so simple, and to others, you are harder to crack than the Da Vinci code. A few months ago I wrote a basic intro to the G-Spot, but since then, I’ve received tons of inquiries to find out even more about the mysterious Gräfenberg Spot. So, I’ve decided to get down and dirty with our good friend G again and bring you all I can about our international man of mystery.
Plus – and this is a very exciting bonus – our good friends over at Babeland have offered to give us an awesome G-Spot lovin’ prize to giveaway to one of our lucky readers! The Orchid G + Smart Girls Guide to the G-Spot Combo! To win this combo, send your name and address to The Porn Librarianany time between Monday, Sept. 1 at 8am and Friday, Sept. 5 at 12 noon (EST). Make sure you put “G-Spot Giveaway” in the subject. She will draw a name on Friday and email the lucky winner! Unfortunately this giveaway is limited to U.S. residents only. Sorry to all you Canucks and friends on the other side of the pond!
Ok, back to the Spot in the spotlight! Before I get into the “even more” about the G-Spot, let’s have a quick look back at the basics:
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We here at HMFH love our silicone! If you take a look at our toys reviews and even some of the past sex tips, we always seem to be praising silicone toys. Yes, it’s the best sex toy material ever, but we never really say why that is. So I’m taking this opportunity to let y’all know why we love this magic material with a list of the top five reasons why silicone rocks our worlds!
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My mom stopped by unexpected the other day and when we went into the kitchen to get a snack, I realized I had three dildos sitting on the drying rack! We both saw them at the same time, turned red and made an excuse to move to another room. I am totally mortified and want to completely ignore that it happened, but I’m also afraid that my mom will get the idea that I am ashamed to own sex toys if I pretend nothing happened. That may seem strange to worry about, but I don’t want her to think that sex toys are a shameful thing to own. What should I do?-Mortified My Myself And Mom
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I recently bought a 100% silicone dildo and I am really excited to use it, but I’ve been hearing all these horror stories about silicone melting and toys being ruined. As this toy wasn’t cheap, what can I do to keep my dildo in one piece?-To Melt or Not To Melt
Cleveland, OH
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2008. Ready or not, the new year is no longer rapidly approaching - it’s here. I don’t know about you guys, but 2007 was a real doozie for me and I’m looking forward to rebooting in the upcoming year. I’m not usually one to make resolutions (I tend to forget what they are about 5 minutes later), but this time around I am taking a stand and writing up a list of things I’d like to change in ‘08. In fact, I’m recommending that everyone take pen to paper this year and follow my lead. Ok, seriously, I’m just looking for some support with this. Read the rest of this entry »
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Oh, the holidays. That magical time of year where everyone gets together for quality time, gift giving and eggnog. While some of us have the luxury of staying home and creating our own traditions among friends and loved ones, others are making the trek back home to see family - which can be really wonderful and totally horrifying, all at the same time. Not that we don’t love our families, but let’s face it, family time and getting busy should never be in the same sentence. Who wants to forgo sex and jerking off and all that good stuff for as long as these trips can last?!? And they can definitely seem like forever… Read the rest of this entry »
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I don’t know about you, but when it comes to this time of year, only two things come to my mind - turkey and pie. Thanksgiving has become such a grocery store holiday that I’ve completely overlooked the true meaning. This year I’m changing my ways, doing it up and giving thanks, sex tips style. In honor of Thanksgiving, I’ve rounded up the things I’m most thankful for and narrowed them down to my top 5 picks. Feast away on J.D. Bauchery’s List of Gettin’ Off and Givin’ Thanks!
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Not all vibrators are created equally. Some buzz loudly, some are whisper quiet, some are curved, big, small, disguised, and waterproof… but all (aside from the “body massagers”) are designed with one thing in mind - to get you off. Whether it needs to be plugged into the wall socket or it can be brought along in your purse disguised as a tube of lipstick, your vibrator can be a source of totally hot and completely racy enjoyment - both alone and with others. Read the rest of this entry »
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