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Sex Tips - Miscellaneous
Resident sexpert J.D. Bauchery does not take her position lightly. Or any position for that matter... Studying sexuality for the last eight years, J.D. is not only working towards a Masters degree in Human Sexuality Education from Widener University (graduating in Spring '08!), she is also trained sex educator with San Francisco Sex Information as well as a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). Dedicated to bringing accurate, non-judgmental sex info to the masses, J.D.'s favorite dirty topics to dish on are sex toys, gender fluidity, queer sex and masturbation.
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It’s official. Using the internet to get off is standard game. I know because I work in Internet porn. Duh. I’ve seen the stats, and I can honestly say that hordes of people are logging on to get off. Now, that’s not a bad thing, of course. It’s a fabulous, wonderful thing. In fact, it’s the first thing most people think of when they talk about sex and technology. Go us! But sometimes, just sometimes, all sorts of other technology is left in the wayside of Internet and forgotten about when it comes to getting busy. But what about that rectangle of connectivity in your pants pocket? No, not your Palm Pilot, Treo, PDA whatever - I’m talking about your cell phone! While most of the newer phones have Internet access and a whole heap of other applications and settings, it’s the non-preset, extra-curricular uses that make this geeky girl all hot and bothered. And best thing about it? Not only are cell phones fairly universal, they are mobile (duh). You can use your cell phone anywhere! Your house, at work, or even at the airport (where I am now). So check out this guide to getting’ sexy via cell phone!
Phone sex is the obvious starter. Whether you’re on vacation or just in the next room, dialing in an orgasm can bring you to a whole new level of intimacy. Think about it: how much do you really focus on your partner’s breathing and moaning? This gives you the chance to actually hear just how sexy their sounds are. And the whole not touching each other thing makes it even hotter when you do get to actually join forces. Oh, and love your Bluetooth Headsets. Sure, the little cockroach-looking devices that hook onto your ear are awesome when you’re folding laundry or carrying bags, and a necessity to keep your hands on the wheel while driving. But that about other activities when you want to keep your hands free while you’re on the phone? Yep! This little bugger is perfect for phone sex! Like it was meant to be! Even better than speakerphone because the other person’s voice is directly in your ear, almost like they are next to you. Just don’t leave it on during actual face-to-face sex. It’s tacky.
Onward to Sex Messaging! Ok, it’s text messaging really, but I think the former sounds so much classier. Sometimes you can’t just slip away for a rousing roll in the telephone lines. Insert text messaging here as an awesome way to get your heart racing and your fingers worked out. Try a racy midday text letting your partner know exactly what you plan to do to them when you get home from work. It’s really a great medium when you want to penetrate your partner’s mind to get them hot, but not totally ditch your 2pm department meeting. And best of all, you can get as dirty as you want because unlike emailing from company computers, no one is nosing through your backlog (well, unless that’s what you’re texting about…)! This party holds no responsibility for any thumb injuries that may occur. Standard text messaging rates apply.
An added bonus to the Sex Messaging experience is putting your cell phone on vibrate and keeping it your pocket or, better yet, your lap. Have your partner call you over and over without picking up, or self serve by calling from a land line, second cell, or whatever else you have access to. Don’t have a second phone? Check the web for sites where you can send text messages to cell phones for free. Then send yourself a bunch.
Plus, just a few added benefits of the recent uber-connectivity of phones are:
- Most newer phones double as mp3 players. Create a mix that makes you want to get busy. Listen to it on your way home from work to get you in the mood the minute you step in the door.
- Because the Internet is available on many phones, Internet porn is now accessible via cell! Waiting in line at the DMV will never be boring again!
- OhMiBod works great with a iPod, so I bet it would work wonders with an iPhone as well!
Whatever way you use your cell, just remember that phoning it in can be a totally hot and enjoyable way to get busy, either solo or wirelessly connected to a buddy. So step away from the computer for five minutes (but not any longer than that – don’t forget about your friends in Internet porn!) and get your dial tone going with something a little more analog!
Have Fun!
-J.D. Bauchery
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Summer is all about going on vacation. Getting away from the day to day, drinking fruity drinks, lounging on sunny beaches and, of course, tons of hot hotel sex! Who could ask for more? But in this time of crappy economy and ever-rising gas prices, going on an actual romantic getaway can be wishful thinking. Instead of emptying your bank account and spending hours on end in airports or in the car, how about skipping the trip and just getting the getaway? Check out these thrifty ideas for getting your money’s worth of summer and the best sex this side of baggage claim.
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Summer is officially here! That’s right, the lazy days of sun, sand, swimming and sexin’ are finally upon us. And there isn’t much that compares to my favorite warm weather activity - outdoor sex! Sex in the sun can make the hot days of summer even steamier and nights cooler than cool. So grab your sand toys and sunblock and check out all you need to know about sex in the water, sex in the sun and sex on the beach (other than it being a fabulous cocktail, of course!).
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My wife just found out that she is pregnant, about 8 weeks in. Our doctor said as long as her pregnancy is low risk, we can have sex throughout the entire nine months. While I trust our doctor, I am nervous to accidentally hurt my wife or the baby. Are there special ways to have sex during pregnancy?-Pregnant Pause
Brooklyn, NY
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My partner and I want to try something new. We are kinda on a budget but don’t want to waste money on something we don’t like. What do you suggest we try? We have some basic toys but were thinking about exploring something kinky.-Poor But Pervy
Cleveland, OH
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My mom stopped by unexpected the other day and when we went into the kitchen to get a snack, I realized I had three dildos sitting on the drying rack! We both saw them at the same time, turned red and made an excuse to move to another room. I am totally mortified and want to completely ignore that it happened, but I’m also afraid that my mom will get the idea that I am ashamed to own sex toys if I pretend nothing happened. That may seem strange to worry about, but I don’t want her to think that sex toys are a shameful thing to own. What should I do?-Mortified My Myself And Mom
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Recently I’ve been having a problem reaching orgasm when I have sex with my partner. I come easily when I’m by myself, but when I’m with my partner, I get really close to orgasming, but don’t actually get there. He is really supportive about trying, but I end up getting frustrated and stopping the whole thing. What can I do?-All Out Of Answers
Cleveland, OH
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Ah, spring. The time of year when flowers bloom, romance blossoms and you begin to notice the piles of crap you’ve accumulated over the frigid cold months. It’s also a time of purging all those stale winter habits of which we’ve grown oh-so-accustom. That’s right guys, it’s time for a little spring cleaning! Grab a feather duster in one hand and a dildo in the other and get rid of those last traces of hibernation. Here are a couple of ideas to get you thinking about what to keep, what to ditch and what to add to the top of the priority list.
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2008. Ready or not, the new year is no longer rapidly approaching - it’s here. I don’t know about you guys, but 2007 was a real doozie for me and I’m looking forward to rebooting in the upcoming year. I’m not usually one to make resolutions (I tend to forget what they are about 5 minutes later), but this time around I am taking a stand and writing up a list of things I’d like to change in ‘08. In fact, I’m recommending that everyone take pen to paper this year and follow my lead. Ok, seriously, I’m just looking for some support with this. Read the rest of this entry »
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Oh, the holidays. That magical time of year where everyone gets together for quality time, gift giving and eggnog. While some of us have the luxury of staying home and creating our own traditions among friends and loved ones, others are making the trek back home to see family - which can be really wonderful and totally horrifying, all at the same time. Not that we don’t love our families, but let’s face it, family time and getting busy should never be in the same sentence. Who wants to forgo sex and jerking off and all that good stuff for as long as these trips can last?!? And they can definitely seem like forever… Read the rest of this entry »
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