Welcome to Monday, folks. I hope you all had a lovely weekend filled with rest, relaxation and lots of porno. I am hear to ease you into the work week with a little shared masturbation advice. #4 is simply just a good reason as to why you should share your masturbation time. Regardless, I hope you enjoy.
1. Watch and learn: Here is your chance to see your partner in action. Watch their every move and see what gets them going. You may discover a few things that will help you do an even better job of getting them off. Do they favor one side of their clit? Do they go for long slow thrusts or short quick g-spot stimulating movements when playing with a dildo?
2. Give a little demonstration: Verbal communication is awesome and definitely gets it done in the bedroom, but sometimes it’s easier done than said. If verbalizing your preferences doesn’t come naturally to you, this is a good chance for you to simply show your boo what you like.
3. Direction: If you happen to be the opposite and love to chat and communicate, go ahead a give a little direction. It is fun to take control and give explicit instructions on exactly what it is that you would like to see. Your partner could very well enjoy acting out your every wish.
4. Remix: Like many things in the world of sex advice, shared masturbation is simply a good chance to change things up. There is nothing wrong with prying yourselves from each others’ orifices and letting the voyeur or exhibitionist in you do it’s thing. Watching and being watched can make things super intense and damn is it hot.
So, yesterday I wrote a post about ABC’s Nightlinefeaturing porn star James Deen on the show last night. While it’s true that he was on the show and all that, I was actually sorely mistaken when I said that finally the mainstream media would be talking about porn in a positive light. Clearly they aren’t ready to go there, because they couldn’t just have a news piece about James Deen – they had to make it a sensationalized scare piece to warm parents that their teenage daughters may have a new crush… a PORNO crush. Apparently Deen is such a super cute boy-next-door type that even the newly legal (and some underage) ladies are fawning over his blog, twitter, and yes, even his movies.
I’ll admit that I don’t have a television and didn’t have time to watch anything but the clip below, but I have to say that I am quite pleased with how James handled the whole affair. Not only was he gracious and charming as usual, he also told it like it is. He explained that sure, underage folks may be seeking him out, but really, if they are sexual enough to be finding his movies, they are probably mature enough to understand what porn is vs. real life. Sure, that may not always be the case, but I can definitely see where he has a point.* He also went on to say that he doesn’t actually encourage underage people to come to his site, but he can’t control it and doesn’t have much of an issue if they are there. He also mentioned that they should go turn 18 and buy porn. Oh James, you always speak such truth.
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It seems like mainstream news media never wants to talk about porn unless it’s something bad – but not tonight! ABC’s Nightline is featuring none other than boy-next-door heartthrob James Deen.
Tonight at 11:35pm EST, ABC gets down and dirty with Deen, talking with him about the 4,000 movies he has starred in and the newer onslaught of younger female porn viewers.
Unfortunately neither of the HM4Her ladies have tv at home, but we plan to take a look online tomorrow and see what we can find. You should watch for us and comment about it below.
Happy Humpday! Welcome to the midweek stretch. And welcome to February! Sure, it’s still winter in Philly, where HM4Her resides, but it’s also 60 degrees and sunny outside, so you’ll hear no complains from me. I won’t go into the controversial topic of global warming, but… really, there is no denying the weather. Anyway, we aren’t here to talk about now nice it is outside – we are here to talk about all things dirty the web has to offer, so let’s get to it!
- Ginger Leigh sent me this hilarious picture of the future (or, um, the present) of social networking. Thanks Ginger!
- I’ll be honest and say that I know absolutely nothing about Tim Tebow – other than he plays football, is religious, and apparently was in Vegas at the same time the AVN Awards were going on. I don’t know why this is news, since there are no illicit pictures of him and any porn people, but it made Deadspin top stories, so… Now I guess we just wait until Steve Hirsch offers that million dollar deal.
- Wanna up the sexy time fun you have with your partner? Try Mojo Upgrade, an interactive online sex questionnaire. Not only does it offer up a slew of options to pick from, it seems like it would be a great way to bring up all those kinky ideas you’ve been thinking about. Give it a go – I know I will.
- While these pervy vocab words are part and parcel to my usual workday, I thought this dirty glossary might be of use to folks who may not spend their 9-5 looking at smut. (via WSN)
- New findings are saying that some spiders voluntarily castrate themselves and leave their penises inside their female counterparts to increase the likelihood of producing offspring by allowing their bits to continue spewing semen after they leave. They also may be because female have this awesome way of eating their mate when they are finished fucking, so they male has learned to cut his losses and run.
- And lastly, it looks like awesome director Erika Lust has redone her website, and offered up a super cute video of her having a photo shoot. And letting us know that she had a bebe last year – Congrats Erika!!
Pinup girls are so very near and dear to my heart. I myself love getting dressed up in vintage attire and I get all fuzzy over all things old so I thought I would dedicate today’s Top Five Tuesday to all of the awesome pinup porn we have in our collection. We have tons more to choose from, but these are my personal favorites.
American Pinup – I love the mixture of tart and tasty pinup girls and Michael Ninn’s porno vision. His movies are beautifully shot and are treats for the eyes. This movie is all girl-girl and definitely brings any pinup lover’s fatasies to life.
Betty Page – The Naked Truth – I LOVE that we have this movie on HotMoviesForHer. This documentary chronicles the life of the mother of the pinup from how she got started in the industry through her burlesque and fetish modeling days. There is a lot more to Betty than cute bangs and garter belts. You should give it a watch!
Leg Sex Pinups – I’m not sure if it is due to the fact that I’m a lean mean 5 feet tall, but I love watching long legged ladies get there sexin’ on. You can imagine that Leg Sex Pinups gives me what I need along with lots of pinup foot play.
American Pinups Vol 11 – A little different from Leg Sex Pinups, this little porno features darling dames strutting their stuff and stripteasing and pleasing. A tiki babe, a cowgirl and a dressing and undressing brunette bombshell make me smile and feel kind of funny on the inside – no penetration needed.
Box Of Laughter: Dueling Pages – In addition to mile long legs, I also have a fascination with tickling fetish movies. It isn’t necessarily what gets me off, but I love watching it even though it makes me cringe. Tickling drives me nuts, but for some reason a get a kick out of watching it happen to other people. Anyhoo, I have yet to watch this Maria Beatty flick, but it will definitely be getting reviewed in very near future!
Ah, the booty, a magical, taboo place of wonder. The anus has an amazing amount of delicious nerve endings that are just waiting to be stimulated. Unfortunately the stigma and mystery around it causes so many folks to forgo the fantastic action they could be enjoying. Along with being a great place to play, the bum has a few rules you need to abide by when flipping over. Today’s HotMovies4Her Tips focuses on the 4 Cardinal Rules of Anal Action.
Lube, Lube, Lube. When you think you’ve lubed enough, lube some more. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not a self lubricating orifice and you need to add lube to the mix to cut down on the friction. Why would you want to soften the friction, you ask? Because the anal canal is made up of delicate tissue that can easily tear if you thrust around without proper lubrication. I heard a great analogy the other day that I just need to pass along. Trying to have anal sex without lube is like trying to go down a waterslide without any water in it (yes in your bathing suit, where all your skin is rubbing against the slide – ouch!). Lube it up.
Slow down! Nothing about anal sex is a race, so if you are looking to get in, get off and go about your day – find something else to do. The opening to the ass is guarded by two muscle rings – the inner and outer sphincters. Though they are right next to each other, they function very differently. The outer sphincter is controlled by you; when you flex your butt and clench it, that’s the muscle you are working. It’s also the outer sphincter you are opening when you take deep breaths and try to relax to have anal sex. The inner sphincter is controlled by the autonomic nervous system – the same system that tells your heart to pump and your lungs to breathe. You have no control over it, though with time and patience, you can train it to relax and open up. If you are rushing and plowing into as ass without time for it to relax and open its muscles, you are going to create a painful and unpleasant experience for the person attached to the butt.
You have certain flair! Well, it’s really flare I mean actually… flare as in flared base, which anything you put up a butt should have. A flared base just means that the base of the toy should be larger than the shaft; it acts as an anchor so that what you are playing with will not get lost in your anus. You do not want a toy (or anything) to get lost in your butt, which it easily can when lubed up fingers are holding on and powerful orgasm contractions are involved. A toy lost in your bum is a trip to the emergency room – and a vibrating toy is a go-to-the-ER-right-now situation. Save yourself the pain and embarrassment, and just make sure you have a toy with a flared base.
Going from mouth to booty is great and going from vag to butt is fine, but going from ass to anywhere else is a no go. You don’t want bacteria from your bottom getting into your vagina or your mouth because it can cause serious infections, so when you want to play in the ass then move to somewhere else, just be sure to wash your toys, fingers, penis, whatever before sticking them anywhere else. Or even easier, just use a condom and take it off and change it when you want to move around!
Happy Friday!! I don’t know about you all, but this week has felt extra long for me and I am super excited that it’s Friday. We haven’t done a Mixtape Rewind in a minute, so I thought a resurrection would be the perfect way to kick off this weekend and get us all shakin’ it a little in our seats.
This particular song has me bouncing around every time I hear it, so I knew it would be perfect for today. Time to stop what you are doing and get your shake on. Enjoy!
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