Connecticut’s Supreme Court overturned the state’s same-sex marriage ban today! Conn. is now the third state to deem the ban unconstitutional and let us homos get hitched legally. Yay Connecticut! And while I’m not all that gung-ho on any marriage really, I get excited when I see gay rights moving in the right direction. Now all we need is a president that actually backs gay marriage and stops with this whole “marriage sould be one man and one woman” crap. Bo-ring.
Both The Porn Librarian and Miss Behaving are on vacation today and Venus isn’t feeling well, which means I am the lone HMFH’er on this beautiful October Friday. It also means I have total free reign of the mixtape rewind today!!! Well, in reality we always have total control of what we pick, but let’s just pretend that this is something special because I am all alone. It will distract me from now lonely I am… Anyway, let’s get to it!
This week’s mixtape rewind is all about the ladies of hip-hop/R&B that I lurve. I was only gonna post one video, but I decided to go a little crazy and post a few. Wooah, totally drunk with power.
First up is Keisha Cole’s “Let It Go.” It’s not as much that I’m a huge Keisha Cole fan as it is that this song is pretty much running through my head all the time. It’s my girlfriend’s alarm on her cell phone and aside from it waking me up every morning, we hit snooze on it a million times, burning it into my brain every 10 minutes. While I hate it at 8 am, I do actually really like the song. And Missy Elliott is in it, so really, how could I not?
I am a bookworm (hence the new tattoo - yes that’s my arm and my desk, and my new Sex & Candy book in the background). I love to read pretty much anything and everything that comes in front of my face. And while our friendly neighborhood Porn Librarian does all the erotica reviewing in these parts, in honor of my new tattoo (yeah, I’m nerdy like that), I thought I’d write about my favorite sex books.
I love watching girls fuck. Love it. But sometimes I’m looking for something a little less bump and grind and a little more heavy on the makeouts. Sure, you get hot naked Italian lesbians fucking each other’s pussies too, but the real focus is on their super sexy kisses. My favorite scene out of the seven is the second part of scene one. The scene shows a couple in the bathtub, grinding into each other and making sure to utilize the edges of the tub as the perfect place to balance raised legs and teetering bodies. Plus you get them fucking in a giant fluffy bed after getting each other nice and clean (and dirty)!
Also note that there is no music or background noise of any sort really – just the smacks of kisses and moaning, which are never bad things, but I know I like a little music when I get off, so to be honest, I put my own soundtrack to it. I thought Melissa Ferrick’s “Drive” worked perfectly with the movie, especially with the movie sounds turned up loud so I could hear it all together. So. Fucking. Hot. I’m sure I should probably have used Italian arias or something, but I’m not that kinda lady, so you get what I like.
After watching the presidential debates last night, I need a little something to laugh at that isn’t a crotchety old man. Is that wrong? Nah, didn’t think so. This week’s humpday linkage is all about laughing out loud at your desk, to the point at which your co-workers turn around and stare. Or, maybe that was just me. Whatever the case, click and enjoy. Onward to the link lovin’!
- Speaking of politicans, this Boinkology link is what first made me laugh and make my co-workers question my sanity. While fairly SWF, you might want to wait til you’re alone, if even just to preserve your perceived craziness. (via Boinkology)
- A few weeks back, Violet Blue posted a contest looking for the best sex-related ad campaigns. The results are in, and ah-mazing! Check out Blue’s Tiny Nibbles to see what companies have the best sexy adversiting. And can we say what the weird sexual animal personification ad Orangina?!?
- The bargaining power of sex toys. Who knew?!? Which is my total opposite response in the case of Michelle Rodriguez’s sexaulity. “Allegedly lesbianic actress” my ass… (via queerty)
I love the ladies. And second to lovin’ the ladies, I love lezzie porn! And lucky for me, we have a ton of lesbian movies - everything from women making sensual love to hot butch dykes pounding away with huge strap-ons - I love it all!
While watching women have sex is pretty awesome no matter what, I will say that I am definitely way more interested in watching lesbians get busy, not just girl-on-girl action - and yes, there is a difference. Pretty much every porn movie that has women in it has at least one girl-on-girl scene, and that all fine and good, but I am all about the lezzies - the actual girl lovin ladies that are hot for the pussy both in front of and behind the camera.
Check out my top five favorite lesbian studios that feature girl lovin girls from around the world! You won’t be disappointed.
I would say that I am a pretty sexually adventurous person. I like to try new things. Even if I’m not sure what the outcome will be, I’m usually pretty game to at least give it one wholehearted go. So when I was asked to pick out a sex toy to review from an entire website of products, I jumped at the chance to try something totally different than anything I already had. And seeing as I am a sex toy reviewer, I have a ton of toys - from a 24 ounce steel barbell to a trio of finger vibes plugged into a battery operated power pack strapped to your wrist. Let’s just say my cup runneth over. But one thing I was really lacking was butt specific toys. Deciding that’s where I wanted to fill my gap, so to speak, I flipped to the anal toy page and picked the first interesting thing I found – 100% silicone anal beads. Two weeks later Flexi Felix landed on my desk.
To be perfectly honest, even though I had previously seen pictures of Flexi Felix before considering it for my own personal ass, I was surprised how much it looked like a kid’s teething toy. And yes, I know how gross that association is when, in fact, you shove this toy up your ass. Shaped like a hot pink Caterpillar with big eyes that double as finger handles and a long, snake-like body, Felix is perfectly nubbed with size increasing bumps. And a big smile – can’t forget that. I’m not usually one to go for a toy with an animal face, mostly because they freak me out a little bit, but I gave in for this one because it’s made of Fun Factory’s amazingly velvetly 100% silicone and the continuous chain of “beads” appealed to me more than beads on a string. I would have gone with Fun Factory’s Bendybeads, but another reviewer beat me to the punch.
Personification (or animalification) aside, Flexi Felix ended up being a good set of anal beads - used by someone that, as it turns out, doesn’t really enjoy anal beads. You learn new things about yourself all the time.
While I realized early on in my anal bead adventure that they weren’t really for me, I will say that Felix is super smooth and silky and easy to insert. The chain starts with smaller beads which get bigger as you get closer to the Caterpillar face handle. And speaking of the handle, it turned out to fit my fingers perfectly and was great to have for pushing and pulling the beads in and out. The silicone parts between the beads are fairly thin and keep the whole toy a little on the floppy side for me. At times it was difficult to maneuver the beads because the whole chain would squirm around as I moved it, but I mostly countered that by abandoning the handle and just pushing and pulling directly on the bead needing to move. Though, paired with lots of lube on both the toy and my hands, this proved to be a slippery situation.
All in all, great phthalate-free material, super easy clean up and sterilization, and Fun Factory’s signature quality all make this toy a great choice if you’re in the market for anal beads. And though I now know I may not belong to that group of consumers, I’m glad I picked up something different and expanded my sex toy horizons. Plus, just because I don’t like anal beads doesn’t mean my partner won’t. Maybe Felix will make it to the top of my toy chest after all… and maybe you’ll get an update… if you’re up for an adventure.
(who came out in favor of gay marriage, as well as out of the closet)
way better than this one:
(who blogged this recently:
‘It is time that religious believers began to recommend… discouragements of homosexual practices after the style of warnings on cigarette packets.
‘Let us make it obligatory for homosexuals to have their backsides tattooed with the slogan SODOMY CAN SERIOUSLY DAMAGE YOUR HEALTH and their chins with FELLATIO KILLS.’ )
Yeah… no contest there really. And we definitely agree that this one has crazy eyes.
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #150? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks Art of the Cunt
“The point of the abstraction was so that they, although anatomically correct, are hidden enough in colouring and some of the external shapes to hide the image for what it is.”
We’ve reviewed a few Erocktavision titles, but I actually never sat down and watched the first volume in this visionary lesbian series. The Lesbian Couple features Erockstar Niki Clover and Cameron Cruz in six hot scenes that ooze raw sexuality. I loved being able to watch these two gorgeous blonds get it on all over some fancy house – it was totally hot. Throughout the movie, you get to see all sorts of good stuff including a sexy shower scene, strap-on action, and a hot tryst that includes a pink double-ended dildo. If these girls didn’t know each other well before shooting, there’s no doubt that they do now! My favorite scene is the fourth, because it’s a super hot strap-on segment that takes place on the stairs. Watching Clover get fucked from behind with her leg up on the railing is definitely a highlight for me. This movie is a really cool look into the world of lesbian sexuality directed by Mz. Dana Dane. Her focus on great music and quality camera work make her films stand out in a world full of mundane porno footage.
