Someone needs to amend the dictionary STAT, because this comic is not only hilarious, but let’s face it, pretty much true.  Thanks Queers With Cats!

 
xoxo
-JD & Ginger

So, yesterday I wrote a post about ABC’s Nightline featuring porn star James Deen on the show last night.  While it’s true that he was on the show and all that, I was actually sorely mistaken when I said that finally the mainstream media would be talking about porn in a positive light.  Clearly they aren’t ready to go there, because they couldn’t just have a news piece about James Deen – they had to make it a sensationalized scare piece to warm parents that their teenage daughters may have a new crush… a PORNO crush.  Apparently Deen is such a super cute boy-next-door type that even the newly legal (and some underage) ladies are fawning over his blog, twitter, and yes, even his movies.

I’ll admit that I don’t have a television and didn’t have time to watch anything but the clip below, but I have to say that I am quite pleased with how James handled the whole affair.  Not only was he gracious and charming as usual, he also told it like it is.  He explained that sure, underage folks may be seeking him out, but really, if they are sexual enough to be finding his movies, they are probably mature enough to understand what porn is vs. real life.  Sure, that may not always be the case, but I can definitely see where he has a point.*  He also went on to say that he doesn’t actually encourage underage people to come to his site, but he can’t control it and doesn’t have much of an issue if they are there.  He also mentioned that they should go turn 18 and buy porn.  Oh James, you always speak such truth.

Let’s take a look at a quite clip.  Sorry it won’t embed.  Ug.

Thanks, James,  for not allowing them to turn this into the shit show they wanted it to be.

xoxo
-JD

*This is my, JD’s, point of view, not the whole of HM4Her.  And no, I don’t condone underage people to watch porn. I’m just saying I get his point.

It seems like mainstream news media never wants to talk about porn unless it’s something bad – but not tonight!  ABC’s Nightline is featuring none other than boy-next-door heartthrob James Deen.

Tonight at 11:35pm EST, ABC gets down and dirty with Deen, talking with him about the 4,000 movies he has starred in and the newer onslaught of younger female porn viewers.

Unfortunately neither of the HM4Her ladies have tv at home, but we plan to take a look online tomorrow and see what we can find.  You should watch for us and comment about it below.

Happy Humpday!  Welcome to the midweek stretch.  And welcome to February!  Sure, it’s still winter in Philly, where HM4Her resides, but it’s also 60 degrees and sunny outside, so you’ll hear no complains from me.  I won’t go into the controversial topic of global warming, but… really, there is no denying the weather.  Anyway, we aren’t here to talk about now nice it is outside – we are here to talk about all things dirty the web has to offer, so let’s get to it!

- Ginger Leigh sent me this hilarious picture of the future (or, um, the present) of social networking.  Thanks Ginger!

- I’ll be honest and say that I know absolutely nothing about Tim Tebow – other than he plays football, is religious, and apparently was in Vegas at the same time the AVN Awards were going on.  I don’t know why this is news, since there are no illicit pictures of him and any porn people, but it made Deadspin top stories, so… Now I guess we just wait until Steve Hirsch offers that million dollar deal.

- Wanna up the sexy time fun you have with your partner?  Try Mojo Upgrade, an interactive online sex questionnaire.  Not only does it offer up a slew of options to pick from, it seems like it would be a great way to bring up all those kinky ideas you’ve been thinking about.  Give it a go – I know I will.

- While these pervy vocab words are part and parcel to my usual workday, I thought this dirty glossary might be of use to folks who may not spend their 9-5 looking at  smut. (via WSN)

- Is porn’s own James Deen going to be in the new Bret Easton Ellis movie?  According to certain tweets, he may just be! (via Tiny Nibbles)

- New findings are saying that some spiders voluntarily castrate themselves and leave their penises inside their female counterparts to increase the likelihood of producing offspring by allowing their bits to continue spewing semen after they leave.  They also may be because female have this awesome way of eating their mate when they are finished fucking, so they male has learned to cut his losses and run.

- And lastly, it looks like awesome director Erika Lust has redone her website, and offered up a super cute video of her having a photo shoot.  And letting us know that she had a bebe last year – Congrats Erika!!

Hope this gets you through til the weekend!

xoxo
-JD

Ah, the booty, a magical, taboo place of wonder.  The anus has an amazing amount of delicious nerve endings that are just waiting to be stimulated.  Unfortunately the stigma and mystery around it causes so many folks to forgo the fantastic action they could be enjoying.  Along with being a great place to play, the bum has a few rules you need to abide by when flipping over.  Today’s HotMovies4Her Tips focuses on the 4 Cardinal Rules of Anal Action.

Lube, Lube, Lube.  When you think you’ve lubed enough, lube some more.  Unlike the vagina, the anus is not a self lubricating orifice and you need to add lube to the mix to cut down on the friction.  Why would you want to soften the friction, you ask?  Because the anal canal is made up of delicate tissue that can easily tear if you thrust around without proper lubrication.  I heard a great analogy the other day that I just need to pass along.  Trying to have anal sex without lube is like trying to go down a waterslide without any water in it (yes in your bathing suit, where all your skin is rubbing against the slide – ouch!).  Lube it up.

Slow down!  Nothing about anal sex is a race, so if you are looking to get in, get off and go about your day – find something else to do.  The opening to the ass is guarded by two muscle rings – the inner and outer sphincters.  Though they are right next to each other, they function very differently.  The outer sphincter is controlled by you; when you flex your butt and clench it, that’s the muscle you are working.  It’s also the outer sphincter you are opening when you take deep breaths and try to relax to have anal sex.  The inner sphincter is controlled by the autonomic nervous system – the same system that tells your heart to pump and your lungs to breathe.  You have no control over it, though with time and patience, you can train it to relax and open up.  If you are rushing and plowing into as ass without time for it to relax and open its muscles, you are going to create a painful and unpleasant experience for the person attached to the butt.

You have certain flair!  Well, it’s really flare I mean actually… flare as in flared base, which anything you put up a butt should have.  A flared base just means that the base of the toy should be larger than the shaft; it acts as an anchor so that what you are playing with will not get lost in your anus.  You do not want a toy (or anything) to get lost in your butt, which it easily can when lubed up fingers are holding on and powerful orgasm contractions are involved.  A toy lost in your bum is a trip to the emergency room – and a vibrating toy is a go-to-the-ER-right-now situation.  Save yourself the pain and embarrassment, and just make sure you have a toy with a flared base.

Going from mouth to booty is great and going from vag to butt is fine, but going from ass to anywhere else is a no go.  You don’t want bacteria from your bottom getting into your vagina or your mouth because it can cause serious infections, so when you want to play in the ass then move to somewhere else, just be sure to wash your toys, fingers, penis, whatever before sticking them anywhere else.  Or even easier, just use a condom and take it off and change it when you want to move around!

Keep your anal action safe and sexy!  Enjoy!

xoxo
-JD

Happy Friday!!  I don’t know about you all, but this week has felt extra long for me and I am super excited that it’s Friday.  We haven’t done a Mixtape Rewind in a minute, so I thought a resurrection would be the perfect way to kick off this weekend and get us all shakin’ it a little in our seats.

This particular song has me bouncing around every time I hear it, so I knew it would be perfect for today.  Time to stop what you are doing and get your shake on.  Enjoy!

Have a great weekend!

xoxo
-JD

Happy Humpday!  Welcome to the midweek stretch.  Sorry about the Link Love lapse last week (would you look at that alliteration!), but I was heading to Boston to talk about porn at a conference (seriously), and I didn’t get a chance to celebrate the Humpday with you all.  Oh well, I’m back this week and ready to get my party on and bring you the dirtiest news the web has to offer.  Let’s get to it!

- What makes more sense merged together than a Fleshlight and an iPad case?  Oh man, pervs have the BEST inventions!

- Back in 1989, artist Lisa Anne Auerbach found a bunch of ripped up porno mags on top of a car parked at Chicago’s O’Hare Airport.  It may be 23 years later, but Auerbach is turning one mans trash into another’s treasure, blowing up the scraps into large scale prints for her series “Torn Porn.”  I’m very excited this link has a photo gallery attached.

- Betty Dodson is so amazing.  Not only was she one of the first women to talk openly about female orgasms, now that she is in her 80′s, she still talks about her own orgasms!  I hope I’m this cool when I get older.

- My, oh my, this world is quite a phallic place to live!

- Hazel Jones, the British woman born with two fully formed vaginas, has turned down a million dollar porno proposition by Vivid Entertainment CEO Steve Hirsch.  Oh well, I guess for now we will just have to watch folks with one vag get busy.  (via Tiny Nibbles)

- And lastly, via Tiny Nibbles as well, take a look at the awesome trailer for a new documentary about women in porn called “Aroused.”  It should be out this spring and I can’t wait!

Aroused: The Lost Sensuality of a Woman – Trailer from David Schenk on Vimeo.

Hope this gets you through til the weekend!

xox0
-JD

The 29th Annual AVN Awards rocked Vegas this past weekend, celebrating the best of the best in dirty action.  This ‘Oscars of porn’ is pretty much the event of the industry, so we figured what better way to congratulate the winners than to do a Top Five Tuesday, right?  Unlike top fives we’ve done in the past, I thought we might switch it up a little this week and add in clips for some of the five featured flicks.  So, let’s do it!

Bush.
This Elegant Angel movie focusing on ladies sporting pubic hair (hence the name) took the award for Best Specialty Release – Other Genre.  While I’m not sure exactly what that ‘other genre’ is, I assume it’s the pubic hair talking. Balls deep with some of the hottest performers out there (like James Deen, Allie Haze, Bobbi Starr, Kristina Rose and Kimberly Kane), this video made my list due to the extra sexy clip below.  I love me some Kimberly Kane… even though she keeps her Ugg-esque boots on the whole time.

Spider-Man XXX – A Porn Parody
This year it looks like porno parodies had their day in the sun, even getting a few of their own categories at the 2012 AVN Awards. So, of course, at least one had to make it on to the list.  My favorite of the bunch is Vivid‘s Spider-Man XXX – A Porn Parody, which came home with both the Best Cinematography and Best Parody – Drama awards.  Nice work, Spidey!  My favorite part?  When MaryJane goes in for the upside-down kiss, then Spider-Man reels up, only to come back down with his cock out, looking for a BJ.  Hilarious.

Portrait Of A Call Girl
Apparently I am on an Elegant Angel kick, because this awesome feature film is by EA as well.  Along with nabbing Best Feature, this flick also took home Best Director – Feature (Graham Travis) and Best Actress (Jessie Andrews). It must have been an exciting night for everyone involved!  If you are looking for a porno movie that’s less wham-bam and more story with lots of hot sex, this is the one for you!  Check out my review to read more about what makes this dirty movie so damn awesome!

Ink
Daring Media Group’s sensual foray into beautifully tattooed folks getting busy won this year’s Best Foreign All-Sex Release.  Both elegant and raw, this high quality film encompasses desire and erotic delights – all while hitting it tastefully hardcore.  While that mix is difficult to find in general, it’s even harder to find done well.  Nice work Daring.  You definitely deserve this win!

Belladonna: Sexual Explorer
Oh man, Belladonna is seriously amazing.  Bella and Dana DeArmond took home the Best Girl/Girl Sex Scene award with their ridiculously delicious duo in this double disc set and holy crap do they deserve it.  The whole movie is fantastic (what Belladonna movie isn’t?), but I especially loved this scene and am so happy that it won!  Just take a look at this foot-heavy clip below and see for yourself.

Head over to AVN to see a complete list of winners.

Congratulations to all of this years winners and nominees!

xoxo
-JD

Last night we joined up with Sinclair Sexsmith and hosted one hell of an amazing #PornParty!  After offering up free minutes to anyone who wanted to watch along, we hunkered down, each at our own computers, and turned on Anna Devia’s Alpha Femmes at all at the same time.

Not only did a bunch of folks tune in to watch, but lots of people live tweeted the mass porno viewing as well!  PLUS we had Director Anna Devia and a few of the movie’s stars (including Akira Raine and Cadence St. John) tweeting along and giving behind-the-scenes info.  What fun, right?

While the whole thing was seriously fun (I guess I can’t really complain about taking work home, right?), I wanted to highlight some of my favorite tweets of the night.

In no particular order:

Pretty hilarious, right?  Definitely take a look at the movie to see what we were all talking about.

Thanks again to Sinclair Sexsmith and Anna Devia for making this as awesome as possible.  We can’t wait til next time!  Any movie suggestions?

xoxo
-JD

Who’s ready to party!?!  That’s right, the night is finally here – Sinclair Sexsmith (@mrsexsmith) and HotMoviesForHer.com (@hotmovies4her) are hosting #PornParty… and you are totally invited!

Tonight at 9pm EST/6pm PST, join in the hot queer porn fun as we all take to HotMoviesForHer.com and watch Anna Devia’s Alpha Femmes, all the while tweeting together about the movie under the hashtag #pornparty.

Best part?  We are offering up Alpha Femmes for FREE!  All you need to do is set up an account at HotMoviesForHer.com (you will need a credit card for age verification, we won’t charge it) and use the offer code ‘AlphaFemmes’ for 90 FREE minutes.

Again, that offer code is ‘AlphaFemmes’

If you already have an account, when you login in, there will be a space to put in an offer code to add the minutes to your account.

*If it’s not clear, you watch from wherever you are and tune into twitter to join the party.  There is no physical porn party happening.  It’s all digital!

As well, director Anna Devia (@AnnaDevia) will be live tweeting along with us, giving behind-the-scenes info on the movie and generally being a porno badass.  And who knows which of Alpha Femme’s delicious stars may stop by?  I guess you’ll have to join in to find out!

AND Anna Devia is giving away 5 copies of her signed DVD (signed by Syd Blakovich and Akira Raine) to folks who follow her… announced as soon as we hit play, so follow away!

And just because they are awesome you should totally follow all of the awesome stars of this film @fatty_d, @sydblakovich, @jizlee, @playwithpuck, @girlvert, @sarahleesinful, @akiraraine, @cadencestjohn!  Because who doesn’t love queer porn?!?

Who’s ready??  We Are!

Hope to see you there!

xoxo
-JD