Hilarious and informative.

xoxo
-JD

(I found this bush on the Facebook… I’m not sure where it’s from, but I love it.)

- Parents were none too happy when they realized that Miami’s Exxxotica Expo was being held at the same venue (and same time) as a local high school’s senior prom.  Sure, I get than folks are concerned about exposure to minors, but honestly, I doubt anyone is seeing anything at the Exxotica Expo that they haven’t seen on prime time TV.  I would be more concerned about people mistaking some of the prom attendees for porn stars.  Have you seen the skimpy prom dresses that parents are buying for their kids these days?

- Speaking of porn conventions, it looks like former wrestler Chyna collapsed at the Exxxotica Expo.  Apparently the whole weekend was a bit of  a rough time for her…

- The latest in sex toy tech.  Yum.

- In honor of masturbation month, here are 9 Techniques For More Pleasurable Masturbation. (via TheFrisky)

- When worlds collide.  Hilarious.

- A really interesting review of the documentary “After Porn Ends.”  I haven’t seen the movie, which is about what the stars interviewed have done since leaving the industry and how their porn careers have affected their lives, but from the trailer, it seems that they are skewing it to look like all porn performers are damaged goods.  Hmmm.  From what I can tell, it seems a little sensationalized and lacking a fair and fuller representation.  But maybe I’m wrong.

- And lastly, here are 18 life-size female mannequin nutcrackers.  I’m not even sure what to say about it, though I’m sure I could talk at length about the implication of the objectification of women and the idea of the domineering woman if you gave me a minute…

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Welp, hope this gets you through to the three-day weekend!

xoxo
-JD

Anyway, here is a little what Dylan has to say about herself, from her bio:

I grew up in a small town in California, and I’m a sweet girl with a frisky side who also happens to have the best family. I love to have fun and I am so thankful to have my life. I have the most amazing kick-ass job, being a PORNSTAR! I love life and having fun. I am such a lucky girl!

My idea of fun is cooking or BBQ, going to the beach, Disneyland, traveling, watching baseball, going to the lake, just having fun! I love to sleep! I gotta have my beauty rest! I used to have a regular day job, but decided I enjoyed modeling and the spotlight more.I think it is awesome to have fans!

I am very social, a huge flirt and love being with people. I am very sexual and love knowing people enjoy watching me. The sexiest thing about me are my eyes when I’m doing a scene I love getting into it and then looking at the camera with in a very lustful, lascivious, libidinous wanton, way! I love sex and embracing the moment and enjoy the feeling and rush of being on camera.

Sounds pretty great, right?  So without further delay, here is part one of our video interview with Dylan Ryder!

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This interview was so fantastic and long that we had to break it down into 3 parts, so be sure to come back for more!

xoxo
-JD

Ps. If you want to know even more about Dylan, check out this About Me page on her official website!

“I have looked these multiple terms, but there is no better way than to get a clear definition and/or insight than from a professional.  What is the difference between Bisexual, Pansexual, Polysexual, and Queer. I am at a lost.”

Ah, labels.  Some people hate them, while others cannot live without.  When it comes to the taxonomy of relationships, the language of labels can be a little on the tricky side.  In fact, it can be downright confusing. What makes it all so difficult is that folks relate to one another in such nuanced ways that the smallest details count when talkin’ definitions.  So, with that, let’s take a look at these four terms and see how they are both different an similar.

Before we get down to the nitty gritty, let me just say that these terms can definitely be confusing, especially because there are many definitions and folks don’t usually agree on one.  This is my take on the whole thing.

1) Bisexual means that a person has the potential to be attracted sexually emotionally and/or romantically to both men and women.  Bisexuality is couched in the notion that there are only two sexes and doesn’t leave room for there to be folks that identify as anything other than male or female.  Many folks assume that bisexual means that a person is attracted to men and women equally, but I don’t believe that is always the case.

2) Pansexual means that a person has the potential to be attracted sexually, emotionally and/or romantically to all types of folks, regardless of biological sex, gender identity, gender expression, orientation, etc.  This leaves room for folks who identify outside of the male/female binary, including trans and gender variant folks.

3) Polysexual, on the other hand, means that a person has the potential to be attracted sexually, emotionally and/or romantically to many types of folks, but not necessarily all.  It too leaves room for folks who identify outside of the male/female binary, including trans and gender variant folks.

4) When it comes to Queer, the definition is very tricky because there really are so many ways that folks define the term for themselves and their lives.  I can only give you my definition of queer and some resources to take a look at what other people say.

To me, Queer is an identity that really works as an intersection of sexual/romantic/emotional desires and lifestyle.  Yes, queer folks have the potential to be attracted sexually, emotionally and/or romantically to all types of folks, regardless of biological sex, gender identity, gender expression, orientation, etc., but it’s more than just that.

To me, being queer is about making a proud/loud statement against heteronormativity, gender binaries and assimilation.  Queer doesn’t just leave room for everyone on the gender continuum (as well as everyone who does not identify as part of the continuum), it readily embraces all gender identities, gender expressions, biological sexes, etc.  Sure, you could say that someone who is Pansexual could identify as Queer, and someone who is Queer could identify as Pansexual, but again, I believe that Queerness is more than just who you wanna sleep with – it’s a political statement, an outward way to let folks know that you acknowledge that there is way more than a gender/sex binary and a way of life for many folks.

Phew, that was a big definition.  And specifically my own definition.  Do you have any other definitions or ideas you’d like to contribute?  Comment away!

xoxo
-JD

Anyway, we had the great fortune to score an interview with Miss Simone last fall, and since Ginger Leigh is the one who put together the interview for FetishMovies, we talked about the questions beforehand and decided not to ask the same 20 we ask on this site, so that we could pair the interviews up to make one giant Julie Simone interview explosion.  Pretty clever, huh?

So, check out what Julie Simone had to say to us, then scurry over to FetishMovies to read more!

xoxo
-JD

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Check out the whole project at Grand Old Party!

(via TheFrisky)

xoxo
-JD and Ginger

- She is an amazingly talented feminist porn director who makes beautiful erotic movies with women in mind.

- She recently won Movie Of The Year at the 2012 Feminist Porn Awards for her film “Cabaret Desire.”

- This is her third Movie Of The Year award from the FPAs, including last year’s for “Life, Love, Lust.”

- She is a bad-ass mama with two young daughters (that she plans to be open and honest with about female sexuality!).

- She doesn’t know how to create a bad movie.  Don’t believe us, take a look at her films!

There is so much more to say about Erika Lust, but instead, why don’t you just see for yourself!

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Thank you so much for the interview, Erika!!  HM4Her loves you!

xoxo
-JD

- Yes, that those are actually penis print leggings.  I don’t know if you heard, but animal print is sooo over. Penis is where it’s at now!

- French anthropologists have discovered 37,000-year-old dirty cave drawings that they are calling the world’s oldest porn.

- Is there a “Kinky Sex Revolution” happening here in America?  What is 50 Shades Of Grey doing to our housewives?!?

- Draw Something porno.  Don’t tell me you aren’t impressed with their drawing skills.  they must be using an iPad, cause you know it’s impossible to draw well on a phone.

- Twin brother plastic surgeons that specialize in penis enlargement.  While I don’t think the penis enlargement stuff is a big deal, the fact that they do plastic surgery on each other to look more like one another is a touch on the creepo side for me…

- Is the home HIV test coming soon to a pharmacy near you?

- Sex Educator and general sexy bad-ass Barbara Carrellas gives a little insight on her ability to “think-off.”

- And lastly, sometimes you just gotta keep your willy warm… and stylish!

Hope this gets you through til the weekend!

xoxo
-JD

Belladonna’s Party Of Feet 3 (Disc 1) - Belladonna (the foot fetish queen) brings us this masquerade masterpiece that features a fabulously laid table with feet as the main course.  That’s right, a specially selected group of ladies is invited to indulge in an evening of toe sucking and general foot worship.  There isn’t even any nudity or sex until the second half of the movie (about 45 mins of pure foot action).  And with Belladonna in the driver’s seat, you know this is going to be one hell of an amazing time.

Puppet Feet – A black curtain and a pair of feet/legs up to mid-calf, turned upside down so that the soles of the feet are facing the ceiling.  Alright, the stage is all set… but for what…  Well, for cheesy pick up lines, ‘yo mama’ slams and a number of not-quite-funny blond jokes – all told from one foot to the other.  While it may not come across as a foot fetish movie right off the bat, Puppet Feet is, in fact, one for the foot lovers.  I don’t totally get the concept, it’s true, but I love it none-the-less.

Controlling His Orgasm With Her Feet – We get a two-fer with this whole hour-long movie, which is an orgasm control and a foot fetish movie at the same time.  It’s literally a bunch of different scenes featuring Maitresse Madeline working at cocks with her feet. There is something so exciting about watching her have to do very little to make these guys so excited. There is even a time where she is absentmindedly rubbing a dick between her feet as she catches up on gossip with a magazine.  Amazing!

Belladonna’s Foot Soldiers 2: The Feet Market (Disc 2) – Yep, I put two Belladonna movies in this list.  Why, because she is an amazing foot fetishist who love what she does and spreads that joy to everyone else.  Any why did I choose to review the second disc, you ask? Because I get April Flores and Belladonna scenes – in a row! How awesome is that!?!? Both Bella and April are magnetic on the screen and each create completely different atmospheres of filth, glitter and magic. Plus, April gets down with candy and sprinkles… need I say more?

Randi Clay 02 – More a Wet and Messy movie than strictly foot focused, this ArchEnemys‘ flick is one heck of a dirty movie.  Well, less dirty and more clay really, as the redheaded Randi gets her piggies (and fancy shoes) caught in thick, muddy clay.  I’m not sure where they are or how staged Randi’s fear is, but something about this movie is totally attractive and fun to watch.  Whether it’s mess or feet you enjoy, this double whammy is sure to get your blood pumping!

Enjoy!

xoxo
-JD

For those of you not in the know, Erika Lust is one of the most exciting erotica directors to date.  Each movie she creates is full to the hilt with thoughtful, engaging action that is pulsating with beauty and the power of sexuality.  Seriously, this woman knows how to bring the heat!  Don’t believe me, just watch her films.  And clearly we aren’t the only ones who feel this way, because Lust has won THREE Feminist Porn Awards “Movie Of The Year” Awards, including the 2012 title for her latest film, Cabaret Desire.

Alright, take a minute to refresh yourself with Part 1 & Part 2 and then click play for more Erika Lust!

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Amazing, right?

Stay tuned for Part 4!

xoxo
-JD