The Porn Librarian wrote a bisexual Top Five Tuesday a few years ago, but I definitely think it’s worth revisiting. We don’t talk about bi movies nearly enough around here, so I’m giving you my top top picks that I think are in need of your attention. I love watching different different bodies and preferences in action and I’m pretty sure many of you do too. Enjoy!
The Female Voyeur: This movie is super sensual and totally dirty. The men perform with each other for women, but get it on with the ladies as well. Petra Joy, being the female fantasy focused director that she is, gets it done right. I recommend spending some time watching scene 3 and the beautiful pile of flesh and leather straps that goes along with it.
Fluid: Men Redefining Sexuality:I love interviews in porn! I mean, if I was at home looking for a quick scene to assist me in a self induced orgasm, I wouldn’t sit and listen. BUT, I love getting beneath the surface of an adult performer. I like hearing their thoughts and feelings on sex, identity and anything really. I’m all about fantasies, but I also like getting to know the person behind the smut. While Fluid is filled ridiculous amounts of hotness, it also does a great job of letting us in to the minds of men who are indeed fluid in their sexuality. A+
Bisexual Threesome:I chose this movie for the old school bisexual goodness, but it was far more interesting than just some grainy porno footage. The movie opens up with a squirt gun cum shot! At first I thought they were blowing their load super early, but as the shot changes, you see there is a penis sheath over the head of a plastic gun. I’m not sure what they used as the splooge, but it was definitely realistic!
Sex Experiments:I haven’t actually watched this movie yet, but from the looks of J.D.’s review i need to! There is hot bi action, but this is actually more exciting to me: “What sets these rock star interviews apart from other ones I’ve seen is that these chats end with the guys naked and jerking off while Anna Span is chatting with them about sex and random stuff. They could be out getting tea and having the exact same conversation – everything is just that natural and relaxed.”
Husbands Teaching Wives How To Suck Cock #3:At first I thought this was going to be an annoying movie with uber typical porno stuff going on. Then I realized that Danny Wylde and Wolf Hudson star in the first scene together! Yay porno dreams! These are two of my favorite performers and man do they look hot sucking each others’ cocks. They show Cece Stone how it’s done, but they also share their wangs with her. Hot! It’s all oral in this piece.
Our lives these days are busier than ever, with work, school, family and all sorts of other responsibilities looming over our heads. While sex is a great stress reliever and escape from all of these things, sometimes our bodies can unwind faster than our heads and we end up getting into sexy action, but still thinking about the electricity bill, or what’s on your to-do list for tomorrow. Staying in the moment during sex means really keeping yourself engaged in what your body is up to – which can help create stronger bonds and even sexier sex. This week we offer up 4 helpful hints to staying present and focused during sex.
Make sure you are connected to your partner before the clothes come off. Sure, it may sound hokey to some, but spending a few minutes snuggling with your partner or looking into their eyes to make sure you feel close to them can mean a world of difference when you are getting busy. Even taking a moment or two to just talk before jumping into the sex might just help reignite the passion.
Utilize your five senses. Sometime it is easy to forget that sex is a full body experience. While we usually have our genitals and mouths involved, it’s easy to overlook all of the delicious smells, tastes, sights, textures and sounds that bodies make. If you find yourself drifting away in thought or distracted by something unrelated, try focusing on one of your senses to bring your head back into the game. A great example of this would be to focus on all the sounds that are happening while you are giving your partner oral sex. Slurping, moans, the sounds of their hands on the sheets, your hands on their thighs – there is so much to hear!
Engage your brains. Sex can be so physical sometimes that we let our minds wander around a bit while our bodies are going at it. To stay present in the moment, try engaging your brain with a little dirty talk or role playing to keep you in the moment. Having you thinking on your toes will keep you grounded and present with what is going on.
Talk to your partner. Keep the lines of communication open within your relationship and let your partner know what’s going on inside your head. Yes, it may be a difficult conversation to have, but they might be able to help ground you when you feel disconnected and distracted. Maybe come up with a code word or phrase that will stop the action and allow you to get re-centered. Interrupting the act may feel awkward, but in the long run, it can help you feel less flighty when you are getting busy later on down the line.
I never expect much from any toy with the words “my first” in the name. I usually judge the crap out of it – expecting seam-laden plastic pieces just waiting crack or a blob of jelly with that new car sent. What else? Either a pathetically week motor or one that is so buzzily strong it makes my clit want to detach itself and hide in the other room. California Exotic’s My First Rabbit didn’t necessarily turn me into a believer, but it definitely represented for the “my first” toys. I could go on a rant about who gets to decide that shitty toys are for beginners, but I’m not really up for that today.
Pulling it out of the box, I didn’t notice a smell. It is made from TPR so when you put your nose right up against it, you do get a whiff of chemical (not) goodness. It didn’t knock me out, but you better believe I put a non-latex condom over the shaft before using. It rocks 5 1/2 inches in insertable length and 1 1/4 inch in width. It’s not uber filling, but not a pencil thin “beginner” toy. It has a fat rabbit clit stimulator with 2 mighty little ears and 4 rows of rotating metal beads in the shaft. Oh and it’s powered by 4 AAA batteries that are not included.
My First Rabbit boasts medium power. While you can adjust the bead rotation direction, you only get one speed to choose from. The external stimulator has hi and low settings to choose from. I could definitely feel the rotating beads and swirling head, but there could have been a little more mmph. I was surprised that the rabbit shaped stimulator actually reached my clit. The ears did a nice job of tickling each side of the little man ion the boat, which was pretty awesome. Even on high it wasn’t super stong, but I don’t like tons of power so it was fine with me. It definitely made some noise, which was the most annoying part of it all. Although, I’m not sure I’ve ever experienced a quiet rabbit style vibrator.
It was nice get a pleasant surprise from a toy that I totally underestimated. Did it revolutionize vibrators as I know them? No, it just came with a little more swag than I expected. It actually didn’t stop working after the first try, nor did it crack with a few pressings of the buttons. I’m not sure i will pull this out of the box too often, but once in a while it will satisfy my hankering for dual stimulation. It is affordable as rabbit vibes go, so I definitely think you get a good value for money spent. If you’re a rabbit vibe connoisseur, you’ll likely not be impressed by this thing. If you’re looking to test the waters with such a toy, if gives a good taste of what you can get if you’re will to spend more money. In this case, the My First Rabbit would make for a decent beginner toy. There. I said it.
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Happy Humpday! Welcome back to the midweek stretch. While some of you had a nice ease into the week with Monday off for Presidents’ Day, we porn peddlers spent the day continuing to bring you all the best in dirty content. The porno rests for no one! That said, we are humping over the workweek now and ready to celebrate like woah. And in celebration of the midweek, have we got a haul of links for you! Let’s get to it!
- Sometimes you just need a wiener dog to get you through the week.
And now for a hilarious cartoon break… found on the facebook
- While we try not to get too political on the blog, sometimes we need to bring attention to things that are amazing… especially when they are Rick Santorum’s face made out of gay porn.
That they love Bawdy Talk! First, they were awesome enough to mention HotMoviesForHer in their vlog about sex positive pornography, but what they do in general is pretty awesome. These folks are from the Center For Sexual Pleasure and Health and commit their lives to providing sex education in fun and non-intimidating ways. We support what they do all the way!
Check out their video below and listen up for great information as well as the HM4Her mention. We’d like to point out that we totally appreciate that Megan addresses the fact that part of supporting sex positive porn is paying for it. We are indeed in rough economic times, but making sure that performers, creators and everyone involved are fairly compensated is essential! I’ll get off my soapbox and let you watch the video. Enjoy!
We were standing under the carport after me just having finished giving Tim a blowjob like my husband requested. Travis motioned for me to come over to where he was sitting. He started kissing me and told me it made him very turned on watching me swallow Tim’s cock. I had enough vodka to drink that I was feeling very laid back and told him he needed to do something for me since I had done something for him.
Travis asked what it was that I wanted and I told him I wanted some cock in me. Travis stood up, pulled my jeans down, leaned me over the hood of my truck and started pounding me from behind. He was really getting into it, asking me, “Is this what you want?”
I could barely do more than moan, it was feeling so good to me. I had my arms stretched out across the hood of my truck, leaning over the truck. My tits were rubbing up and down as he pounded me from behind. I was really starting to get into it when he turned me around and told me to lay down on the porch and put my feet up on the side of the carport which hung really low next to our porch. I was laying on my back with my feet propped up on the carport and the next thing I know, Travis had motioned for Tim to come over to me, and he slowly put his cock inside of me, moaning as he entered me, telling me how my pussy was the tightest pussy he had ever been inside before.
He kept moving at the slow pace until he had put the entire 8 inches inside of me. He started getting into a good rhythm, pounding my pussy good. When he started to get ready to cum, Travis pushed him to the side and then he slid his throbbing cock into me. He started pounding his cock into me just as hard and fast as Tim had been. I was on cloud nine by then, having two hard throbbing cocks taking turns pounding my pussy hard. It was more than I could take and I exclaimed,” Oh my God! I am cumming!!”
As I started to convulse with the contractions of my body, I felt Travis empty his load into me. Tim, not one to be left out, took Travis’ place and finished what he had started earlier. He only had to pound on it for just a minute until he was cumming as well. When he withdrew his cock, we all three were just sitting there on the porch, realizing that traffic had been coming by and Tim’s girfriend was inside passed out on our couch.We all three sobered up pretty quickly then.
We pulled up our pants and decided to sit down under the carport like we were and went back to drinking. Tim was the first to break the silence, saying that he had never been part of a threesome before. Travis told him that was nothing. Maybe we should take it inside and really show each other what a threesome should be like. Meanwhile, I had sobered up enough to stammer out, “Am I the only one that realizes that Lea is passed out on the couch and that this is really wrong?”
Travis and Tim looked at me and started laughing, and Travis said, “Well, if we are gonna get in trouble, we might as well make it good! Have another shot of vodka and come in the bedroom.” I did as I was told and couldn’t help but smile as I followed Travis and Tim inside and walked to the bedroom.
I went ahead and started stripping and it didn’t take them long to follow my lead. Next thing I know, I am on the bed on all fours and Travis started easing his cock into my already wet pussy. He started really getting into it, and told me he wanted to fuck me in the ass. Me always being up for that, told him to go right ahead. Travis eased his hard cock into my tight ass and started stroking it slowly. Once he had a good rhythm going, he leaned me back so that I was sitting on top of him backwards. He told Tim to come put his dick in my pussy which was up in the air the way Travis had me leaned back. I told Travis I thought there was a difference between us doing DP with a toy and with another man. He whispered in my ear to just relax, so I did, and Tim came and slid his cock into my pussy.
I had never had such a full feeling in my life! They took turns, alternating sliding their cocks into my pussy and ass, and got it going really good. Before I could even think about what was going on, that I was having my first DP, I was cumming to the strongest orgasm I have ever had! Travis and Tim slowed their pumping when they felt and heard me orgasming.
Once I had regained my composure, they attacked me again, neither one having took their cocks out of me as I came. I was squeezing my ass and pussy so hard with the pumping they were doing, the next thing I know Travis is filling my ass with his cum and Tim was saying, “Damn! I can feel you nutting! I guess that was enough for him because he shot his load of cum for the second time that night, this time in my pussy. He and Travis slowly pulled their quickly shrinking cocks out of my body.
I laid down on the bed and stretched out, realizing I had just had my first DP! I lay back smiling like an idiot, hoping that this first time for me and Travis sharing wouldn’t be our last.
Every so often, we HM4Her ladies do a deep dive into our analytics and really get into the nitty gritty of what our viewers are interested in watching. This time around I checked into what you guys are searching for – and it looks like Deauxma is the winner! You guys love you some of this mature sexy star! To let you know that we are listening to what you want, here is a Top Five Tuesday dedicated to everything Deauxma!
Legends & Starlets 3: This awesome series from Sweetheart Video sounds just like what it is – a collection of scenes pairing older porno lady legends with brand spanking new starlets. Yum, right? There is definitely something super hot about a whole ‘showing her the ropes’ scenario. This third installment of the series features Deauxma, along with HM4Her favorites Nina Hartley and Melissa Monet. If this is sex education, where do I sign up?
A Woman’s Desire: There is definitely a trend when it comes to most Deauxma movies. Her lesbian videos are all about teaching younger ladies how to get busy with an experienced woman. While it does get a little old at times, this time is not one of them. Deauxma hooks up with Samantha Ryan, giving her the sexy workout of her life. This is one instance when we so very much love a lesson.
How To Tame Your Dragon: I’m not sure if this is named after that Dreamworks’ movie about training your dragon, but either way, the subtitle lets you know that is flick is all about the cock. Scene four brings us Deauxma, along with Mellanie Monroe and Sara Jay, all on top of the nameless nerd they are cock taming. Looks like we have another educational experience in front of us – and we are ready to learn!
Road Queen Part 1: While Hm4Her has this series up to Part 19, I wanted to start at the very beginning, as Deauxma was there from the inception of this hot hitchhiking collection. I don’t know about you, but if this smokin’ mama was driving by my outstretched thumb, you better believe I’d be hoping into her ride any day!
The Cougar Club 3 – The Sex Pact: Deauxma goes extra young in this Sweet Sinner flick as she takes to bed with her super sexy 18-year-old college advisee. The boy in question, Frederick Way, really is totally foxy and the pair are amazingly hot as the action heats up. I don’t know about the rest of the movie, but scene one is terrific!
So impressed with Deauxma! Thanks for searching this awesome star out!
HotMoviesForHer.com welcomes guest blogger Maxxters to the fray, bringing y’all a look at how porn differs from reality.
Porn is great. I fucking LOVE porn. It helps me orgasm easily when I’m on my own, it’s a fun thing to add in when being sexual with other people, and it gives me new ideas for positions or activities to try. But there’s no doubt that porn has its downside. Yes, some people can get addicted to it, but I’m not going to cover that aspect of it. However, if you’re finding that your porn viewing is negatively affecting your life, then it’s time to get help. What I’m focusing on here is how porn often differs from reality. This isn’t all that big an issue for those of us who are sexually experienced and educated. But for the teens that grow up watching this stuff and never actually learning that this isn’t the way that sex usually is in real life, it can be a pretty huge issue. It can lead to them feeling dysfunctional, not being a good sexual partner, that there are things wrong with their body, that their partner isn’t any good at sex or will have way too high expectations overall. So here are my thoughts on the differences between porn and reality.
The most obvious observation is that women in porn are incredibly sensitive to sexual stimulation. Just one touch sends them into moans, screams, body spasms or orgasm. Unfortunately, this isn’t how most women respond in real life. The average time it takes for a woman to reach orgasm is 30 minutes. This usually requires a variety of different fingering, oral and/or penetrative techniques. Only around 25% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. The vast majority need clitoral stimulation in order to climax. Then there are the women who are actually never able to reach orgasm. Try not to make orgasm the goal of sex. Instead, make it your mission to figure out all the spots on each other’s bodies that can make you go wild. There’s also the issue that many women aren’t that vocal or active in bed as most porn stars. If you want your partner to be more vocal and take a more active role, then talk to them about it!
Another obvious feature is the way that porn stars look. Men are usually big and muscular with very large penises. The average penis size is about 5-5.5 inches long. Men comparing their penis size to the ones they see in porn only increases their chances of feeling insecure and self conscious about their size. This can actually lead to sexual dysfunction and a dissatisfied sex life. Most women in porn are very thin, with big boobs and small inner labias. This not only creates a huge amount of insecurity and body confidence issues in women, but it also gives men unrealistic expectations. Humans come in a variety of shapes and sizes and all have their own unique beauty. So yes, you do need to be attracted to the person you’re being sexual with, but make sure you have realistic expectations and never ever make anyone feel insecure about the way they look.
Porn stars engage in a huge variety of sexual acts. Many people in real life aren’t quite as sexually adventurous and aren’t okay with trying certain things. The pressure on women to have anal sex is steadily increasing. While it can be incredibly enjoyable, some women simply do not want to try it, have had bad experiences with it in the past or just don’t enjoy it at all. No one should ever be pressured into doing something they don’t want to do. So respect your partner’s boundaries and try to find compromises or other acts that you’re both happy to engage in.
Condoms are rarely used in porn. In real life, you need to glove up unless you’ve both been recently tested (and have clean bills of health), are monogamous and are on another form of birth control (unless you’re looking to have kids). If not, you’re putting you and your partner at risk.
Porn doesn’t show the “behind the scenes” stuff, or the awkwardness/silliness that can happen during sex. Rarely do you see them grab some lube for when the girl isn’t getting wet enough on her own. You also don’t see just how much lube is needed to have enjoyable anal sex. It’s unbelievably common for men to have issues with getting hard, but rarely, if ever, will you see that in porn. Same with premature ejaculation or even not being able to reach orgasm. You never see them having to deal with what happens to the semen after the guy has cum. Whether he does it onto her body or inside her, it needs to be cleaned up somehow! You’ll never see them grabbing the baby wipes or running to the bathroom to avoid making a mess. Embarrassing noises and movements happen, the penis slips out of the vagina, and other unintentional things will happen. It’s all just a part of sex.
Sex is all about having fun, feeling great, and not taking things too seriously. Communicate with your partner about your expectations and help each other out so that you can make sex as fantastic as possible. You just need to keep everything in perspective and have a good idea of the differences between porn and reality.
Maxxters is a female in her late 20s and a former high school teacher. She taught Science and Sex Ed to 12-18 year olds. She’s currently working on her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality. She is also an aerobics instructor and personal trainer, working with those who suffer from eating disorders and body image issues.
Oh nipples, how I love thee. You adorn chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. No matter who you belong to, I’m always attracted to you. My fingers, lips, tongue and teeth want to be near you always. While reducing one to the little pink, brown, beige, etc buttons isn’t kosher with some, I can’t help but hold a special place in my heart for you.
To love or not to love? Some people love having their nipples played with, some even to the point of orgasm. Others – not so much. They might even find irritating. So, first things first: find out if they enjoy having their nipples loved on or if there are simply some things that are out of the question. What fun would it be if it makes the other person cringe?
Start Slow: As with many things, it is best to start slow. Don’t jump in head first with your tongue flopping out of your mouth like a cartoon character. Take it easy, give a few kisses and gauge the reaction. You’ll be able to tell if it is a bit much or if they want more intense nip action.
Teeth? Well, you definitely don’t want to start with your fangs out. You can never go wrong with asking if teeth are acceptable. If you feel a bit more comfortable a gentle nibble should suffice. Nipples are incredibly sensitive to both pleasure and pain so you want to want err on the side of caution. Let them tell you to bite a little harder. Never assume!
Temperature: It isn’t such a bad idea to make sure your hands are warm before you get all gropey. Cold fingers can be an unpleasant surprise that might make things awkward. But even if it does, just warm up and get back on track. One the other hand, some folks prefer to involve their nips in temperature play. An ice cube, cooled sex toy or hot wax can drive them crazy. Per usual, just ask!
Toppings: This is the one area that I don’t shy away from recommending flavored lube! Sugar and other substances can irritate the nether regions, but tend to fare better when it comes to the upper regions. Nipple skin is sensitive so you might want to test out the waters before dousing them with chocolate cherry lube, but there’s a good chance you’ll be good to go with areola a la mode.
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