Porn Gave Me Butt Pride

I am not a size 2 or 4. Hell, I don’t even think all the Crisco in the world could slide my right ankle into either size. I’m of an average size on top but situated below my waist and at the top of my thighs sits my big, fat, gloriously impressive ASS.… More

20 Questions With Marci Hirsch – Fifty Writers on Fifty Shades

Last week we posted our review of Fifty Writers on Fifty Shades, a collection offering up fifty different perspectives on the 50 Shades phenomenon.  One of the writers is Marci Hirsch, the VP of Production over at porno company Vivid Entertainment.  Her piece “It’s All in the Eyes” swirls parts of her own experiences as both a sexual person and a woman within the industry with interactions that occur in 50 Shades, and allows us to view women in erotica a little bit differently.… More

Introducing Gina Liquor you’re new up and cuming sexcoach.

Hi everyone Gina Liquor here, you’re newest columnist. Let’s start this off on a safe note! Spicing it up keeping it Safe.

Been in a relationship for a while? Trust your partner but want to try something a little more exciting than your usual routine? Everyone likes to spice things up once in a while, a key factor to exploring new boundaries while staying comfortable is communicating a safe word!… More

Non-Sexual uses for a Vibrator

I recently found this article about a vocal teacher at a college who uses vibrators on his student’s necks to massage their vocal cords (sounds way dirtier then I imagine it is). This article piqued my interest in what other uses there could be for our favorite toys.

I searched and searched and only found one other non-sexual use for a vibrator – Breastfeeding mothers can use a vibrator to break up clogged milk ducts (wish I knew this 2 years ago!).… More

Riding Into the Sunset – J.D. Bauchery Says Goodbye!

Well, my friends, the time has come.  After 5 and a half years, today is my last day at HotMoviesForHer.com.  While I inherited the site from a bunch of amazing women (Venus, Essin’ Em and The Porn Librarian, to name a few), over the years I’ve come to consider HM4Her my baby.  It has been a great honor to help create a space to talk about women’s sexuality and offer up hot movies for all to watch and enjoy.  I am lucky to have had the opportunity to help folks get off for such a long time!… More

Book Review: Fifty Writers On Fifty Shades of Grey

The first thing I think you need to know in all of this is that I borrowed a copy of Fifty Shades Of Grey from my mother.  That’s right, to get this review under way, I wanted to first read the actual book before reading essays on the book, so I asked my mother if I could borrow her precious copy.  Yes, my mother is a diehard fan of 50 Shades, and while she raised a super sex-positive, academic pervert, I would not classify my mother as especially open about these things.  In fact, she as a motherly and suburban as they get, which is totally fine, and also the demographic that gone completely wild for these books.  And she is no exception.… More

3 Out Of 3 Porn Bloggers Agree

That’s right, you read 3 out of 3 porn bloggers!  The Porn Librarian facebook messaged me a few minutes ago to bring this ad to my attention.

Seriously, we can’t believe that this got through focus group testing and all that without a single person noticing that they say “bareback” a million times.… More

I Want To Sleep With Nina Hartley

This morning I woke up vaguely remembering that April Flores showed up in my dream last night.  I honestly can’t recall exactly what I was dreaming about, but I do know that it didn’t involve anything sexual… at least I’m pretty sure about that.  Bummer, right?

Anyway, over breakfast I was telling my fiance about April appearing in my dream, which led to a conversation about which porn performers we would most want to hump.  His pick was Wolf Hudson, which is no shocker there (yum!), but I was actually kind of surprised who came out of my mouth.… More