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Venus Vegas
Please don't judge me by my name - story HERE. I am 20/30 something... I love the cock but am totally down with girl on girl porn (but after an odd night at a strip club I know that I am not so into real-life pussy in my face). I started this site in 2006 and have since fell into an interesting world of porn. Oddly enough, I travel a lot to "mainstream" porn/adult webmaster conventions, so beware: sometimes my "pc factor" is out the window. On that note, I travel a lot, so I'm not the most frequent writer...

Porn I like: Porn with passionate sex. I don't care who's doing it - if there's passion in the scene, I feel the heat. Um, and hot guys. Hot dirty guys....

Guilty Pleasures:
America's Next Top Model
The Flavor of Love
Beauty and the Geek (I am secretly in love with all of the geeks)
Back to the Beach
Nightmare on Elm St (ALL of them)
Perez Hilton

Busier Than A Bee!

My super apologies for the lack of speedy updates here! I’ve been traveling like a madwoman this summer… porn conventions a plenty! Here’s a quick pornified pictorial of places I’ve been and people I’ve seen…. feel free to use your imagination!

 
Sexy beach time!

 I don’t really know
what they’re saying,
but does it
even matter?

 Need I say more?

 Everything about this is a yes.

 Candy, candy, candy.

 It’s porny time.

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New Column Added!!

She’s done movie reviews for us, now she’s writing a whole column! Our very own Porn Librarian will be gracing our site with her thoughts, research, and views on everything porn. Check out her new column “From The Desk Of The Porn Librarian” in your menu options to the left, or click right here.

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2007 Feminist Porn Awards

This past weekend revealed GoodForHer.com’s second annual 2007 Feminist Porn Awards winners! Scroll down this page to the Editor’s Spotlight for more, or click here for the goods!

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2007 Feminist Porn Awards

Last year marked the first year of the Feminist Porn Awards, sponsored by GoodForHer.com. Chanelle Gallant, manager of Good for Her and the event’s organizer explains: “Good For Her came up with the idea for the Feminist Porn Awards because people don’t know they have a choice when it comes to porn. Yes, there’s a lot of bad porn out there. But there is also some great porn being made by and for women. We wanted to recognize and celebrate the good porn makers as well as direct people to their work.”

So without further ado, here are the winners of the 2007 Feminist Porn Awards, and a big congratulations to all of them - watch and ENJOY!

And for those who missed last year, here are the 2006 winners!

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Calling All Masturbation Ladies (and Gentlemen)

To close out the month of May, the official month of masturbation, we present you a special guest column from a very special lady!

Written By Darklady

They call me The Masturbation Lady.

Who “they” are varies but, by-and-large, “they” are people who’ve heard that I host Portland’s annual Masturbate-a-thon fundraiser. By that definition, I am most certainly The Masturbation Lady.

There are others, not the least of whom is Betty Dodson, who are more worthy of being called “The” Masturbation Lady. By comparison, I am merely A Masturbation Lady.

But every Masturbation Lady matters, lemme tell you. Likewise, every Masturbation Gentleman.

Masturbation is everyone’s birthright. Indeed, self stimulation is one of the most natural and yet strangely taboo things that a person can do. As children, we began to explore our surroundings in an ongoing attempt to make sense of them and figure out where we fit into the grand scheme of things. Along the way, we discovered that some of our surroundings fit nicely into and up against various parts of our body. Sometimes – like when we try to lick an icy flagpole or jam our fingers into a light socket – we discover that this intersection of our body and the world around it isn’t necessarily comfortable. Other times – like when we rub against some of our more tender and meaty bits or put a finger into nearly any orifice other than the eye – we discover that it feels very, very good.

Masturbation, whether part of the innocent discovery of how our bodies work or an experienced part of shared or solo intimacy and/or relaxation, is one of the consequence free activities that we should be able to enjoy without guilt or shame. No matter what our age, sex, height, weight, health, income level, partnership status, heritage, gender identity, or religion, enjoying the simple pleasures to be found in one’s own touch seems an obvious basic human right. Alas, that’s not necessarily how the so-called dominant culture has seen it — as Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders learned while serving the supposedly liberal Democratic President Bill Clinton after she had the audacity to propose that adolescents and teens might be less likely to fall into bed with one another if they knew how to get themselves off.

In honor of Ms. Elders’ largely unappreciated courage and good sense (and cuz it helps sell sex toys) Good Vibrations and Toys in Babeland proclaimed May to be National Masturbation Month in 1995. Originally focused on quiet educational activism and per-minute fundraising conducted in the privacy of one’s own home, the profile of National Masturbation Month changed six years ago, when San Francisco’s sexologist Carol Queen hosted the first Masturbate-a-thon party – and I, Portland’s infamous sex writer, returned home to host my own Masturbate-a-thon mere weeks later. Last year, with the generous help of The Crucible and HotMovies.com, Queen and I traveled to the national’s capitol to introduce the locals to the Masturbate-a-thon legacy. The world has not been the same since.

It’s amazing how three cities can respond so differently to such a universal practice. But then again, just as the visions and methodologies of the various event organizers are not identical, neither are the cultural norms of the locals or the ways in which they prefer to express, celebrate, or explore their sexuality. For instance, while San Francisco’s annual event embraces and celebrates a sense of competitive fun while promoting a more purist definition of masturbation, Portland’s focuses more on collaboration, cooperation, and an expanded view of what activities qualify.

Portland’s 2006 Masturbate-a-thon employed a “Pajama Party of Pleasure” theme complete with sexy games of Spin the Bottle and Truth or Dare, as well as the more serious business of kinky dungeon play, a sex positive silent auction, noshing over a potluck buffet, grooving to masturbation themed tunes, watching a transvestite fuck a ring of balloons, pondering solo sex videos projected onto the buffet room walls by HotMovies, and auditioning a wide array of powerful sex machines including the Sybian, Thrillhammer, Monkey Rocker, Dorky Donkey, and locally created and forearm mounted Sex Kitten.

In spite of being called The Masturbation Lady, I’m still a mortal female with the usual socially and parentally installed and reinforced “issues” surrounding my body. Richard Bach once wrote that “We teach best what we most need to learn” and that’s certainly been true during my life and career path have merged. Although game to try nearly anything on the theoretical level, there’s always a certain amount of trepidation when I actually give “it” – whatever “it” is at the moment – a try.

During the “Pajama Party of Pleasure,” my “it” was riding both the wild Thrillhammer and the super charged Sybian for the first time – and doing so in front of an audience. During the physically and emotionally intense experience, I learned an important lesson: like anal sex, when riding a Sybian it’s true that you really can’t go wrong adding a little bit more lube – especially when a beautiful sadist is in charge of the remote control.

This year “it” will likely be testing the Monkey Rocker for comfort and effectiveness. Since it’s self-powered, any friction burns I sustain this time around will be my own damn fault.

I once had someone sneer at the ‘thon and attempt to demean it by insisting that an orgasm had never saved anybody’s life. While it’s true that neither a male nor female ejaculation will ever perform brain surgery, nor will a strong set of puboccygeus muscles ever divert a train away from a cowering giggle of schoolgirls, denying the healing power of the orgasm, especially when achieved by one’s own efforts, not only sells sex down the river, (including, but not limited to solo sex), but also buys into lies about personal autonomy that have too long kept us in social roles that don’t serve us well.

In a culture where we’ll treat ourselves to a latte, a cigarette, a drive-thru burger or burrito – why is it seen as an act of desperation to enjoy the healthy sensation of one’s own body experiencing delight? How better to get to know the contours of our more hidden anatomy, to make sure that everything is in working order, to learn how our bodies responds to various kinds of stimulation, and to take responsibility for our own pleasure.

What better way is there to find out what to ask for when we are with a partner and what better way to find out what to do when enjoying our own company, whether from choice or necessity? What better, safer, more personal form of loving can there be than self-loving? It seems to me that if we remove the shame and guilt associated with finding pleasure in our own bodies and our ability to bring about that pleasure, we remove a number of obstacles to communication and intimacy that shame and guilt keep in place. When sex with ourselves becomes a perfectly fine way to have sex, sex with others can have more to do with genuine desire, pleasure, and love and less to do with obligation and expectation. Plus, it’s fun and just plain good for you — so why not dedicate an entire month to it?

With opinions like these, it’s no wonder they call me The Masturbation Lady. Wouldn’t you like to be a Masturbation Lady (or Gentleman), too?

Cum one, cum all! And during Masturbate-a-thon time, cum for a cause!

For more info, visit Darklady.com and Masturbate-a-thon.org, enjoy!

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HotmoviesForHer.com in the Press!

Marie Claire June 2007
Sign On, Turn On: Your hottest new sex toy? The internet.
http://www.marieclaire.com/life/sex/advice/Web-Sex

Velvet Park Media May 2008
In Bed With J.D. Bauchery
http://www.velvetparkmedia.com/?p=633

Interested in featuring us? Contact venus@hotmoviesforher.com for more info.

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It’s FreedomStreams ‘07 - The 2nd Annual Free Speech Coalition Fundraiser!

Thanks for everyone’s support on our fundraiser April 15th! Read the rest of this entry »

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Dinah Shore Weekend Rocked!

The Porn Librarian with Dana Dane and Niki Clover
Our Porn Librarian with
Erocktavisions’
Dana Dane and Niki Clover
Suzanne Westenhoefer sporting our shirt with Dutchie VanDyke
Suzanne Westenhoefer sporting
our shirt with
Dutchie VanDyke

We’re all back and recovered from a wonderful time at the Dinah Shore Weekend in Palm Springs, CA. Such an amazing time! I went with I.M. Butch, Dutchie Van Dyke and the Porn Librarian. Between the fabulous pool parties and the exciting evenings, and all the amazing people we got to meet, it was a great trip. We spent some time during the day by the pools, giving away tank tops, free porn, temporary tattoos and more, and I got to wet down the ladies (to help them put on their tattoos of course!). In the evenings, we enjoyed ourselves at all of the parties, especially the White Party and Milan! We met Renee O’Connor (Gabrielle from Xena), Suzanne Westenhoefer, Bitch (now known at Capital b), and more. What a great time.

All of the women at this event were fabulous and fun to meet, and I’m so glad we got to talk to so many of them… and I wasn’t disappointed with the eye candy either! These few days were like time in paradise; amazing women, hot stars, free porn and lots of sun; what more could a girl want?

To all of you whom we met; thanks for coming out and being so much fun, and for the rest of you, where were you? You missed a wild and wonderful time, hot women, and much more. We’d better see you next time!

If you haven’t yet, check out the rest of our pics on MySpace.com/HotmoviesForHer!

-Essin’ Em

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HotMoviesForHer.com Sponsors The Dinah!

Between March 28 and April 1, thousands of lesbians descend on Palm Springs, CA for 5 days of wild, celebrity-filled, action-packed party fun. It’s spring break for the girls and we will be there! Come visit the HotMoviesForHer.com team! We will have booths at the Logo Pool Party at the Doral and at Splash! at the Wyndham. We hope you stop by! (And by “we hope” we mean “you better!” - we have some freebies for you!)

In other news in the homeland, we’ve been working on some little changes to the site, but we want to know what you think! Thoughts, suggestions, what you like, what you may not like, let us know! Email me at venus@hotmoviesforher.com

Sadly, I won’t be at the Dinah, I’ll be going away again into webmaster world to the Phoenix Forum (not complaining though, I get to see boys!)!

Until next time my loves…
XOXOXO
-Venus Vegas

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Our Fave Links….

Here are some sites that we think you may enjoy - because we certainly do!

Sexy Shopping:



VibeReview.com: Started by a female RN, VibeReview believes in sexual empowerment - sextoy shopping without being bombarded with sleaze!


Babeland.com: All of the toys you could want, and all of the sex info you could need - and it’s all by women.


EdenFantasies.com: Toys, toys, toys! And so much more… friendly shopping :)

Sites We love (and are friends too!):


SeskaForLovers.com: Because she’s awesome. Seska runs her own very erotic site - she’s smart, vegan, sexy, and cute as a button!


PlayGirl.com: Lately I just want to see guys. Hot guys. I am a Playgirl fan. :) (Plus they have tons of fun articles and erotica!)


PuckerUp.com: Because she’s awesome too. Tristan Taormino’s pleasure-positive, all gender-friendly, empowering sex education.


BurningAngel.com: Joanna Angel is one of the coolest, hottest chicks out there, and this site is proof. See the tattooed street sexy you rarely get in mainstream porn, plus interviews with rock bands. For even more fun, check her out in all her daily glory at JoannaAngel.com.


ForTheGirls.com: I think this site speaks for itself - “Gorgeous men with huge cocks await your pleasure. Hunky male strippers, sexy centerfolds, cheeky amateurs. Enjoy decadent orgies, lusty encounters, romantic liaisons, hardcore fucking….. Give yourself over to the wonderland of your sensual imagination…” Aaah, yes…


$pread Magazine: A magazine by and for sex workers. Great writing and inside views of sex workers, sex worker rights, and great feminist writing. Check out their blog too.


MySpace.com/hotmoviesforher: Keep up to date on our goings on! Myspace deleted us before, but we’re back!! Please excuse our appearance while we are still re-dressing :) (And yes, we’re dorks!)

Online Dating & Hook Ups

Fling.com: If you’re looking for a quick sex fling, this is your bingo! Free full memberships for HotMoviesForHer lady users! (Sorry, guys… here’s your hunk-free tour.)

Passion.com: Not nearly as risque, but a bit more exciting than a plain average dating site! Free to join and search :)

Review Sites Who Have Reviewed Us:


JanesGuide.com: They gave us an Original Quality and Koi’s Pick! :) Thanks, JanesGuide!


Monica’s Porn Reviews: The pretty porn hunter! Monica’s Porn Reviews gave us a 10 out of 10! Thanks, Monica!


BitchReviews.com: They say that they’re “the bitchiest, and therefore the most truthful, porn reviews site in the universe!”, and they gave us a great review!

Porn Inspector Reviews

PornInspector.com

Want your site listed here?Contact venus@hotmoviesforher.com with your url, a little bit about your site, and when and where you’d like to treat me to lunch, and I’ll be happy to consider it (as well as have you sign up to our affiliate program at MovieDollars.com to link back to us!).

(Ok, just kidding about the lunch, but I am always open to treats! And yes, MovieDollars.com can make you money.)

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