In West Philadelphia, born and raised… ok, not really, but I am from Philly and I'm pretty fresh, but more in a frisky fresh way and less in a hip early '90s Will Smith way. Along with being a total pervert dirty birdy lezzie queer, I am a hardcore pop culture junkie that stumbled into the world of sex and porn and debauchery as first a Women's Studies major and later a Human Sexuality grad student, which is what I do now. I am also a writer. I like words. I like sex. It was just a natural progression to becoming a sex writer. Of course working in porn and studying sex means that I basically eat, breathe and sleep sex. But really, I'm ok with that. It also means I've lost all social graces regarding what's ok to talk about in public and what should probably be left in bed. I guess it just comes with the territory. Other than that, I am blunt. I like to fuck and am not afraid to say it. Strap-on sex is my weakness. The phrase "making love" makes me nauseous. I am unapologetic about my body, my personality and my choices.
Happy July 4th! Well, July 3rd really, but does it seem crazy to anyone else that July is here already at all? Anyway, it’s Independence Day tomorrow, so let’s kick back and start the celebrations today.
I’ve been waiting for July 4th to land on a Saturday so I could use this song for something and I am suuuper excited to finally get the chance! Plus is video really encompasses the spirit of the holiday… or at least all the eating and chillin’ out we should be doing.
My Fourth of July gift to you: Chicago - Saturday In The Park
I never thought I’d hear myself saying this, but I wonder how much money it would cost for a plane ticket to Lansing, Michigan? Who knew there was such a dearth of sexy butches, drag kings and FTM fellows out in The Great Lakes State? Not I. But alas, this city seems to be brimming with fine queers. And lucky for us, Butch Boi has harnessed (total pun intended) the hotness of the state capital into thirty-three minutes of fabulous queer XXX action.
From fucking atop a washing machine in the opening moments, to about twenty minutes of additional still photos after the movie, this flick pretty much tops the list of amateur queer/trans porn I’ve ever seen. In fact, it’s the D.I.Y. feel makes it so good for me. Whether or not this is really the case, the movie looks like a bunch of friends got together and decided to make a porn of how they fuck, complete with all the giggling, passion and excitement that comes along with screwing your buddies. The whole thing has a sort of 8mm film feel and even though there is music, you can still hear dialogue and laughing in the background, which I love. All in all, it looks like everyone was having a really good time.
While I really liked all the scenes and think they each had something special to offer, my favorite of the bunch was definitely scene 4. A quick note before I talk about the scene: I don’t know how these performers identify, so I’m gonna stick with vague, male-ish descriptors and gender neutral pronouns and go from there. Ok, back to the sex! The scene starts with two folks standing up and fucking. The dude getting it is up in the air, with legs up and wrapped around the dick wielding stud, with an additional guy helping hold up our fucked buddy. Pretty awesome so far, right? There was just something about the freedom of motion and swinging thrusts that really made the scene that much hotter. The loud grunting, moaning and thumping base just added to that ultra steamy sex appeal. I just love the fact that it was a threesome with only one naked person. Plus, the action goes right into an amazing shower scene, which was definitely my second favorite of the six.
All in all, this movie is a fun and sexy reminder that you don’t need big budgets, professional lighting or fancy cameras to bring super hot action to the screen. If you’ve got the passion and the performers, you’ve got an awesome porno right there. Oh, and it reminds me to book my flight…
Last week I posted about how excited we are to sponsor the NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar again this year and how I can’t wait to see the 2010 edition. Someone much have been listening because the folks over at Fleshbot posted a sneak peek!
Introducing Lucy Vonne of Sexy Blogtime and her friend (name unknown)
I’m not sure what month Miss Vonne will be representing, but I’m crossing my fingers for September, so I can two reasons to look forward to the month (also my birthday).
I love Etsy. Where else in the world would you be able to buy a giant hand silkscreened condom pillow? Especially one that not only has a pocket to store condoms but also comes with a giant fabric condom! I am smitten and I want one!
It would go perfect with the giant fabric butt I made for my workshop! I think I need this as a “sex education tool.” I mean really, how can I teach about safe sex without it?!?
Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #34? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #36? Submit it here before Sunday July 5th at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.
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Insertion with this toy is wonderful. Thrusting is amazing. It’s girthy yet not huge, filling but not uncomfortable and the bumps and bulges really stimulate the inner labia and vaginal entrance.
There are a number of porn movies that fall into the grey area between art and sex. Some even merge the two to the point that you can’t even really tell what you are watching. Sure people are fucking, but what’s with Santa Claus carrying the inflatable donkey? This movie is not one of them. This is the Art of Sex, an actual examination of the artistry behind passionate sex. This movie looks into the sensuality that sex can create and takes the phrase “making love” literally.
But don’t think this is some boring, soft focus flick. Nope. There is hot triple X action, with plenty of naked bodies, moaning and fast paced fucking. As well as kissing, passion and real orgasms. Whether the performers are real couples or not, there is definitely real chemistry between each pair.
While I really like what this movie has to offer and the attention it pays to making sure each person is enjoying themselves, I didn’t see any one scene that really stood out to me as a favorite. All five were equally pretty good, but none were amazing. For me, I need to really be in the right mood when I watch a sensual video, and right now I wasn’t feelin’ it – though at another time I might have felt differently. I will say that one big turn off for me was that there was no music. While I love actually hearing the sounds of sex while I watch porn, I really prefer a little something in the background to keep it interesting.
If you are looking for a sensual adventure and a porn to perk your passion, this is the one to watch!
Happy Humpday! Welcome back to the mid-week stretch. This week is a short one for most of us, with July 4th coming up on Saturday. I love me a holiday that only requires eating BBQ and laying on the grass to watch pretty light bursts in the sky. Oh, and Sheryl Crow, if you’re in Philly. Having Friday off just sweetens the deal. Sadly though, not everyone has a three day weekend. For all you unfortunate folks, this link love is dedicated to you. I hope it gets you through til the fireworks!
Let’s get to it!
- Vice Mag’s Conor Creighton takes us along on his tour of sex toy maker Fun Factory’s, well, fun factory in North Germany. Check out the super neat picture (including the one above, the cool quotes and a insider look at the birthplace of some of the best toys out there! (via LizLangely, via WorldSexNews)
For the last few years, I’ve been seeing these “Porn For Women” books floating around. Instead of dirty pictures, the books are full of men doing housework, taking care of babies and being really interested in what women have to say. The latest of this series is Porn For Women Of A Certain Age, a collection of pictures and phrases specifically for the more mature gals. While “Just how long do you plan on defying the laws of gravity?” and “I just don’t get this whole trophy wife thing” are pretty hot to hear… when it comes to porn, I think it should involve sex - or at least nudity. Read the rest of this entry »
Earlier this month I ran a workshop on anal play for a local toy shop. Since the class turned out so great and people had so many great questions, I decided to share my handout with our HM4Her readers to make sure that you guys are getting the best of the best when it comes to sex education. There was so much info that I had to break it into two parts (check out Intro to Anal Play, Part 1)! What what in the butt, let’s get to it!
In the first section I covered all the basics of why people have anal sex, the fears surrounding anal play, the expectations involved with anal sex and all of the basic anatomy of the butt. Now we get to talk about safety, prep, techniques and toys - all the super sexy good stuff!
Safety Basics
- Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you are doing something wrong.
- Lube, Lube Lube, Lube, Lube! When it comes to butts, you can never use enough lube! Your ass does not self lubricate (like a vagina) so lube is super, extra important. For anal sex, thicker lubes are great. Your best bet is either silicone or water-based lube (as oil-based lubes can weaken condoms, if you are using them), but remember that you cannot use silicone lube with silicone toys. Also remember to add more lube frequently. If you think you’re using too much lube, add some more. Read the rest of this entry »
that this picture makes Glitter seem like a respectable career move.
Apparently she was impersonating Eminem for her new music video. Funny though, in all his years of performing, I don’t think I’ve ever seen Slim Shady with facial hair. Maybe it was extra touch just for Nick? We like to think so.
Adam & Eve Pictures features the hottest XXX stars, the latest technology, the best special effects, and even closed-captioning for the hearing impaired. Adam & Eve movies mainly aim towards couples and developing stronger storylines than other studios in the adult industry.
Burning Angel Entertainment - a film production company spawning from its Internet cohort, BurningAngel.com – was officially born in January 2006. Owned and founded by the edgy, punk princess, Joanna Angel.
Abby Winters is dedicated to showing her models' natural appeal in all its splendor, featuring amateur Australian girls - happy and having fun.
Morty Diamond Productions is a company that specializes in making the best in transgender and queer erotic movies.
Authentic, explicit, erotic lesbian videos, made by lesbians for lesbians.
