I’m not going to get into all the hairy details, but I am having a bad week. Little seems to be going right and I am longing for the weekend to be able to hide under my blankets and just ignore the world. But instead of being a total killjoy, I figured I’d rock a mixtape rewind that’s a little more inspirational and a little less Debbie Downer. And no, it’s not Enya.… More
To combat their increasing Chlamydia rates, the U.K. is allowing the antibiotic that treats Chlamydia to be sold over-the-counter. While the patient seeking the drugs must be over 16 and will still need proof of diagnosis, the treatment will not be far easier for people to access. The mail back kit test results will even have tear offs to give to partners so they can get treatment too. Can you even imagine!?! A government that proactively deals with sexually transmitted infections and a health system that works with the patients to get them well. Pure craziness, I know. I wonder what’s next, access to healthcare for all? Pigs would fly! Ok, enough with the snarkiness. Find out more info here.… More
Reccently it’s been reported that French First Lady Carla Bruni has slept with 15 people. This, of course, triggered another session of the great slut debate – otherwise known as ye ole question “how many partners is too many partners?” Some people are totally astonished with Bruni’s staggeringly high 15, while others are blown away by her paltry 15. It’s really a lose lose conversation. My big inquiry is why do other people feel they need to judge others personal decisions and comment on them? And why is one number of sexual partners better or worse than another? I know we are all guilty of these judgements from time to time, but seriously, can we really pinpoint extactly what actions make one woman healthy and sexually active and another woman a promiscucous slut? And what’s so wrong with being “slutty?”
See what sex advice/cupcake goddess Rachel Krammer Bussel has to say about the debacle here. Definitely check it out.… More
And now back to your regularly scheduled programming. I know I just link lurved on Friday, but I wanted to bring it back to it’s regular hump day occurence. Plus, there are lots of interesting things goin on in the world and I wanna talk about em!
- I’m not sure whether this Voice Activiated Rabbit vibe is a good idea or a bad one. It could be the answer to lots of women’s dreams – speeding up with every “oh yes!” Or it could end up being just another partner we have to give instuction to. I get the idea behind it, but I am cynical until I test it out myself. I will, however, be perfectly open to someone sending one over to try out. It’s for the good of research, after all.… More
If I invited Nina Hartley to come to my house and shoot a porn video, this is what I would want it to be. Well, minus the big blond hair and tacky sofa, but you get the point. This movie is so great because it’s not only super hot to watch Nina Hartley fuck Jan up, down and sideways with her tongue, fingers and cock, but it looks like they really had fun while making it.… More
Maybe it’s just me, with my crazy liberal lezzie opinions, but I think birth control is a good thing. Giving women control over their own bodies and reproductive rights – shocking idea, I know. Come on people, the pill has been around since the 60s, so why it is so hard for us to sell it for what it is? No, we market it as period control!… More
I’ve always been a fan of short stories. Whether I’m reading or watching them, I really enjoy small vignettes into people’s lives, even if they are fictional. That’s one of the reasons I like Playgirl DVD’s fantasy videos so much. With little snippets of plot and narration, you get all the benefits of a bunch of sensual scenes without the long, drawn out plot that some movies can end up having.… More
As The Porn Librarian mentioned in her Mixtape Rewind, we are having a big party tomorrow night to celebrate HotMovies.com reaching its 100,000th movie! I am really excited about this party, but also planning it, so I am super busy today. Still, I wanted to stop in quickly, between picking up snacks and gift bags, to throw down a little link love before I get totally swept away with this party madness.… More
Back at last! With Blogher, vacation and the “I’ve been out of the office for ten days” shuffle when I returned, I haven’t had a chance to blog at all! But thankfully I have returned in one piece and am ready to hit the ground running again with updates galore!
First up, let’s talk about the Blogher conference. It was awesome. It isn’t often that women create a space like that for themselves where techology and personality meet up and it was really cool to see it in effect. That I and got to meet a ton of really cool chicks! I was really lucky to meet fellow sex blogger Fivestar on the first day. Not only does she write for a porn site as well, she was seriously the only other sex blogger there. And queer to boot! We totally brought sexy back to all the mommy bloggers that didn’t get how our blog topics had something in common. Come on ladies, 9 times out of 10, sexin’ is what makes you a mommy in the first place! Anyway, Fivestar also interviewed me for her site, which you can see here.… More