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J.D. Bauchery
In West Philadelphia, born and raised… ok, not really, but I am from Philly and I'm pretty fresh, but more in a frisky-fresh way and less in a hip-early -'90s-Will-Smith way. Along with being a total pervy, dirty birdy lezzie queer, I am a hardcore pop culture junkie that stumbled into the world of sex and porn and debauchery as first a Women's Studies major and later a Human Sexuality grad student. Oh yeah, you read right – you've got an academic dirtbag on your hands. Lucky you.
As a Master of Sex (education) and a lover of all things wordy, it was just a natural progression to becoming a sex writer. Of course working in porn and spending my free time running sex ed workshops means that I basically eat, breathe and sleep sex. Really, I'm ok with that. It also means I've lost all social graces regarding what's okay to talk about in public and what should probably be left in bed. I guess it just comes with the territory.
To sum me up – I'm blunt. I like to fuck and am not afraid to say it. Screw me hard to win my heart. The phrase "making love' just makes me nauseous and if you aren't talking dirty, you aren't talking me out of my pants. I am unapologetically me and you wouldn't want it any other way. I promise.
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Every once in a while I come across a movie that I swear up and down that I have reviewed… and then I can’t find the review anywhere. Of course, the reality is that no, I haven’t written a review about it – I’ve just watched it at home so many times that I know the movie intimately. That’s just the case with Dolores Park Studio’s Brunch Bunch. Not only have I watched this super hot queer flick a number of times, I actually have written about it, both for HotMoviesForHer and not, but never wrote a formal review. Well, here it is, friends, my official commentary on Brunch Bunch: Queerly SF (Disc 1).
 Along with being from the makers of Trannywood Pictures, this debut from Dolores Park Studios is also directed by Trannywood alum Ian Sparks, which means it offers up the same deliciously queer sextravaganza that we are accustomed to enjoying. The basic premise of this flick brings a bunch of hot friends together for a lazy weekend brunch that ends up exactly like you’d expect a lazy brunch in San Francisco to end up – in a seriously sexy queer fuck fest that infiltrates every room in the house – including the kitchen. Man, I totally miss living there sometimes.
One of my favorite parts of this movie is that it includes new porno performers as well as folks that already know the ropes, like Syd Blakovich, James Darling and Drew Deveaux. Having those variations creates a dynamic that is really exciting to watch. I also really enjoyed watching trans-identified folks with a whole bunch of different bodies play together and experience pleasure in a ton of various ways. It’s always awesome to see folks get off in the ways that work best for them, as well as important for other people to see that there is no one way to use your body, no matter how you experience your body. While this may not have been made with a teachable moment in mind, this sexy educator just brought it there.
I’m not going to get into the details of each scene, for time’s sake, but just know that all four scenes are totally aces and definitely watch-worthy. If hot queer action is your thing, you’ve just hit the motherload. I can sum this whole movie up with just one word: Yum. I guess it does make sense, because brunch is the best meal of the week…
Watch “Brunch Bunch: Queerly SF” Now!
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Our lives these days are busier than ever, with work, school, family and all sorts of other responsibilities looming over our heads. While sex is a great stress reliever and escape from all of these things, sometimes our bodies can unwind faster than our heads and we end up getting into sexy action, but still thinking about the electricity bill, or what’s on your to-do list for tomorrow. Staying in the moment during sex means really keeping yourself engaged in what your body is up to – which can help create stronger bonds and even sexier sex. This week we offer up 4 helpful hints to staying present and focused during sex.
 Make sure you are connected to your partner before the clothes come off. Sure, it may sound hokey to some, but spending a few minutes snuggling with your partner or looking into their eyes to make sure you feel close to them can mean a world of difference when you are getting busy. Even taking a moment or two to just talk before jumping into the sex might just help reignite the passion.
Utilize your five senses. Sometime it is easy to forget that sex is a full body experience. While we usually have our genitals and mouths involved, it’s easy to overlook all of the delicious smells, tastes, sights, textures and sounds that bodies make. If you find yourself drifting away in thought or distracted by something unrelated, try focusing on one of your senses to bring your head back into the game. A great example of this would be to focus on all the sounds that are happening while you are giving your partner oral sex. Slurping, moans, the sounds of their hands on the sheets, your hands on their thighs – there is so much to hear!
Engage your brains. Sex can be so physical sometimes that we let our minds wander around a bit while our bodies are going at it. To stay present in the moment, try engaging your brain with a little dirty talk or role playing to keep you in the moment. Having you thinking on your toes will keep you grounded and present with what is going on.
Talk to your partner. Keep the lines of communication open within your relationship and let your partner know what’s going on inside your head. Yes, it may be a difficult conversation to have, but they might be able to help ground you when you feel disconnected and distracted. Maybe come up with a code word or phrase that will stop the action and allow you to get re-centered. Interrupting the act may feel awkward, but in the long run, it can help you feel less flighty when you are getting busy later on down the line.
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Over the last four and a half years of reviewing porn, I’ve noticed that there are very specific things I enjoy in my dirty movies, and that they change from genre to genre. For example, in my queer porn, I like there to be an awesome soundtrack, and when I watch hetero movies, I prefer to see shots from below, giving me lots of good penetration angles. In the same vein, when it comes to solo lady jerk off flicks, I really enjoy a stationary camera and no music. While there are a few studios that bring those particular features to the female masturbation movies table, the one I find myself frequenting more often than not is none other than AbbyWinters.com.
 Whether they are offering up ladies getting themselves or each other off, AbbyWinters.com always dishes out the hottest in natural women having amazing orgasms. And really, what more could you ask for? Repeating their tried and true method of mostly stationary cameras, continuous shots and unscripted action, this awesome Australian studio gives us yet another masturbation masterpiece with Girls Alone.
With ten scenes packed into roughly an hour and forty minutes, Girls Alone is just that – lots of girls alone, pleasuring themselves the ways they really get off. We get hand in vaginas, fingers rubbing clits, toys tickling pussies, women standing up, laying down, on their backs, on their bellies, in front of mirrors and even one pair grinding themselves against each other (ok, so I guess they aren’t all alone). Now that’s what I call variety! And each scene is totally void of music or noise in the background – just moaning, groaning, buzzing (if applicable) and those deliciously wet sounds that lady business tends to make when aroused.
All I can say is – what a fabulous way to start the weekend off right! I’m thinking I might just bring scenes 4 and 10 home with me for some ‘off the clock’ revisiting.
Watch “Girls Alone” Now!
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Some days you want the same old in-and-out, and other days you fancy something totally different. Today is a different day here at HM4Her, and I knew just the person to turn to – Belladonna, of course. Whether she is presenting extra large items to willing assholes (literally) or bringing her unique brand of bizarre to the screen, Bella’s work is always interesting, sexy and something totally out of the ordinary. We are so lucky to have her in the industry.
 This time Belladonna is returning to one of her favorite parts of the body – the feet. A foot masquerade, you could even say. This fancy foot party features some of the sexiest names in porn, including Kimberly Kane, Jessie Andrews (2012 AVN award winner for Best Actress), Lily LaBeau, Kristina Rose, Sinn Sage, and, of course, Belladonna herself. All dressed in fetishy finery, the group begins with a little decadent dining, at a table laid with wine and silver domes over their dishes. Before taking in the delights, they all must first apply generous coats of a dark pink lipstick provided for them. The Matriarch (Belladonna) comes in to give a small speech, letting the four seated ladies know that they have been hand-selected from a pool of over 100 women to be a part of evening. She wants them to know how lucky they are, which, I’m sure they do once the party really begins.
The silver domes come up to reveal a very special feast… feet. A pair for every lady, each toe wriggling and waiting in anticipation. The women dig in immediately, rubbing and caressing their own special set. They lick and suck each toe in ecstasy. And once they have massaged and imbibed every since inch of the flesh, they break into the toppings, covering delicious toes in whipped cream and chocolate sauce. Nope, no clothes come off. There is no foot-breast action. Just mouths and hands working on perfectly pedicured feet – for the first half of the movie (about 45 minutes).
 When the foot feast is finished, the ladies follow Matriarch Belladonna to an amazing display of naked women – all for their delight. Each woman’s face is covered with an ornate mask, as they all descend upon each other, some going for pussies, some for faces and many for feet. They just didn’t get enough in the first half of the film. Even Miss Belladonna gets in on some of the orgy action, enjoying her own personal plaything. While this is going on, there are masked women wandering around with 8mm cameras, taking footage (ha!) of the debauchery going down.
The whole thing is very random and has a tinge of strange floating through it, with the masks and disembodied feet. It’s all done in a very tasteful, artistic way. This is just the kind of stuff you get when you go for Belladonna. And honestly, thank goodness for that!
Watch “Belladonna’s Party of Feet 3 (Disc 1)” Now!
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Author:tandrluv2swing Category: Penetration
We were standing under the carport after me just having finished giving Tim a blowjob like my husband requested. Travis motioned for me to come over to where he was sitting. He started kissing me and told me it made him very turned on watching me swallow Tim’s cock. I had enough vodka to drink that I was feeling very laid back and told him he needed to do something for me since I had done something for him.
Travis asked what it was that I wanted and I told him I wanted some cock in me. Travis stood up, pulled my jeans down, leaned me over the hood of my truck and started pounding me from behind. He was really getting into it, asking me, “Is this what you want?”
I could barely do more than moan, it was feeling so good to me. I had my arms stretched out across the hood of my truck, leaning over the truck. My tits were rubbing up and down as he pounded me from behind. I was really starting to get into it when he turned me around and told me to lay down on the porch and put my feet up on the side of the carport which hung really low next to our porch. I was laying on my back with my feet propped up on the carport and the next thing I know, Travis had motioned for Tim to come over to me, and he slowly put his cock inside of me, moaning as he entered me, telling me how my pussy was the tightest pussy he had ever been inside before.
He kept moving at the slow pace until he had put the entire 8 inches inside of me. He started getting into a good rhythm, pounding my pussy good. When he started to get ready to cum, Travis pushed him to the side and then he slid his throbbing cock into me. He started pounding his cock into me just as hard and fast as Tim had been. I was on cloud nine by then, having two hard throbbing cocks taking turns pounding my pussy hard. It was more than I could take and I exclaimed,” Oh my God! I am cumming!!”
As I started to convulse with the contractions of my body, I felt Travis empty his load into me. Tim, not one to be left out, took Travis’ place and finished what he had started earlier. He only had to pound on it for just a minute until he was cumming as well. When he withdrew his cock, we all three were just sitting there on the porch, realizing that traffic had been coming by and Tim’s girfriend was inside passed out on our couch.We all three sobered up pretty quickly then.
We pulled up our pants and decided to sit down under the carport like we were and went back to drinking. Tim was the first to break the silence, saying that he had never been part of a threesome before. Travis told him that was nothing. Maybe we should take it inside and really show each other what a threesome should be like. Meanwhile, I had sobered up enough to stammer out, “Am I the only one that realizes that Lea is passed out on the couch and that this is really wrong?”
Travis and Tim looked at me and started laughing, and Travis said, “Well, if we are gonna get in trouble, we might as well make it good! Have another shot of vodka and come in the bedroom.” I did as I was told and couldn’t help but smile as I followed Travis and Tim inside and walked to the bedroom.
I went ahead and started stripping and it didn’t take them long to follow my lead. Next thing I know, I am on the bed on all fours and Travis started easing his cock into my already wet pussy. He started really getting into it, and told me he wanted to fuck me in the ass. Me always being up for that, told him to go right ahead. Travis eased his hard cock into my tight ass and started stroking it slowly. Once he had a good rhythm going, he leaned me back so that I was sitting on top of him backwards. He told Tim to come put his dick in my pussy which was up in the air the way Travis had me leaned back. I told Travis I thought there was a difference between us doing DP with a toy and with another man. He whispered in my ear to just relax, so I did, and Tim came and slid his cock into my pussy.
I had never had such a full feeling in my life! They took turns, alternating sliding their cocks into my pussy and ass, and got it going really good. Before I could even think about what was going on, that I was having my first DP, I was cumming to the strongest orgasm I have ever had! Travis and Tim slowed their pumping when they felt and heard me orgasming.
Once I had regained my composure, they attacked me again, neither one having took their cocks out of me as I came. I was squeezing my ass and pussy so hard with the pumping they were doing, the next thing I know Travis is filling my ass with his cum and Tim was saying, “Damn! I can feel you nutting! I guess that was enough for him because he shot his load of cum for the second time that night, this time in my pussy. He and Travis slowly pulled their quickly shrinking cocks out of my body.
I laid down on the bed and stretched out, realizing I had just had my first DP! I lay back smiling like an idiot, hoping that this first time for me and Travis sharing wouldn’t be our last.
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Every so often, we HM4Her ladies do a deep dive into our analytics and really get into the nitty gritty of what our viewers are interested in watching. This time around I checked into what you guys are searching for – and it looks like Deauxma is the winner! You guys love you some of this mature sexy star! To let you know that we are listening to what you want, here is a Top Five Tuesday dedicated to everything Deauxma!
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Legends & Starlets 3: This awesome series from Sweetheart Video sounds just like what it is – a collection of scenes pairing older porno lady legends with brand spanking new starlets. Yum, right? There is definitely something super hot about a whole ‘showing her the ropes’ scenario. This third installment of the series features Deauxma, along with HM4Her favorites Nina Hartley and Melissa Monet. If this is sex education, where do I sign up?
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A Woman’s Desire: There is definitely a trend when it comes to most Deauxma movies. Her lesbian videos are all about teaching younger ladies how to get busy with an experienced woman. While it does get a little old at times, this time is not one of them. Deauxma hooks up with Samantha Ryan, giving her the sexy workout of her life. This is one instance when we so very much love a lesson.
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How To Tame Your Dragon: I’m not sure if this is named after that Dreamworks’ movie about training your dragon, but either way, the subtitle lets you know that is flick is all about the cock. Scene four brings us Deauxma, along with Mellanie Monroe and Sara Jay, all on top of the nameless nerd they are cock taming. Looks like we have another educational experience in front of us – and we are ready to learn! |
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Road Queen Part 1: While Hm4Her has this series up to Part 19, I wanted to start at the very beginning, as Deauxma was there from the inception of this hot hitchhiking collection. I don’t know about you, but if this smokin’ mama was driving by my outstretched thumb, you better believe I’d be hoping into her ride any day! |
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The Cougar Club 3 – The Sex Pact: Deauxma goes extra young in this Sweet Sinner flick as she takes to bed with her super sexy 18-year-old college advisee. The boy in question, Frederick Way, really is totally foxy and the pair are amazingly hot as the action heats up. I don’t know about the rest of the movie, but scene one is terrific!
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So impressed with Deauxma! Thanks for searching this awesome star out!
xoxo
-JD
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HotMoviesForHer.com welcomes guest blogger Maxxters to the fray, bringing y’all a look at how porn differs from reality.
Porn is great. I fucking LOVE porn. It helps me orgasm easily when I’m on my own, it’s a fun thing to add in when being sexual with other people, and it gives me new ideas for positions or activities to try. But there’s no doubt that porn has its downside. Yes, some people can get addicted to it, but I’m not going to cover that aspect of it. However, if you’re finding that your porn viewing is negatively affecting your life, then it’s time to get help. What I’m focusing on here is how porn often differs from reality. This isn’t all that big an issue for those of us who are sexually experienced and educated. But for the teens that grow up watching this stuff and never actually learning that this isn’t the way that sex usually is in real life, it can be a pretty huge issue. It can lead to them feeling dysfunctional, not being a good sexual partner, that there are things wrong with their body, that their partner isn’t any good at sex or will have way too high expectations overall. So here are my thoughts on the differences between porn and reality.
The most obvious observation is that women in porn are incredibly sensitive to sexual stimulation. Just one touch sends them into moans, screams, body spasms or orgasm. Unfortunately, this isn’t how most women respond in real life. The average time it takes for a woman to reach orgasm is 30 minutes. This usually requires a variety of different fingering, oral and/or penetrative techniques. Only around 25% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. The vast majority need clitoral stimulation in order to climax. Then there are the women who are actually never able to reach orgasm. Try not to make orgasm the goal of sex. Instead, make it your mission to figure out all the spots on each other’s bodies that can make you go wild. There’s also the issue that many women aren’t that vocal or active in bed as most porn stars. If you want your partner to be more vocal and take a more active role, then talk to them about it!
Another obvious feature is the way that porn stars look. Men are usually big and muscular with very large penises. The average penis size is about 5-5.5 inches long. Men comparing their penis size to the ones they see in porn only increases their chances of feeling insecure and self conscious about their size. This can actually lead to sexual dysfunction and a dissatisfied sex life. Most women in porn are very thin, with big boobs and small inner labias. This not only creates a huge amount of insecurity and body confidence issues in women, but it also gives men unrealistic expectations. Humans come in a variety of shapes and sizes and all have their own unique beauty. So yes, you do need to be attracted to the person you’re being sexual with, but make sure you have realistic expectations and never ever make anyone feel insecure about the way they look.
Porn stars engage in a huge variety of sexual acts. Many people in real life aren’t quite as sexually adventurous and aren’t okay with trying certain things. The pressure on women to have anal sex is steadily increasing. While it can be incredibly enjoyable, some women simply do not want to try it, have had bad experiences with it in the past or just don’t enjoy it at all. No one should ever be pressured into doing something they don’t want to do. So respect your partner’s boundaries and try to find compromises or other acts that you’re both happy to engage in.
Condoms are rarely used in porn. In real life, you need to glove up unless you’ve both been recently tested (and have clean bills of health), are monogamous and are on another form of birth control (unless you’re looking to have kids). If not, you’re putting you and your partner at risk.
Porn doesn’t show the “behind the scenes” stuff, or the awkwardness/silliness that can happen during sex. Rarely do you see them grab some lube for when the girl isn’t getting wet enough on her own. You also don’t see just how much lube is needed to have enjoyable anal sex. It’s unbelievably common for men to have issues with getting hard, but rarely, if ever, will you see that in porn. Same with premature ejaculation or even not being able to reach orgasm. You never see them having to deal with what happens to the semen after the guy has cum. Whether he does it onto her body or inside her, it needs to be cleaned up somehow! You’ll never see them grabbing the baby wipes or running to the bathroom to avoid making a mess. Embarrassing noises and movements happen, the penis slips out of the vagina, and other unintentional things will happen. It’s all just a part of sex.
Sex is all about having fun, feeling great, and not taking things too seriously. Communicate with your partner about your expectations and help each other out so that you can make sex as fantastic as possible. You just need to keep everything in perspective and have a good idea of the differences between porn and reality.
 Maxxters is a female in her late 20s and a former high school teacher. She taught Science and Sex Ed to 12-18 year olds. She’s currently working on her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality. She is also an aerobics instructor and personal trainer, working with those who suffer from eating disorders and body image issues.
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When it comes to porno, I don’t usually see a whole lot of father/son dynamics going on. Ok, sometimes I see those other kind of father/son dynamics, but we aren’t talking about those right now. What I’m talking about are genuine father/son conversations and real parenting, which, as you can imagine, are hard to pull off in a dirty movie. It takes a special movie to really pull it off – and Venus in Furs totally does.
 I wasn’t sure what to expect from Adam & Eve‘s Romantic Encounters, but I will say I was quite impressed with the high quality, plot-driven movie I experienced. The basic premise follows a widower as he goes along trying to date again after the death of his wife. It just so happens that the woman he falls for ends up being the woman who is dating his adult son (hence all the father and son conversations and all that I mentioned above). Known as Vickie to her boyfriend and Venus to her older suitor, the woman (Ann Marie Rios) in question ends up loving both men, but having to leave them in the end to spare the son’s feelings.
While this all may sound a little on the hokey side, I assure you that it’s actually kind of sweet and romantic, while being super hot and sexy at the same time. All of the action is nice and racy, just like women are looking for. I don’t know where people got the idea that women only want to see romantic images, but nothing down and dirty. I know I, for one, want it all! And Adam & Eve did a bang up job of bringing out all to the porno screen. Nice work!
I definitely recommend this flick if you are looking for something high quality and sexy, with a nice story, lots of sensual bits and a whole heap of hot sex!
Watch “Venus In Furs” Now!
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There are a lot of ugly sex toys out there. Like a lot a lot. But lucky for us, toy makers have gotten wind of the fact that people are becoming way more discretionary about what they are putting into (and on) their bodies – both material and aesthetic wise. In recent years, a whole host of amazingly beautiful, body-safe toys have hit the sexy shop shelves, making it more fun than ever to pick our pleasures. And this time around, my pleasure was deliciously sinful…
Sinful Pleasure is a gorgeous glass dildo from the new line of toys by Joyful Pleasure. Handmade of medical-grade, shatter-resistant glass, this duel-ended dildo is as good to your body as it is to your eyes. That’s right – Sinful Pleasure is downright mantle-worthy. Clear with ribbons of different colors swirling through it, this 7½ inch dildo belongs on display… whenever it isn’t doing its day job of getting me off, I mean. This toy is crafted with a bulbous, tapered head (read: shaped like the glans of a penis) on one side, and a rounded, spherical knob on the other, offering up two very different stimulating experiences to its user. And who doesn’t love options, right?
Sinful Pleasure is only 1½ inches at its widest point, which, for me, it a little on the thin side. I prefer to be filled just a little bit more, so I was hoping for just a midge more girth, but I still enjoyed the fullness of the hard glass (no give!) and the choice of which side to use. I also really liked the burst of added girth in the middle. It definitely gave me an extra jolt of thrill.
As with all glass toys, Sinful Pleasure was a total delight to clean. Since it is non-porous, I just stuck it in a pot of boiling water for a few minutes and voila – clean and sterilized! And speaking of hot water, you can totally get your temperature play on with this glass goddess. Just stick it in a bowl of warm water to heat it up, or cool it down in an ice water bath for a chilly time. Sigh, glass is such an awesome material!
Thumbs up for Sinful Pleasure.
Sinful Pleasure is available to buy at MyPleasure.com.
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