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Happy Humpday!  Welcome to the midweek stretch.  We are back from California now and gently returning to the daily routine, which sadly does not include hanging out poolside and handing porn to hot women.  Oh well, I guess we’d get bored if we did it every day, right?  Anyhoo, let’s get to the humpday celebrating with some Link Love!

- A Treasure Trove of Cosplay from the Swinging 1970s.  These are the works I’ve been longing to hear for my whole life.  Seriously amazing.  Thanks io9!

- A priest accidentally showed hardcore gay porn to his congregation when he connected his USB drive to his computer to show a Powerpoint presentation.  While it’s kinda funny to me, because I think all accidental porn showing is funny, it might end up costing him his job.  C’mon people, it’s just a little gay porn – nobody died.

- While we knew Hollie Stevens had breast cancer, we didn’t realize that her medical issues have gotten worse.  Also, we had no clue that she was the pioneer of clown porn, which is a pretty awesome thing to be! (via Jezebel)

- Britain’s first female porn director, Anna Span, on porn for women.

- Sey Toy shop Good Vibrations is set to open an Antique Vibrator Museum this month in one of their San Francisco stores (on Polk St.).  Pretty exciting!

- Scientist use real science to prove that Santorum’s claims about porn are false.

- Porn director Jincey Lumpkin interviewed fellow director and real-life submissive Madison Young.  Yum.

- And lastly, Jezebel’s March Madness with Sex vs. Chocolate is over and a winner is declared.  Missionary Position, we salute you!

Hope this gets you through the week!

xoxo
-JD

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Dinah 2012 was a total blast and I was loving being all up in the mix with thousands of lesbians.  Seriously, I’m not sure I’ve ever experienced so many awesome ladies in one spot having so much fun together.  While it was awesome and I can never get enough of the all-girl action, I thought it was time to toss in a little hetero lovin’.  Changing things up never hurts and I certainly don’t want to give you guys too much of a good thing! Today’s female-male match up is Take Me from Dane Jones.

It isn’t often that a porno description really grabs my attention, but there was a line that caught my eye in this one.  “Girls like Morgan don’t come along very often. Not only is she smoking hot, she also holds a Master’s degree and speaks four languages fluently.”  It does go on to talk about how much Morgan likes anal sex, but I loved the idea of her brain being cause for the turn on.  Sure, many of us turn to porn in a fit of horniness and need for visual stimulation during a hot and heavy solo session.  BUT, I like the idea of being drawn to someone’s brain even in a porno.  Smart people are hot and I’m totally into making them part of my smut.

In just over 20 minutes, we get to watch 2 long lost friends finally do the getting on they always wanted to do.  At first Morgan tries to resist Martin, but he is determined to live out his fantasies with her.  His persistence made me a little uncomfortable at first, but it soon becomes apparent that she is totally into sexing him.  Whew!

Martin has a rather nice cock – it isn’t huge and has some nice girth to it.  Apparently, Morgan liked it too.  When she rides him you can see her delicious white lady juices all over him.  I love knowing that he was making her feel so damn good!  Eventually, the two make spoons and Morgan guides his cock into her ass.  I have to say, I would have liked to have seen a little more lube used.  You can never have enough!  She climbs on top for a bit, then on to her knees for a little anal lovin’ from behind.  He cums on her ass while she massages her pussy and all is right in the world.

Take Me is yet another porno win from Dane Jones.  If you’re into hot hetero quickies (and butt sex), you’ll definitely enjoy this one.  I liked the little story line leading up to the sex and they absolutely had all the right moves.

Watch Take Me now!

Love,

Giner

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It was an amazing 6 days at The Dinah 2012 in the beautiful Palm Springs.  You’ll be getting a full on recap very soon, but I just wanted to let everyone know that we have returned.  It was a glorious week of handing out free porn, vibrators and talking about all of the awesome things that sex positive feminist porno has to offer.  We got to do all of this while living it up poolside in the sun and at some seriously bumping dance parties.  We got in a couple of great interviews, some unexpected new sex toys for review and even bumped in to a couple of friends from the adult biz that were happy to chat it up with us and let us know about their upcoming projects.  I’ll stop there and leave the details for the official recap.

Until then, enjoy the sneakiest preview ever – our smiling faces in front of our HotMoviesForHer banner.

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After nearly a week of 24/7 lesbian debauchery, I figured I start of this next week just the same.  Whenever I’ve got a hankerin’ for quick and dirty lesbo sexin’, I go straight to Lesbea, who offers up smokin’ shorties that get me hot and bothered from the start, and then quickly go about their naughty business.  Within 20 minutes, I am back to work and ready to get on with my day.  Sure, that may not sound very sexy to some people, but to others (busy ones), getting in – getting off – and getting out is just what the pervert ordered.

Without plot or back story, these two women get right into their kissing, licking and sucking, and don’t wait too long before taking it all off. According to the description, these women are Adriannaand Eufrat, just home from a night out together, where they could barely contain themselves.  As hot as it would have been to see them squirm, I’ll admit that I’m a lot happier getting right to the action than having to sit through a whole thing.  I’m here for the fucking, so let’s get to it.

The sex between these two is rough and raw, while being tender and full of chemistry at the same time.   From what I can tell (and I’ve been watching porn for a good long time, so I can usually tell), these women are totally enjoying themselves, even though I’ll admit that it looks like either of them have actually encountered a pussy before.  Maybe that’s just my perception, anyway.  Whatever the story, these ladies are totally into what’s going on, and really, that’s what actually makes the whole thing for me, so thanks Lesbea.

Watch “After Party” Now!

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Hello and welcome our weekly sex to review – The Dinah edition.  We’re here in sunny Palm Springs, giving away lots of free porno minutes to tons of beautiful women.  Rough job, right?  We didn’t want to send the ladies off unarmed so we decided to give away 100 vibrators this year.  I know.  We’re like the fairies of fucking.  Go ahead, tell us how amazing we are.  However, we certainly cannot take all of the credit for giving away the best swag ever.  The amazing folks at Good Vibrations supplied us with all of the vibes – Bliss Bullet vibes to be exact.  We are so appreciative for all of the orgasms they will be assisting in this weekend.

Here are the facts:

The Good Vibrations Bliss Bullet small bullet vibe made from body safe ABS plastic featuring a wired remote control.  It has a dial control that ranges from low and slow to buzzy and intense.  The bullet itself measures 2 1/4″ long and 1 1/8″ in diameter.  The remote fits nicely in our hand coming in at 4 1/2″ x 1 3/4″ x 1/2″.  The cord is 30 inches long so there plenty of distance to handle your business and comfortably work the remote.  The Good Vibrations vibe takes two AAA batteries that are not included.  Sorry, ladies!  It is not waterproof, so no playing with it in the pool!

This bullet vibe packs a nice little punch, although I prefer medium speed and it definitely delivered there.  It definitely a basic toy, but man does it get the job done!  It is ideal if you’re into easy to use toys or as an addition your dildo or strap on fun.  One of the things I love the most about The Good Vibrations Bliss Bullet is that it is totally easy to travel with!  We even traveled with 100 of them with no problem.  It is ideal for the lovely ladies here at The Dinah to take home with them or on any other trip.  You can  easily tuck it away in your luggage or toss in a make up bag.  Check out J.D’s tips on traveling with sex toys.

Good Vibrations, on behalf of all of the amazing women at The Dinah, thanks for helping everyone get off.  You rock and we love you for it.  If you’re here at The Dinah, come find us and grab your free porn and a vibrator!

Get your own Good Vibrations Bliss Bullet here!

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HotMoviesForHer.com welcomes guest blogger Maxxters to the fray, offering up a look at slut shaming.

While women’s rights and sexual freedom have come a long way over the years, there’s absolutely no doubt that women are still being judged for their sexual choices. It’s frustrating and upsetting to see that the word “slut” is still commonly used in a negative way and that women are too terrified of being judged to admit to their sexual fantasies, let alone actually engage in the acts they fantasize about. However, it’s really important to discuss how both women and men are to blame for slut shaming; men aren’t the only ones engaging in it. Women can be absolutely brutal towards one another and may actually be more to blame for the persistence of slut shaming than men. All too often they gossip with each other about other girls being sluts or laugh about it with their male friends and agree with their judgments.

One explanation for why women do this is based on evolution theory. Women are competition. Period. We see a man we want and feel like we need to step over other women to get him. So when we’re threatened by one, we attack. A woman who is sexually open and discusses her enjoyment of sex is a huge threat, as women with lower libidos or who aren’t as comfortable with their sexuality know they can’t compete. Society teaches us that men want sex. So a woman who loves sex is probably good at sex and is willing to “give” it to him all the time. Thus women feel the need to make that woman appear to be of a low caliber in men’s eyes so that she isn’t as much competition.

Sexual script theory also helps explain why so many women don’t stand up for women who are being slut shamed. The theory posits that “scripts” are learned from cultural messages that tell us what behavior is appropriate to engage in. These scripts form the blueprints that specify what sex is, who we should have sex with, when, where and why we should have sex, and what sexual acts we should allow ourselves to participate in.

Society still depicts women as being the gatekeepers of sex and there is a social discomfort around overt female sexuality. All you have to do is watch any TV show like the Jersey Shore and it’s impossible not to see the double standard of how women are judged. Yes, this is me admitting that I occasionally watch that garbage. I end up promptly shutting it off though when I see the male characters making comments about how sexually promiscuous a girl has been yet they’re out there trying to fuck a new girl every night. I worry that with the popularity of that show, more and more people will be led to believe that this is okay. That it’s normal and totally cool for guys to pick up like that, but that girls are sluts and moral garbage if they do the same.

There is also the issue where women with a more conservative sexual script end up being incredibly ashamed and embarrassed for having the sexual fantasies they have. So when she’s with her friends, she’s terrified of them learning about her true desires. When a woman comes up in conversation, they’re more likely to push their own personal shame and disgust onto that girl.

Then you also have the conflicting messages where it’s clear that the media shows that women are really hot when they dress in tight, revealing clothing. Many women then dress like this in order to attract a guy (since society has taught them that this is what guys want) and then end up being judged for it. Many men will have sex with them but then claim that they don’t want to actually date a slut. Gotta love how the guy is completely ignoring his own behavior when he says shit like that. And sometimes a woman just wants to feel sexy and this is how she does it. A woman dressing this way is not necessarily doing it for attention or because she needs validation from men. Either way, it is a woman’s choice as to how she wants to dress and we should be encouraging in her being confident in the body she has. It’s about being supportive and not passing judgement. If you’re a woman, so what if you yourself wouldn’t wear that? And if you’re a man, so what if that’s not the look you’re into?

So what can we do about this? When we hear people talking about how slutty a girl is, we need to actually stand up for the girl and challenge people’s ways of thinking. What’s so wrong with enjoying sex (in whatever context they’re gossiping about)? Why do they feel the need to bully her? What is so bad about being sexually open minded and free?  Call them out on any ridiculous double standards or “social norms” that they try to use as an explanation. Either way, this has got to stop. Whether a woman doesn’t want to have sex before marriage, or if she wants to engage in orgies with new people every day and night, that is her decision. As long as she’s being safe (physically and mentally) and isn’t harming anyone in the process, there is nothing wrong with what she is doing.

Maxxters is a female in her late 20s and a former high school teacher. She taught Science and Sex Ed to 12-18 year olds. She’s currently working on her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality. She is also an aerobics instructor and personal trainer, working with those who suffer from eating disorders and body image issues.

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Since we are away in lesbian paradise (aka The Dinah), I figured I would change things up a bit and go strictly dickly with today’s review.  That’s right, I am going gay!  Of course, that’s not to say that women, whatever orientation they happen to be, aren’t interested in gay porn – all I’m saying is that the super Sapphic overtones of the week must have some folks craving a deep dicking, and I am happy to oblige.

This time around we head overseas to the UK, where a set of handsome hard bodies are hot, hung and ready for action.  But lest you think this is JUST a fuck romp, I think it important to point out that this UKNakedMen title is also a commentary on class and social station in life.

The premise is basically working class dudes (ie. firemen, construction workers) banging white collar businessmen /foremen wearing fancy suits.  The message is really saying that under their respective “uniforms,” these guys are all horny muscle men that want to fuck – that if you take away our outward differences, that we are all, in fact, humans with the same basic needs.  I bet you didn’t expect to get a deeper meaning with your smut today, now did you?  Consider it a twofer.  Anyway, on to the sex!

The delectable Issac Jones leads this six scene cock fest with a building ordinance violation inquiry gone awry.  And by ‘awry,’ obviously I mean totally sexy and full to the hilt with hardcore pounding and blowjob action.  I mean really, how else is that type of permit issue going to take care of itself?

The next scene is a narrated story between an office worker and his building’s newest maintenance man.  And not only is this dude fixing stuff left and right, he’s doing it all wearing some sort of coverall that features two parallel vertical zippers on the front.  It only makes sense that the office guy would pull them down simultaneously to access Mr. Fix-it’s rock hard dick, right?  It’s the best way to get his cock sucking on.  Shockingly, it doesn’t take them very long to remove the rest of their clothing as well.

Ooooh, scene three brings us an electrician with a giant hole in his jeans – one that just so happens to prominently display his man meat.  And ooops, he slips while balancing on a beam and just so happens to fall directly into a web of rope and wires that strangely work perfectly as a sex swing.  How convenient!

The rest of the flick follows suit (ha, pun!), offering up suits versus hard hats in the form of super hot man-on-man sexin’!  Oh, and thanks for the excuse to comment on class distinctions and how pointless they are once the trappings come off.

Watch “Hard Hats Sharp Suits” Now!

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Greeting from palm Springs!  We are soaking up the sun and chatting it up with some of the most awesome ladies we’ve ever met.  Are you jealous?  You should be.   I am totally loving this life, but I wanted to go ahead and remind you that we still have love for the boys too.  I am doing so by giving you part two to Monday’s review of Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Pegging review!

I already discussed the awesomeness that is Tristan Taormino and how great she is at being a sex educator.  She gives us a thorough lesson on pegging – the how’s, the why’s and the what for’s.  She gets us started and sees us through to the end.  If you missed it, you can take a look at Monday’s Review here.

We start out with a Wolf Hudson and Dylan Ryan match-up.  Yes!  I love these two together.  They are great at communicating their wants, needs, likes and dislikes.  They have no problem telling the other where to go and how to do it in the most welcoming and honest of ways.  I love it!  Communicating is key to fantastic sex.  You can definitely learn from these folks!  We really get to watch them go step by step with a little non-butt-play for warm up, the use of a nitrile gloves for safety and the application of lube.  Watching Dylan use her fingers stimulate the interior of Wolf’s ass is so very hot!  They get to the pegging and you can totally tell the Dylan has all the right moves.  What I love the most about this scene is that she does a great job of demonstrating that not only is it possible to provide him with pleasure during strap -on play, but that it is also possible for the female bodied half to pleasure themselves while giving it to him.  Again, pay attention!  When giving anal pleasure to a man during strap-on play, you can totally get some clitoral stimulation out of it.  The base of the dildo, inside of the harness or possibly a little vibrator can provide you with friction in all the right ways.  This is intensified when you are deep in his ass and able to get into a grinding motion during skin to skin contact, which Dylan definitely does.  She gets into it so much so that she brings herself to orgasm and oh my fucking god it is hot.

Our next pair is Christian XXX and Jade Fire.  This is another great match up.  Christian’s big buff body looks great up against Jade’s petite curvy frame.  His huge hands make her look so darn tiny when he touches her!  Anywho, I love the pegging action here.  Miss Fire really knows how to pump Christian’s rear end just right.  You can tell that he loves having his backdoor played with whether it is with fingers or a dildo.  Besides the amazing sex, I love watching Jade Fire put on her nitrile gloves.  She has really long fingernails and covers the tips of them with cotton before putting the gloves on.  This way she can keep her nails any which way she chooses while still giving Christian anal pleasure with her fingers.  I love that ladies get to see this demonstrated!  I also love that these two display how it is possible and quite simple for a short female and tall male to get their pegging on.  In addition, these two are just the epitome dripping hot sexiness.

Finally, we have Jiz Lee and Mickey Mod bringing up the rear… heh.  These two are super sensual and know how to play the staring game like no other.  There is equal parts eye fucking to strap-on fucking.  They have a great connection and I love seeing how focused they are on each other.  Once the strap-on play is done they make their way to the shower for some dirty time under the water.  Jiz receives Mickey’s cock this time!  For me, the standout moment was watching these two jerk themselves off into the sunset.  I love shared masturbation.

In case I haven’t made it clear, this porno is educational and perfect for even just some spank bank material.  You get all of the info and all of the yuminess in one movie.  Also, be sure to watch the extras at the end.  You can get some really useful info, like how to give yourself an enema.

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Happy Humpday!  Welcome to the midweek stretch.  Ok, I do admit that as I write this, it’s actually only Tuesday, because on Wednesday Ginger and I will be flying across the country to Palm Springs to represent lady porno at The Dinah.  But instead of leaving you pervs high and dry, we wanted to make sure to celebrate the weekly hump with a little Link Lovin’.

- Check out this pseudo-creepy vintage postcard of French opera singer Félix Mayol – whose face is fashioned out of naked ladies.  So neat and weird at the same time!

- Also neat and weird at the same time – erotic cakes… or more accurately, people eating erotic cakes.

- A linguistic history of cocks, dicks, and nuts.  Who knew some folks have referred to labia as cock? Not me!

- The dangers of using porn as your only form of sex education.  Well, when you are only offering abstinence education, where do you expect folks to get their information?

- Who knew Dr. Seuss wrote a book for adults about the seven lady Godivas, a group of nudist sisters?  Want to read!

- Random things that can make a woman orgasm.

- And lastly, how awesome is this geometric porn?!

Hope this gets you through til the weekend!

xoxo
-JD

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We just landed in beautiful Palm Springs, California and it is glorious!  I am so excited to experience my very first Dina Shore Weekend.  Since I am literally heading to the pool in 5.7 seconds to spread the good word about HotMoviesForHer, I thought it would only be fitting to review Poolside Beauties.

This porno is from Danni’s Hard Drive.  I must admit, I have become a fan of their movies.  They are usually short and feature my kind of action.  The performers are genuinely into banging one another and are easy on the eyes.  The movies are quality without being overproduced.  I don’t feel like any special effects are needed, but they actually take care and give me good camera angles and quality performer.

This particular porno stars 3 lovely ladies who are (surprise) spending some time together at the pool.  Initially, their intentions are to lay by the pool and soak in some sun.  Naturally, as soon as they help each other rub their sun tan lotion in, things heat up.  They give each other the rub down until finally it is time to take a dip in the pool.  This is where the real fun begins!  Each lady gets her turn as the other two girlies nibble on her bits.  Each gets their nipples and pussies delighted with tongues and fingers and they love every second of it!

In addition to the intense pool pervyness, I loved how they kept their sunglasses on the entire time.  They looked super cute!

You are getting a short review today.  I am far to anxious to get to the pool to sit in front of this computer for much longer!

Watch Poolside Beauties now!

Love,

Ginger

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