Reccently it’s been reported that French First Lady Carla Bruni has slept with 15 people.  This, of course, triggered another session of the great slut debate - otherwise known as ye ole question “how many partners is too many partners?”  Some people are totally astonished with Bruni’s staggeringly high 15, while others are blown away by her paltry 15.  It’s really a lose lose conversation.  My big inquiry is why do other people feel they need to judge others personal decisions and comment on them?  And why is one number of sexual partners better or worse than another?  I know we are all guilty of these judgements from time to time, but seriously, can we really pinpoint extactly what actions make one woman healthy and sexually active and another woman a promiscucous slut?  And what’s so wrong with being “slutty?”

See what sex advice/cupcake goddess Rachel Krammer Bussel has to say about the debacle here.  Definitely check it out.

Then go grab a pastry, because once I found out about the cupcake side of RKB, I can’t seem to get it out of my head.  Mmmmm. Icing. :)

xoxo
-J.D. Bauchery